Gay men are beginning to ask themselves some profound and fundamental questions -

  • 'Why does my life feel dissatisfying?’
  • 'Surely there is more to life than wild weekends that leave me back at square one?’
  • 'Why are my relationships breaking down?’
  • 'Why am I repeating the same old destructive patterns in my life?’
  • ‘How can I start to create the life I always imagined?’
  • ‘Can I have deep and meaningful conversations with a group of gay men?’
  • 'Is there more to life than this?’


What is The Quest?

Founded by Ade Adeniji and Darren Brady, The Quest takes gay men on a journey into a powerfully different way of living, free from the constraints of the past and unleashed to the possibility of the present. From here possibilities are endless and include -

  • Establishing intimate loving relationships
  • Living each moment full of vitality
  • Making conscious choices in day-to-day life
  • Living a creative life full of self discovery
  • Being more congruent in the different aspects of life
  • Experiencing a rich, considered and balanced life
  • Expressing who they are in the world
  • Journeying with a community of other gay men

Simply put, the mission of The Quest is - To transform the relationships gay men have with themselves, others and the world they inhabit.

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