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London Gays has been bringing people together for over 10 years. We run fun, friendly and relaxed social events for gay men across London – a chance to meet, chat and connect in real life.

Our regular events include:
🍻 Laid-back drinks socials in Soho and Barnet
❓ Pub quizzes
🎶 A Eurovision party
🎄 Christmas get-together

We’re a diverse, inclusive group – welcoming gay men of all ages, ethnic backgrounds, and life experiences. Whether you’re new to London or just want to expand your circle, you’ll get a warm hello at the door and plenty of chances to meet new people. Our team of mixers are always on hand to help everyone feel included. If you're feeling a bit nervous, why not come along with other gay male friends.
Our main features:
💬 Gay men only – open to all backgrounds and life stages
🤝 A personal welcome at every event
💷 Events run on a pay-what-you-can basis – no one’s excluded due to cost
🎉 A friendly mix of newcomers and regulars every time

Got an idea for an event? Want to help out as a volunteer? Drop us a message – we’d love to hear from you.

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### A few simple guidelines

📸 Upload a clear face photo – it helps create a friendly, open atmosphere. You can keep your main Meetup profile private if you'd prefer.
✅ Only RSVP ‘Yes’ if you're reasonably sure you can come – we often reserve space with venues, and accurate numbers help us manage things fairly for everyone.
👋 Be open, welcoming, and respectful – we’re here to meet people, not judge them.
🚫 This isn’t a dating or hook-up group. Come for good conversation, company, and community...though we've brought together many successful couples!
🕒 Please be on time if you can – arriving in the first half hour helps you (and others) settle in.

We look forward to seeing you soon – come along, be yourself, and enjoy a genuinely welcoming space.