London Polyamory Meetup Group

Tables are reserved for us - ask at the bar for the tables for Nickie and friends if you can't find us!

This meetup group is for anyone who is interested in openly and honestly loving more than one partner - you may call yourself polyamorous or non-monogamous or any other label you prefer, but if you are interested in having, or currently have multiple romantic and/or sexual relationships where all concerned are consenting and in full knowledge, you are welcome to come along and chat with others who understand those choices.

This is NOT a dating group of singles!  If you are actively looking for a partner, that's fine, but the group is not set up for the purpose of matchmaking, and some of our members are pretty "polysaturated" (i.e. they have as many relationships as they want and are not looking for more!)  I'd hate for anyone to come along expecting that everyone there is looking for new partners and then be disappointed.  If you are looking for new partners, look out for things like Poly Speed Dating nights, and try looking online at, for example, okcupid.com.  Come along and talk to others about how they found their partners, too, if you like.  We are a friendly group and not known to bite.  ;-)

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  • nickie{D}

    Excellent meetup - thanks to all the lovely people who attend!

    4 · September 2

  • Gemma

    Thanks for a lovely meetup, it has been great to meet other polyamory people and see that I'm not alone :)

    2 · September 2

  • antonio s.

    Hi all. In just here

    September 2

  • Shelley L.

    Alas I will be unable to attend today due to work drama. I'll be at the next one! Looking forward to meeting more poly people.

    1 · September 2

  • Dawn L.

    Hi I'm at the pub now. Where abouts in the pub would the group be meeting? It's my first time and it's a big pub, and I don't know anyone in the group. Thanks. Dawn

    September 2

    • Dawn L.

      Ah I saw the bit about the "parrot". :) Ok I will go there soon.

      September 2

    • Shaun M.

      Upper floor at the back. Look for the inflatable parrot.

      September 2

  • A former member
    A former member

    Hi Nickie - I completely understand. If you'd rather I not attend I'll respect your wishes, but I'm also happy to come along and introduce myself to you & see how you feel. Let me know what you think. Best wishes - Charlie

    September 2

    • nickie{D}

      I would prefer you to post something in the media requests part of the site - that way you can be clear about what you are looking for and only people who choose to engage with you will be involved. Also Google can be your friend. It can get very annoying answering basic questions repeatedly when all the info you need is put there and we can send you links if you get stuck!

      September 2

    • A former member
      A former member

      I'll respect your wishes & not come tonight. I'll post something as you suggest. Best wishes, and enjoy your evening - Charlie

      1 · September 2

  • A former member
    A former member

    Hi Nickie

    September 2

  • A former member
    A former member

    Hi Nickie

    September 2

  • A former member
    A former member

    Hi - I hope you don't mind me attending tonight, I'm doing research for a possible documentary, but I'm not looking for anything other than a bit of background research to understand a bit more about polyamory, so just to reassure you any conversations I have are entirely confidential and not for broadcast in any way. I'm not looking to film, take notes or get quotes! I'm just an inquisitive mind...
    Best wishes
    Charlie

    September 2

    • nickie{D}

      Hi Char

      September 2

    • nickie{D}

      Hi Charlie, we don't encourage researchers to attend our meetups. Our members come together to support each other and find a place where they can be with others who understand, not to educate researchers. I can't stop you coming but I would urge you to speak to me first and not to approach others. It may be that when we have had a conversation I can introduce you to some people I know, or I may have to ask you to leave. Hope you don't think this is rude but I take the safety of my group seriously.

      2 · September 2

  • Jemma C.

    Sorry Mum has had a fall now and am in Ludlow looking after her and Dad Will be at Lib Dem Conf in Oct will try and get there in Nov

    September 1

    • nickie{D}

      Oh dear, sorry to hear that. Look after yourself and see you when we can.

      September 2

  • Lee

    I've been thinking about getting involved in this for a very long time. I've been celibate for 2 years after a 14 years relationship. Now is the time. I just want to collect knowledge right now. I'm looking forward to some good open conversation.

    2 · August 3

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Rafaël

We just grab a coffee and speak French. Some people have been coming every week for months... it creates a kind of warmth to the group.

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