What we’re about
🍷 Welcome... If you're single, sociable, aged 40-62 (at time of joining) and live in Essex then you may be interested in joining our group - please read on...
We're all about meeting new people and making friends with plenty of fun & laughter along the way. We mostly achieve this while socialising over a few drinks in the best bars and pubs, or perhaps dancing the night away with a DJ, live band or tribute act, 🎶 💃
Whether its a free casino tribute evening (with DJ after), a 70s/80s night or a Karaoke evening you'll be guaranteed a brilliant time with like minded singles.
We also run occasional day trips, overnighters and longer breaks - all are lively and fun and offer timetabled sightseeing with pubs, meals and bar stops along the way - it's a great way to relax, socialise and get to know others 🍻🍴
◼️ HOSTED & RELIABLE...
Unlike other groups, all our events are well organised, highly reliable and properly hosted. We'll be ready to meet and greet you at the exact spot and time we say, have a chat and introduce you to others.
◼️ NO TIME TO LOSE...
Remember, life is not a rehearsal, so switch off the TV, getup from your sofa and enjoy a fab evening out with some lovely people instead. What have you got to lose?
◼️ IF YOU LIKE US...
After attending two events, if you like us, appreciate our efforts and would like to come along to more of our events, our ONCE OFF joining fee is just £19.99.
We are all volunteers and freely give up our spare time. Your joining fee is much appreciated and helps towards our annual bill from meetup.com and other running expenses. "We do all the hard work and make it happen, all you have to do is turn up and enjoy"
◼️ WE HOPE YOU'LL JOIN US SOON... 💃🍷🍻 🎶
PS: We are not a dating website, we are a social group for singles who want to meet new people and have some fun by coming along to events IN REAL LIFE.
"We do all the hard work and make it happen, all you have to do is turn up and enjoy"
◼️NEW APPLICATIONS...
New membership is only open to single, unattached people in the Essex area who are happy to supply a good profile photo of just themselves and are aged 40-62 at time of joining.
◼️RSVP (RULES)...
Your RSVP to an event means that we will be expecting you. Anyone who turns up unexpectedly (without an RSVP) or clocks-up multiple no-shows or lastminute cancellations will gain a reputation for being inconsiderate and unreliable and may be deleted from the group.
◼️BE FRIENDLY (RULES)...
Anyone who acts inappropriately or is unfriendly, argumentative or disrespectful (especially towards the organisers who give their time freely) will be deleted from the group.
NOTE: In line with meetup.com guidelines, group organisers have the right to deny or terminate memberships at their discretion (a reason would be provided).
Upcoming events
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Halloween with Redonizm @ The Cricketers, Westcliff 🍷🎶🥂💃🍺🕺
The Cricketers, 228 London Rd, Westcliff-on-Sea, Southend-on-Sea, Westcliff-on-Sea SS0 7JG, Westcliff-on-Sea, GBIt's Halloween and who better to see than Redonizm!
Get ready to experience the ultimate party with Redonizm, the electrifying 6-piece cover band from Essex that knows how to get the crowd moving!
With their dynamic twin lead singers, they bring us the best of both worlds—powerful male and female vocals that will blow you away.
From Abba to ZZ Top, they’ve got your favourite “Jukebox” hits covered!Their band is a powerhouse of talent, featuring stellar backing vocals, searing guitars, and keyboards, all driven by a super tight rhythm section. Whether you’re into rock and pop classics, disco and soul dance floor fillers, or chart-topping indie covers, Redonizm guarantees to keep the dance floor packed and the crowd singing along all night long.
Join us for an evening of great music with this unique band... and get ready for a fabulous evening at a great venue in Westcliff.... 🎶💃🎷🕺🍷
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✪ WHO CAN JOIN US HERE? ✪To join in with our group at this event, you must be a member of our group with an RSVP. We are unable to include unexpected strangers, couples and non-members.
If you are not a member of our meetup group (Southend Over 40s), simply apply to join us and then you can RSVP. Click here to join our group: https://www.meetup.com/southend-over-40s-nights-out/?action=join
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✪ RSVP REQUIRED ✪Members, please click RSVP so we know who to expect and you'll also be kept up to date with event news and any important changes.
If you later find you can't make it, please undo your RSVP asap - it's courteous, only takes a moment and could free up a space for someone else.NOTE: Members who clock-up multiple no-shows or last minute cancellations will gain a reputation for being unreliable and inconsiderate and may not be allowed to attend events with an attendee limit or may be deleted from the group.
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✪ NEWER MEMBERS ✪For newer members, don't worry about your first few visits as everyone is here to have a good time, meet new people and socialise so you're pretty much guaranteed to enjoy the evening.
Your host will be Pippa. If you don't know her, take a good look at her photo, come and say hello (no matter what she's doing) and she'll introduce you to the others.
We'll do our best to look out for you based upon your profile picture (hope it looks like you!).
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✪ MEETING SPOT & TIME ✪I've reserved the high bench area on the right hand side as you enter the pub, in front of the stage. 💃🏻
If you'd like to have a chat and get to know others then please arrive soon after 8:30pm as conversation and introductions can be difficult once the entertainment begins.
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FREE ENTRY: Pippa's B'day & George Michael Tribute @ Jazz Lounge🥂🎵📯💃🏻✨
The Lounge Jazz bar, 16-18 Aviation Way, Ryan House,, Southend-on-Sea, GBIt's my birthday and I'd like to invite everyone, (new members, regulars and couples who are members and met in our group), to join me for an evening of drinks, dancing and entertainment to help me celebrate 🥂🍷🥳
I am arranging welcome drinks for you on arrival with a complimentary drink on me (maybe Bubbles or Beer) for those arriving between 8pm and 9pm. I've reserved an entire VIP area and our own bar. Ask the concierge on arrival, and they will show you where we are. 😊
There is a full evening of George Michael hits, performed by Steve Mitchell. Regarded as a pop culture icon, George Michael is one of the best-selling recording artists of all time.
Steve Mitchell himself has had an illustrious music career, and honours George Michael perfectly in this high-energy show, filled with the hits of George Michael and Wham so we can continue partying into the early hours 💃🕺
All members of our group including new members and those who've not been along for a while are welcome to RSVP and join in. Come and meet us and enjoy a great Friday night out 🍷 There's plenty of time to chat, meet others and get the drinks in before the entertainment begins.
So why not join us from 8pm for yet another spectacular evening of entertainment, drinks and dancing 💃🥂🎶
I hope you can join us 🍷🍺💃
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✪ WHO CAN JOIN US HERE? ✪To join in with our group at this event, you must be a member of our meetup with an RSVP. We are unable to include unexpected strangers and non-members.
If you are not a member of our meetup group (Southend Over 40s), simply apply to join us and then you can RSVP. Click here to join our group: https://www.meetup.com/southend-over-40s-nights-out/?action=join
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✪ RSVP REQUIRED ✪Members, please click RSVP so we know who to expect and you'll also be kept up to date with event news and any important changes.
If you later find you can't make it, please undo your RSVP asap - it's courteous, only takes a moment and could free up a space for someone else.
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✪ NEWER MEMBERS ✪For newer members, don't worry about your first few visits as everyone is here to have a good time, meet new people and socialise so you're pretty much guaranteed to enjoy the evening.
Your host will be Pippa (as it's her birthday!) If you don't know us, take a good look at our photos, come and say hello (no matter what we're doing) and we'll introduce you to the others.
We'll do our best to look out for you based upon your profile picture (hope its a good one?).
Newer members should ideally arrive about 8pm.
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✪ MEETING SPOT & TIME ✪We'll meet at the VIP area beyond the french doors next to the main bar. Ask the Concierge on arrival and they will show you the way.
Your hosts will be standing around here from 8 pm, ready to meet and greet everybody. If you'd like to have a chat and get to know others, then please arrive soon after 8pm as conversation and introductions can be difficult once the entertainment begins.
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✪ PARKING ✪
There is ample parking outside the venue and on the street.22 attendees
The Sons of Bourbon @ The Trading Rooms, Westcliff🍷🎶🥂💃🍺🕺
The Trading Room Bar & Kitchen, 522 London Road, Westcliff-on-Sea, GBJoin us for an evening of great music with the Sons of Bourbon at the amazing Trading rooms in Westcliff....
These rock rebels will have you raising your glass to the very best of Lynyrd Skynyrd and classic Southern anthems. With authentic guitar riffs and that unmistakable Southern swagger, Sons of Bourbon deliver the gritty, heartfelt sound that defines American rock. Get ready for a night of bourbon-soaked rock ‘n’ roll. The action starts – 8:30pm.
If you have not experienced this venue before, its a great lively pub with a good atmosphere, so please click on RSVP if you want to join us for some drinks and a bit of a dance...... 🍺🎶💃🎷🕺🍷
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✪ WHO CAN ATTEND? ✪This is a members only event. Members of our group may attend with an RSVP. We are unable to include unexpected strangers, non-members and couples.
If you are not a member of our group (Southend Over 40s), simply apply to join us and then you can RSVP. Click here to join our group: https://www.meetup.com/southend-over-40s-nights-out/?action=join
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✪ RSVP REQUIRED ✪Members, please click RSVP so we know who to expect and you'll also be kept up to date with event news and any important changes.
If you later find you can't make it, please undo your RSVP asap - it's courteous, only takes a moment and could free up a space for someone else.
NOTE: Members who clock-up multiple no-shows or last minute cancellations will gain a reputation for being unreliable and inconsiderate and may not be allowed to attend events with an attendee limit or may be deleted from the group.
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✪ NEWER MEMBERS ✪For newer members, don't worry about your first few visits as everyone is here to have a good time, meet new people and socialise so you're pretty much guaranteed to enjoy the evening.
Your host will be Pippa. If you don't know her, take a good look at her photo, come and say hello (no matter what she's doing), and she'll introduce you to the others.
We'll do our best to look out for you based upon your profile picture (hope its a good one?).
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✪ MEETING SPOT & TIME ✪We'll meet on the raised area to the left as you enter the pub. Your hosts will be standing around here from 8:00pm ready to meet and greet everybody.
If you'd like to have a chat and get to know others then please arrive soon after 8:00 pm as conversation and introductions can be difficult once the entertainment begins.
We hope you can join us... 🍷🎶
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✪ CAR PARKING ✪Best to park on London Road or one of the many side roads within a 5 minute walk.
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SAVE THE DATE : Christmas Party Night (with Meal, DJ and Dancing!) 🥂🎶💃🥘🍷🕺
The Exchange Bar & Kitchen, 659 Southchurch Road, Southend-on-Sea, GBSAVE THE DATE!!
It's nearly Christmas and it's party time!
I've chosen the Exchange in Southchurch as they offer a great atmosphere, good food, entertainment, dancing and we will have the entire restaurant to ourselves...... all night. There's also the bar where we can get drinks at any time (pay as you go), and they are providing a DJ, just for us ! 🎄🎅🏻🥂💃🏻
Drinks at Bar: 7pm-7:30pm
Sit-Down: 7:30pm
Meal: 7:30pm-9:30pm
DJ, Disco & Dancing: 9:30pm-11:30pmIf you would like to join us, please register your interest now, and you will need to pay and choose your meal choice soon.
Please note until you pay, (details to follow), you are NOT guaranteed a place. 🥳▿
✪ MENU & PRICE ✪A delicious festive three course Xmas menu, followed by a DJ playing fabulous music. The entire evening will cost just approx. £30.
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✪ WHO CAN JOIN US HERE? ✪To join in with our group at this event, you must be a member of our meetup group with an RSVP. We are unable to include unexpected strangers, couples and non-members or anyone without an RSVP. If you are a couple and met in the group and would like to attend, please send me a private message.
If you are not a member of our meetup group (Southend Over 40s), simply apply to join us and then you can RSVP. Click here to join our group: https://www.meetup.com/southend-over-40s-nights-out/?action=join
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✪ NEWER MEMBERS ✪For newer members, don't worry about your first few visits as everyone is here to have a good time, make new friends and socialise so you're pretty much guaranteed to enjoy the evening.
Pippa will be your host this evening. If you don't know us, take a look at our photos, come and say hello and we'll introduce you to the others.
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✪ MEETING PLACE/TIME ✪We'll meet at the bar which is right by the main front door from 7pm to get some drinks and have a chat. We'll go to our tables at 7:30.
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✪ DRINKS & THE OLD BILL ✪Everyone must buy their own drinks from the bar PAYG. No drinks to be added to table bills. Thank-you.
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✪ PAYMENT ✪Details to follow next week when they release the menu and the price.
Last year I negotiated a discount on the cost of the meal and free wine and this year they have thrown in a DJ for free !▿
✪ TRANSPORT & PARKING ✪There is parking on some of the side streets near the Exchange.
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