
About us
🍷 Welcome... If you're single, sociable, aged 40-62 (at time of joining) and live in Essex then you may be interested in joining our group - please read on...
We're all about meeting new people and making friends with plenty of fun & laughter along the way. We mostly achieve this while socialising over a few drinks in the best bars and pubs, or perhaps dancing the night away with a DJ, live band or tribute act, 🎶 💃
Whether its a free casino tribute evening (with DJ after), a 70s/80s night or a Karaoke evening you'll be guaranteed a brilliant time with like minded singles.
We also run occasional day trips, overnighters and longer breaks - all are lively and fun and offer timetabled sightseeing with pubs, meals and bar stops along the way - it's a great way to relax, socialise and get to know others 🍻🍴
◼️ HOSTED & RELIABLE...
Unlike other groups, all our events are well organised, highly reliable and properly hosted. We'll be ready to meet and greet you at the exact spot and time we say, have a chat and introduce you to others.
◼️ NO TIME TO LOSE...
Remember, life is not a rehearsal, so switch off the TV, getup from your sofa and enjoy a fab evening out with some lovely people instead. What have you got to lose?
◼️ IF YOU LIKE US...
After attending two events, if you like us, appreciate our efforts and would like to come along to more of our events, our ONCE OFF joining fee is just £19.99.
We are all volunteers and freely give up our spare time. Your joining fee is much appreciated and helps towards our annual bill from meetup.com and other running expenses. "We do all the hard work and make it happen, all you have to do is turn up and enjoy"
◼️ WE HOPE YOU'LL JOIN US SOON... 💃🍷🍻 🎶
PS: We are not a dating website, we are a social group for singles who want to meet new people and have some fun by coming along to events IN REAL LIFE.
"We do all the hard work and make it happen, all you have to do is turn up and enjoy"
◼️NEW APPLICATIONS...
New membership is only open to single, unattached people in the Essex area who are happy to supply a good profile photo of just themselves and are aged 40-62 at time of joining.
◼️RSVP (RULES)...
Your RSVP to an event means that we will be expecting you. Anyone who turns up unexpectedly (without an RSVP) or clocks-up multiple no-shows or lastminute cancellations will gain a reputation for being inconsiderate and unreliable and may be deleted from the group.
◼️BE FRIENDLY (RULES)...
Anyone who acts inappropriately or is unfriendly, argumentative or disrespectful (especially towards the organisers who give their time freely) will be deleted from the group.
NOTE: In line with meetup.com guidelines, group organisers have the right to deny or terminate memberships at their discretion (a reason would be provided).
Upcoming events
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Echo South @ The Terrace Bar, Southend 🍷🎶🥂💃🍺🕺
The Terrace Bar, 1 Richmond Avenue, SS11JE, Southend-on-Sea, GBJoin us for an evening of great music with this unique band... and get ready for a fabulous evening at a great venue.... 🎶💃🎷🕺🍷
Essex based, female duo fronted 5 piece pub & function band; playing an eclectic mix of crowd favourite floor fillers!
If you have not experienced this venue before, it's a great lively pub with a good atmosphere, so why not join us for a few drinks and a bit of a dance this evening.
We hope you can join us... 🍷🎶
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✪ WHO CAN JOIN US HERE? ✪To join in with our group at this event, you must be a member of our group with an RSVP. We are unable to include unexpected strangers, couples and non-members.
If you are not a member of our meetup group (Southend Over 40s), simply apply to join us and then you can RSVP. Click here to join our group: https://www.meetup.com/southend-over-40s-nights-out/?action=join
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✪ RSVP REQUIRED ✪Members, please click RSVP so we know who to expect, and you'll also be kept up to date with event news and any important changes.
If you later find you can't make it, please undo your RSVP asap - it's courteous, only takes a moment, and could free up a space for someone else.NOTE: Members who clock-up multiple no-shows or last minute cancellations will gain a reputation for being unreliable and inconsiderate and may not be allowed to attend events with an attendee limit or may be deleted from the group.
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✪ NEWER MEMBERS ✪For newer members, don't worry about your first few visits as everyone is here to have a good time, meet new people and socialise, so you're pretty much guaranteed to enjoy the evening.
Your host will be Pippa. If you don't know her, take a good look at her photo, come and say hello (no matter what she's doing) and she'll introduce you to the others.
We'll do our best to look out for you based upon your profile picture (hope it looks like you!).
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✪ MEETING SPOT & TIME ✪We'll meet on the raised area in front of the stage. 💃🏻
If you'd like to have a chat and get to know others, then please arrive soon after 8:30pm as conversation and introductions can be difficult once the entertainment begins.
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FREE ENTRY : Show Me Love @ Genting 🥂🕺🍹💃🎉
Genting Casino (aka Westcliff Casino), Western Esplanade, SS0 7QY, Westcliff, GBPlease join us for a spectacular evening of entertainment, drinks and dancing at the Genting Casino for the Show Me Love party, featuring Lisa Maffia and Romeo from So Solid Crew!
Enjoy a full‑throttle night of high‑energy garage, old‑school anthems and big room vibes. Your Show Me Love favourites take over the decks - joined by Lisa Maffia & Romeo, known for their work with iconic UK group So Solid Crew.
Step into the rhythm, experience an incredible atmosphere, and celebrate the tunes that never fail to get you moving. Secure your spot today!🥂🍷🥳
All members of our group, including new members and those who've not been along for a while, are welcome to RSVP and join in. Come and meet us and enjoy a great Friday night out 🍷 There's plenty of time to chat, meet others, and get the drinks in before the entertainment begins.
For those who've not been here, don't miss out, come and join us! It's smart, glitzy, has a large bar area, stage and dance floor, and a good mixture of ages.
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✪ WHO CAN JOIN US HERE? ✪To join in with our group at this event, you must be a member of our meetup group with an RSVP. Everyone who is a member of our group may attend, including couples who met in the group. No guests or non-members (but see below).
If you are not a member of our group (Southend Over 40s), simply apply to join us and then you can RSVP. Click here to join our group: https://www.meetup.com/southend-over-40s-nights-out/?action=join
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✪ ENTRY TO THE CASINO ✪Please make your way to entrance on the far left of the building as you look at it. Reception will ask if you are a Casino member, (it's free to join but see requirements below).
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✪ ABOUT THE GENTING CLUB ✪A black membership card is required. If you do not have one then you need ID to enter. It is best to join, and registration is quick and easy at the reception desk. It takes under 5 mins but you MUST bring some photo id (eg: passport or driving licence).
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✪ MEETING SPOT & TIME ✪Please head towards the large main bar, past the dance floor, and I have a section reserved in my name on the right hand side near the windows.
Your host/s will be standing around here from 8:30pm, ready to meet and greet everybody. If you'd like to have a chat and get to know others, then please arrive soon after 8:30pm. as conversation and introductions can be difficult once the entertainment begins.
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✪ NEWER MEMBERS ✪For newer members, don't worry about your first few visits as everyone is here to have a good time, meet new people, and socialise, so you're pretty much guaranteed to enjoy the evening.
Your hosts will be Pippa and Georgina. If you don't know us, take a good look at our photos, come and say hello (no matter what we're doing), and we'll introduce you to the others.
We'll do our best to look out for you based upon your profile picture (hope its a good one?).
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✪ PARKING ✪There are ample public spaces along the seafront either side of the casino (usually free after 6pm - please check). The spaces directly outside the casino are free for any casino member visiting after 7pm (but not overnight).
Phone the casino on 01702 352919 to double check their free parking terms & conditions.
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The Blarneys @ The Cricketers, Westcliff 🍷🎶🥂💃🍺🕺
The Cricketers, 228 London Rd, Westcliff-on-Sea, Southend-on-Sea, Westcliff-on-Sea SS0 7JG, Westcliff-on-Sea, GBJoin us for an evening of great music with this unique band...
Full Of Energy & Ready To Belt Out All Your Favourite Rock & Pop Covers, with their own unique Irish/Folk Twist.Get Ready To Be Blown Away at a great venue in Westcliff.... 🎶💃🎷🕺🍷
If you have not experienced this venue before, its a great lively pub with a good atmosphere, so why not join us for a few drinks and a bit of a dance this evening.
We hope you can join us... 🍷🎶
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✪ WHO CAN JOIN US HERE? ✪To join in with our group at this event, you must be a member of our group with an RSVP. We are unable to include unexpected strangers, couples and non-members.
If you are not a member of our meetup group (Southend Over 40s), simply apply to join us and then you can RSVP. Click here to join our group: https://www.meetup.com/southend-over-40s-nights-out/?action=join
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✪ RSVP REQUIRED ✪Members, please click RSVP so we know who to expect and you'll also be kept up to date with event news and any important changes.
If you later find you can't make it, please undo your RSVP asap - it's courteous, only takes a moment and could free up a space for someone else.NOTE: Members who clock-up multiple no-shows or last minute cancellations will gain a reputation for being unreliable and inconsiderate and may not be allowed to attend events with an attendee limit or may be deleted from the group.
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✪ NEWER MEMBERS ✪For newer members, don't worry about your first few visits as everyone is here to have a good time, meet new people and socialise so you're pretty much guaranteed to enjoy the evening.
Your host will be Pippa. If you don't know her, take a good look at her photo, come and say hello (no matter what she's doing) and she'll introduce you to the others.
We'll do our best to look out for you based upon your profile picture (hope it looks like you!).
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✪ MEETING SPOT & TIME ✪I've reserved the high bench area on the right hand side as you enter the pub, in front of the stage. 💃🏻
If you'd like to have a chat and get to know others then please arrive soon after 8:30pm as conversation and introductions can be difficult once the entertainment begins.
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