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🍷 Welcome... If you're single, aged 40-59 and want to meet new people while socialising over a few drinks in the best bars and pubs, or perhaps dancing along to a DJ, live band or tribute act, with plenty of fun & laughter along the way - then read on... 🎶 💃

◼️ ABOUT US...
Whether its a free casino tribute evening (with DJ after), a 70s/80s night, a Karaoke evening, a comedy night or a meal in a lively restaurant you'll be guaranteed a brilliant time with like minded singles.  
We also run day trips, overnighters and longer breaks through the year, all are lively and fun and offer timetabled sightseeing with Pub and Bar stops along the way (for those who want to join in) which is a great way to relax, socialise and get to know others over a few drinks or meal 🍻🍴

Unlike other groups, all our events are well organised, highly reliable and properly hosted. We'll be ready to meet and greet you at the exact spot and time we say, have a chat and introduce you to others.

Remember, life is not a rehearsal, so switch off the TV, getup from your sofa and enjoy a fab evening out with some lovely people instead. What have you got to lose?

After attending three events, if you like us, appreciate our efforts and would like to come along to more of our events, our ONCE OFF joining fee is just £16.
We are all volunteers and freely give up our spare time. Your joining fee is much appreciated and helps towards our annual bill from and other running expenses. "We do all the hard work and make it happen, all you have to do is turn up and enjoy"

PS: We are not a dating website, we are a social group for singles who want to meet new people and have some fun by coming along to events IN REAL LIFE. New membership is only open to single, unattached people in the Essex area who are happy to supply a good profile photo of just themselves, are aged 40-59 and belong to less than 40 other meetup groups.

Your RSVP to an event means that we will be expecting you. Anyone who turns up unexpectedly (without an RSVP) or clocks-up multiple no-shows or lastminute cancellations will gain a reputation for being inconsiderate and unreliable and may be deleted from the group.

Anyone who acts inappropriately or is unfriendly or disrespectful (especially towards the organisers who give their time freely) will be deleted from the group.

"We do all the hard work and make it happen, all you have to do is turn up and enjoy"

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