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A casual social club for older local gay and bi men and the straight men and boys who like them, and would like to meet them in a non-bar environment (not that there's anything wrong with bars) where we can meet, converse, go out and have fun.

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Theater Outing: "The Addams Family" musical comedy in Capistrano

THE ADDAMS FAMILY features an original story, and it’s every father’s nightmare. Wednesday Addams, the ultimate princess of darkness, has grown up and fallen in love with a sweet, smart young man from a respectable family – a man her parents have never met. Everything will change for the whole family on the fateful night they host a dinner for Wednesday’s ‘normal’ boyfriend and his parents. A kooky, spooky, ooky, musical based on Charles Addams' original macabre cartoons that features the whole charmingly creepy clan. Greg suggested this. I've seen the show at 3-D Theatrics and liked it a lot. Tickets $44.50. Reserved seating. To sit together, you must Venmo/Paypal me $44.50 asap, or no later than midnight May 26. Robert May, [masked] or[masked]. No guarantee of tickets at door. Parking opposite or street parking. We will plan dinner with those who RSVP. 31776 El Camino Real | San Juan Capistrano, CA 92675 | Box Office: (949)[masked]

"Mrs. Knott's Chicken Dinner" Lunch in Buena Park

Mrs. Knott's Chicken Dinner Restaurant

Member Charlie Ordaz suggested one of his favorites: From the website: "Mrs. Knott’s Chicken Dinner Restaurant first opened in 1934 with Mrs. Knott and her children serving the first customers in their tea room. Every complete chicken dinner includes handmade biscuits, side salad, choice of cabbage or cherry rhubarb, three pieces of fried chicken and mashed potatoes smothered with gravy. For dessert: your choice of boysenberry pie or boysenberry sherbet. Many other dishes are also available including grilled chicken, salads, open-faced sandwiches and a number of appetizers. A full-service bar, serving signature boysenberry-infused cocktails, is also available." Menu: https://www.zmenu.com/mrs-knotts-chicken-dinner-buena-park-online-menu/ 3/5stars frim 2000+ Yelp reviews, $11-20+ 8039 Beach Blvd Knotts Berry Farm Marketplace, Buena Park, CA 90620 Parking: "Private lot, validated" - Yelp Please click RSVP, so we can make a reservation and be seated together.

Men-Only Nude Tecopa Hot Spring Trip (S.E. Death Valley)

Tecopa Hot Springs

Our member John is suggests a Trip to Tecopa Hot Springs (SE Death Valley) Oct. 12-14. Hot spring use is men only & nude req'd. Tecopa Hot Springs Soak & Death Valley Trip Tecopa Hot Springs Rd. & Elias Way, Tecopa, CA Saturday, Oct. 12 thru Monday, Oct. 14 (Columbus/Leif Erikson Day) Have you ever soaked, showered, etc in water that feels as smooth as silk? Well, you literally can do this in Tecopa, CA & neighboring Shoshone, CA! Not only can you bathe in the very smooth waters of the natural hot springs in the area, but this trip will be a chance to have a lot of space to hike (nude if you want if you're on BLM (national) land, which is most of Tecopa... You just have to be at least 1 mile from any road or building), and/or see the sights of a real, old-west ghost town, visit and sample the goodies at a date ranch (grows all but 3-4 of the world's types of dates - doesn't get cold enough there for a few!), see the Death Valley museum, and more! An advance deposit/pre-payment is required to attend this event. Details: http://2.ly/tecopa19 [masked] To RSVP or for questions, please email: BAMENRSVP+[masked] Or click: http://ba-men.org/rsvp/trip/

Past events (43)

Eat and Bowl at Irvine Lanes!

Irvine Lanes

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