San Francisco Bay Area Ace Meetups

Aces, aros and friends are invited to come for good conversation, meeting like-minded people and sharing in knowledge, crafts, games and commiseration at the Odd Fellows Lodge in Mountain View. We are asking you to mask up for this indoor event, masks are provided.

Meetings in Mountain View will be on Saturday at 1pm in 2026 due to location availability. They rotate each month, going to San Francisco and East Bay as well, usually on Sundays.

Asexual and aromantic folks and all the rainbow community are all welcome to attend for good conversation, snacks and occasional games. Anyone exploring asexuality is also welcome, with any questions you have, but this is a social gathering rather than an outreach event. The rainbow community consists of any queer person and children, partners, parents, best friends, cool cousins, family-of-choice and other loved ones.

The Castro Street entrance will be open and accessible. The Caltrain and VTA have a station one block away. There are several parking garages around downtown. The location is a reserved downstairs room with seating, a bathroom and a kitchen. Limited snacks and water will be provided. You are encouraged to bring any craft or game you wish to do or share on this afternoon, and any additions to the snacks are appreciated. The Hong Kong Bakery next door is recommended for a quick lunch, there are many other restaurants around.

We are actively looking for volunteers to host this event, as well as to strengthen our team and grow our community around the Bay Area. If you're interested to help out in the future, please let us know!

Update: We'll be reading and discussing "When the Angels Left the Old Country" , by Sacha Lamb.

Asexuals and allies from the greater San Francisco Bay Area and all asexual and interested bookworms anywhere are invited to join us! We're a monthly online open book club for reading some of the awesome books with asexuality, asexual characters, asexual-spectrum characters, etc. that have been coming out in the last few years.

Each month we will select a book and discuss it the next month, on the 3rd Friday. We'll be meeting in a voice channel of our meetup group's discord. The link is the event location, please ask if you need a fresh one. You're welcome to join in on any month.

Update: We'll be reading and discussing chapter 10 of “Refusing Compulsory Sexuality” by Sherronda Brown.

Asexuals and allies from the greater San Francisco Bay Area and all asexual and interested bookworms anywhere are invited to join us! We're a monthly online open book club for reading some of the awesome books with asexuality, asexual characters, asexual-spectrum characters, etc. that have been coming out in the last few years.

Each month we will select a book and discuss it the next month, on the 3rd Friday. We'll be meeting in a voice channel of our meetup group's discord. The link is the event location, please ask if you need a fresh one. You're welcome to join in on any month.