
What we’re about
contactsingles.co.uk
Every friend or partner started with the first hello!
We aim to provide a safe environment for you to make new friends and widen your social circle. We know how daunting it is for ladies to come alone to events so we can even put ladies coming alone in touch with each other beforehand. We'd like to offer this to you too guys but we know how strange you would think it was if we said we could network you with other men beforehand lol! We can only suggest that you arrive at the start of the event when we can properly introduce you into a mixed group of new arrivals and ease you in gently.
We have members from mainly 30 but we don't mind younger or older. We have big numbers at our events for Contact Singles (contactsingles.co.uk) when we hold them mostly monthly so there will still be plenty of people within your age range.
Meanwhile you will find many other events put on by our other organisers for their groups and you will see many of these events posted on this group.
Our sister London (& Hertfordshire & Essex) groups are very active with loads of events put on by different organizers. Feel free to join, with over 12,000 members between the groups!
https://www.meetup.com/single-and-social-london-over-30/
https://www.meetup.com/single-and-social-herts-and-essex-over-30-parties-events/
Toyin arranges some amazing travel events abroad and weekend breaks in this country. I take my hat off to this lady as she must be the most socially active person on Meet Up.
Featured event

BIG Pre Valentines Singles Event in London! DJ + Party! + Speed Dating, optional
BIGGEST Singles Event in London! 💖
With Intro Service, Icebreaker (optional seated Speed Dating)!
Followed by DJ + Party!
contactsingles.co.uk
Come and meet that someone special in time for Valentines Day and maybe to share your life with💖
Our events are also a great way to make new single friends!
We are back at our Gorgeous venue
The Refinery at NEW STREET SQUARE by Drake & Morgan 😍
12 New St Square, London EC4A 3BF
With its Central London location, stunning contemporary exclusive bar and stylish interiors. It is perfect for this event!
Once you book this event, please post your RSVP beside the event for February 7th. This will help you to be found after the event.
We are taking Max 250 for this big singles event
You need to book via payment link on our site contactsingles.co.uk
Text full name with YEAR of birth to 07809 709099 once you book.
We will be reaching max numbers at this BIG event and you will need to book early, as we always sell out for all of our events throughout the year.
Please avoid being added to a waiting list!
Bookings come via promotions on Skiddle, Event Brite, All Events, Facebook, Instagram (contact.singles) and our other Meet Up groups apart from this one. Contact Singles started in 1994 and members are also kept informed about upcoming events.
Book now for the BIGGEST Singles Party in London!
DJ + Party! With Intro Service, Icebreaker (Seated Speed Dating, for those who wish to take part)!
At The Refinery CITYPOINT EC2Y 9HT by Drake & Morgan
With it's Central London location, stunning contemporary exclusive bar and stylish interiors.
Arrival from 6.30pm The DJ + Party throughout the night, until 11pm.
We will be giving everyone wrist bands to wear at this busy event so we know you are registered whilst you are re entering the venue.
Tickets are £19.95 for the singles party February 7th.
Booking link for Sat Feb 7th at Stylish Venue: The Refinery CITYPOINT EC2Y 9HT is on our site contactsingles.co.uk . Once booked you need to text full name with YEAR of birth to 07809 709099 to complete registration.
Everyone who books can write their names and contact details on the cards provided by us at the venue (if you wish), which you can then pass on to anyone you would like to stay in touch with after the event.
We have the most cosmopolitan mix of sociable singles from London and the surrounding counties. Why not come along and maybe meet that someone special in time for Valentines Day and to share your life with! Our events are also a great way to make new single friends.
If female and coming alone we can put you in touch with other ladies on the female networking who are also coming alone (and/or at the event). We send these contacts before the event.
Make that change!!
See you there!
Kind Regards
Maria x
contactsingles.co.uk
07809 709099
*Free raffle tickets will be handed out and prizes will be announced before the end of the night, for attendees on the night only.
Speed dating is optional. Further details emailed once ticket purchased.
Smart/Casual Dress Code
Cloakroom available at £2 each
Cash & Card taken at venue
Any drinks/order made from the menu, are not part of the ticket
Upcoming events
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- £2,599.00

New Year, New Adventure: Celebrate in Sri Lanka Colombo Near Beach in 13 days
Location not specified yetHave you had a few too many quiet or boring New Years? Time to change the game. Pack your bags and ring in the New Year 2026 on the magical island of Sri Lanka.
Join me for golden beaches, ancient temples, wildlife safaris, mouth watering cuisine and a celebration to remember. A trip of a lifetime across the Indian Ocean, surrounded by amazing people, unforgettable experiences, and positive energy to kickstart your year in style.
Whether you're flying solo or bringing a friend—everyone's welcome!
A fantastic diverse tour that included temples, caves, tea plantations, safaris, an elephant transit centre, boat trips, train rides, excellent hotels, wonderful weather and delicious eateries.
Sri Lanka, the Pearl of the Indian Ocean, is an irresistible destination. This tranquil island boasts idyllic beaches, ancient ruins, sacred temples, verdant tea plantations, and an abundance of elephants and diverse wildlife. Immerse yourself in the magic of this extraordinary island as we journey through its breathtaking landscapes, uncover its rich history, and experience the warmth of its people and incredible natural wonders.
The name Sri Lanka means “Resplendent Island”, and nothing could be more appropriate for this lush tropical paradise. Sri Lanka’s vast forests are home to elephants, leopards, bears, monkeys and crocodiles, as well as a diversity of birdlife.
Visa
You will need a visa to Visit, please see link below for further details
Entry requirements - Sri Lanka travel advice - GOV.UK
Currency: Sri Lankan rupee
Weather: In December - January 29 Degrees
Vaccine requirements: Not needed if residing in the UK
CHECK DETAILS BELOW IF ARRIVING FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY https://nathnacyfzone.org.uk/factsheet/65/countries-with-risk-of-yellow-fever-transmission
This holiday will take place once i have 4 deposits, if i don't you will be refunded fully and trip will be cancelled.
Name of hotel will be disclosed once you have paid in full. Hotel will be of 4 star standard, we always stay at good standard accommodation.
Itinerary
Day 1 (Fri)
We fly overnight from Gatwick. This flight has one stop over on return flights
Day 2 (Sat)
On arrival to the airport we are transferred to our hotel. FREE TIME to relax and recover from our travels
Day 3 (Sun)
Today at 10.30 am we will explore Colombo for 4 hours on a city sightseeing tour by tuk-tuk. See some colonial architecture City and Dawn Town Local life, eat delicious street food, and shop for souvenirs and Find the Gem Mine. Bustling with energy all day long, this is a city of vibrant colours and rich culture, offering fascinating insights into the national psyche of Sri Lanka.
We will visit Gangaramaya Temple, Colombo Fort, Pettah bazar, Viharamahadevi Park, Independent square, Pettah Market and Galle Face Green, includes bottle of water and coconut water.
Day 4 (Mon)
An early start today pick up between 5:30 AM and 6:30 AM TBC. Day trip to Sigiriya and Dambulla and Safari. Relax and enjoy the scenic countryside—lush greenery, quiet farmlands, and misty landscapes. A breakfast stop at Café Amakie in Kurunegala (self-paid), which offers a selection of local and international dishes, before heading to Dambulla.
The safari offers a chance to spot elephants, deer, birds, and other wildlife in their natural habitat. If you are not keen on safari you can enjoy leisure time visiting batik and silk shops or indulging in an Ayurvedic massage.
The tour is an immersive cultural experience with a traditional bullock cart ride through scenic paddy fields, followed by a canoe journey across a serene lake. Upon arriving at a village home, a freshly prepared meal with authentic Sri Lankan flavors is served. A tuk-tuk ride concludes the tour, offering a chance to interact with locals and witness everyday rural life. For those opting for wildlife instead of the village tour, an optional jeep safari awaits at Eco Park, Kaudulla, or Minneriya National Park, depending on seasonal animal movement.
Day 5 (Tues) Free Time
Day 6 (Wed) New Years Eve
Let's have an easy day today or go into town etc. Details of a New Year's Party to be confirmed
Day 7 (Thurs) Happy New Year xx
A day to relax, go to the beach or swim at the hotel, shopping etc
Day 8 (Fri)
Super early start at 4am
Tea Factory, Train, and Nine Arch Day Tour
Discover Ella's natural beauty and enchanting sights on a day trip with all transportation included. Visit the Halpewaththa Tea Factory, unwind at the Ravana Pool Club, and hike to Little Adam's Peak.
The hike is 45-minute, the journey may be a bit of a challenge, but the reward of the awe-inspiring panoramic views, that await is worthwhile.
We will also visit the Ravana Waterfall, an iconic sight ranked among the country's most popular attractions. Witness cascading water amidst lush surroundings, then arrive in Ella, a charming town nestled amidst one-of-a-kind scenery.
For those seeking an adrenaline rush, get ready to experience the thrill of a lifetime on the Flying Ravana Mega Ziplinne. Feel an unparalleled sense of adventure coursing through your veins as you fly through the sky.
Day 9 (Sat) FREE TIME
Day 10 (Sun)
Early start day tour to Ambuluwawa Tower & Pinnwala Elephant Orphanage, Kandy Temple of Tooth and more
We can visit the following attractions during our full-day tour
1. Pinnawala Elephant Orphanage (need to buy an entrance ticket) Price TBC
2. Ambuluwawa Tower (Ambuluwawa Biodiversity Complex) (need to buy entrance ticket) Price TBC
3. Tea Factory & Tea estate (free entrance)
4. Royal Botanical Garden (need to buy entrance ticket) Price TBC
5. Temple of Tooth relic (need to buy entrance ticket) Price TBC
6. The great kandy culture dance show (need to buy entrance ticket) Price TBC
7. Spice garden (free entrance)
8. Gem museum (free entrance)
9. Kandy viewpoint (free entrance)
Day 11 (Mon)
Galle Fort and Jungle Beach Day Trip
Discover Galle Fort’s rich history on a guided day trip. Visit Kalutara Temple, see stilt fishermen, Madu River safari, Hikkaduwa, visit a turtle hatchery, and relax at the Jungle Beach.
Includes Guided tour of Galle Fort and surrounding attraction
- Exploration of a tsunami village
- Tickets for stilt fishermen
- Entrance fees to galle fort
- Tickets For Jungle beach
- Tickets For Fish therapy In maaduriver and crocodile
- Entry for all temples to see the culture and traditions.
- srilankan king coconut
- Taking pictures and holding turtles is free from us
- Bottle of water
Additional fees for TBC
- Turtle farm
- Maaduriver safari islands
Day 12 (Tues) FREE TIME to enjoy your last day
Early evening flight back to the UK
Day 13 (Wed) Arrival Back in the UK
What's Included
Return flights from Gatwick
Luggage allowance
- 1 x 7kg cabin bag per person (50 x 37 x 25 cm)
- 1 x 23kg hold luggage items
B&B (Bed & Breakfast)
Return transfers to the airport
Tuk tuk city tour
Day trip to Sigiriya and Dambulla and Safari
Tea Factory, Train, and Nine Arch Day Tour
Ambuluwawa Tower, Pinnwala Elephant Orphanage, Kandy Temple of Tooth and more
Galle Fort and Jungle Beach Day Trip
Not Included
Lunch
Dinner
Drinks
Tips
Possible hotel taxes
Any thing not mentioned above
Price £2599 Non refundable unless trip is cancelled
(Dated Trip Posted 22/04/2025)
Single supplement (Own Room) £2999
£100 off if deposit paid by 22nd April
WITHOUT FLIGHTS AND TRANSFERS
Get your own flights and transfers return from the airport £1750 if sharing or own room £2099
Deposit £300
To be paid ASAP and ongoing payments of £300 per month on the 22nd of each month with the final payments made by the 26th of November 2025.
PLEASE DO NOT RSVP UNLESS YOU HAVE PAID YOUR DEPOSIT, OR YOUR RSVP WILL CHANGE TO NOT GOING
Funds are non refundable unless trip is cancelled
Bank account details Please pay to:
Toyin Oke (Personal Account)
Barclays
Account number 73937305
Sort code: 209467
Ref: Your name
Please message me once you have made payments in order for me to confirm.
By paying a deposit you will be agreeing to the following cancellation policies:
Click here to see Get A Social Life terms and conditions
My number just in case 07957320516
PLEASE NOTE THERE MAY BE SOME LAST MINUTE CHANGES IN REGARDS TO EXCURSIONS, WILL KEEP YOU UPDATED.
Hope you are able to join us.4 attendees 
BIG Pre Valentines Singles Event in London! DJ + Party! + Speed Dating, optional
The Refinery New Street Square, 12 New Street Square, London, GBBIGGEST Singles Event in London! 💖
With Intro Service, Icebreaker (optional seated Speed Dating)!
Followed by DJ + Party!
contactsingles.co.uk
Come and meet that someone special in time for Valentines Day and maybe to share your life with💖
Our events are also a great way to make new single friends!
We are back at our Gorgeous venue
The Refinery at NEW STREET SQUARE by Drake & Morgan 😍
12 New St Square, London EC4A 3BF
With its Central London location, stunning contemporary exclusive bar and stylish interiors. It is perfect for this event!
Once you book this event, please post your RSVP beside the event for February 7th. This will help you to be found after the event.
We are taking Max 250 for this big singles event
You need to book via payment link on our site contactsingles.co.uk
Text full name with YEAR of birth to 07809 709099 once you book.
We will be reaching max numbers at this BIG event and you will need to book early, as we always sell out for all of our events throughout the year.
Please avoid being added to a waiting list!
Bookings come via promotions on Skiddle, Event Brite, All Events, Facebook, Instagram (contact.singles) and our other Meet Up groups apart from this one. Contact Singles started in 1994 and members are also kept informed about upcoming events.
Book now for the BIGGEST Singles Party in London!
DJ + Party! With Intro Service, Icebreaker (Seated Speed Dating, for those who wish to take part)!
At The Refinery CITYPOINT EC2Y 9HT by Drake & Morgan
With it's Central London location, stunning contemporary exclusive bar and stylish interiors.
Arrival from 6.30pm The DJ + Party throughout the night, until 11pm.
We will be giving everyone wrist bands to wear at this busy event so we know you are registered whilst you are re entering the venue.
Tickets are £19.95 for the singles party February 7th.
Booking link for Sat Feb 7th at Stylish Venue: The Refinery CITYPOINT EC2Y 9HT is on our site contactsingles.co.uk . Once booked you need to text full name with YEAR of birth to 07809 709099 to complete registration.
Everyone who books can write their names and contact details on the cards provided by us at the venue (if you wish), which you can then pass on to anyone you would like to stay in touch with after the event.
We have the most cosmopolitan mix of sociable singles from London and the surrounding counties. Why not come along and maybe meet that someone special in time for Valentines Day and to share your life with! Our events are also a great way to make new single friends.
If female and coming alone we can put you in touch with other ladies on the female networking who are also coming alone (and/or at the event). We send these contacts before the event.
Make that change!!
See you there!
Kind Regards
Maria x
contactsingles.co.uk
07809 709099
*Free raffle tickets will be handed out and prizes will be announced before the end of the night, for attendees on the night only.
Speed dating is optional. Further details emailed once ticket purchased.
Smart/Casual Dress Code
Cloakroom available at £2 each
Cash & Card taken at venue
Any drinks/order made from the menu, are not part of the ticket51 attendees
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