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Every friend or partner started with the first hello!
We aim to provide a safe environment for you to make new friends and widen your social circle. We know how daunting it is for ladies to come alone to events so we can even put ladies coming alone in touch with each other beforehand. We'd like to offer this to you too guys but we know how strange you would think it was if we said we could network you with other men beforehand lol! We can only suggest that you arrive at the start of the event when we can properly introduce you into a mixed group of new arrivals and ease you in gently.
We have members from mainly 30 but we don't mind younger or older. We have big numbers at our events for Contact Singles (contactsingles.co.uk) when we hold them mostly monthly so there will still be plenty of people within your age range.
Meanwhile you will find many other events put on by our other organisers for their groups and you will see many of these events posted on this group.
Our sister London (& Hertfordshire & Essex) groups are very active with loads of events put on by different organizers. Feel free to join, with over 12,000 members between the groups!
https://www.meetup.com/single-and-social-london-over-30/
https://www.meetup.com/single-and-social-herts-and-essex-over-30-parties-events/
Toyin arranges some amazing travel events abroad and weekend breaks in this country. I take my hat off to this lady as she must be the most socially active person on Meet Up.
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4 Days Lisbon, Exploring Afro-Portuguese Bars, Music, Dance, Cuisine & Day Trip
Location not specified yet## Portugal’s Soulful Capital
Join me for a quick pick me up break in Lisbon, one of Europe’s most charming capitals, relaxed, sun-drenched, historic, and increasingly international. It blends old-world beauty with a young, creative, global energy.
Full of warm and welcoming, stylish vibes but not flashy, calm by day, soulful by nightAMAZING HISTORY & CHARACTER
Lisbon is built on 7 hills, giving you postcard views everywhere, it's one of Europe’s oldest cities (older than Rome) Influenced by explorers, Africa, Brazil, and the Atlantic worldIf we have enough time lets explore the neighbourhood
Alfama with narrow streets, fado music, old Lisbon
Chiado is elegant, literary, central
Príncipe Real is stylish, creative and social
Avenida da Liberdade full of luxury hotels, wealth and diplomacyMUSIC, DANCE & CULTURE
We will be attending lively music venues with Dj's or live music with eatery great to burn off calories after a delicious meal.
Music is central to Lisbon’s identity: Fado is (traditional, emotional Portuguese music) Strong African & Afro-diaspora influence (Cape Verdean, Angolan, Mozambican) Afro-house, kizomba, batida, hip-hop scenes thrive at night. Dancing starts late (often after 10:30pm) with a diverse crowd with great vibes.FOOD SCENE
Lisbon’s food reflects its global history:
Fresh seafood (grilled fish, octopus), African and Afro-Portuguese cuisine. Brazilian, Mozambican, Cape Verdean flavours, with great wine at very affordable prices. We can eat very well on a budget, especially outside tourist traps.PEOPLE & DIVERSITY
Lisbon is increasingly international: with Portuguese locals, African & Afro-Portuguese communities, Brazilians, Europeans, Americans, and digital nomads. Love it as it creates a diverse, mixed, stylish crowd, especially in music, food, and nightlife spaces.The country's population is diverse, with over 2,000 ethnic groups, and the most important local languages include Tsonga, Makhuwa, Sena, Chichewa, and Swahili.
Let's explore real Lisbon, not just the postcards
This trip will take place once i have a minimum of 4 people attending, full refund if less then 4 people attending.
Trip takes place from April 25th - 28th
ITINERARY
Day 1
We leave from Gatwick Airport in the morning, full detail TBC once deposit made on our arrival we are transported to our hotelLets explore once we have checked in, have an early lunch visit luxury rooftop hotels for drinks.
5pm immerse yourself in the soul of Lisbon’s history at a Fado show
Enjoy a glass of fine Portuguese wine or a drink of your choice as you watch the performance
Listen to haunting melodies and rich storytelling from the musicians
Learn about the history of Fado and its legendary figures from the artists
Discover the poetic essence that makes Fado so unique and emotional.
Immerse yourself in the soul of Lisbon’s history at Fado & Fado, where music and tradition come together in a truly unique setting. Located near the Lisbon Sé Cathedral, the venue is steeped in history, featuring the ancient stone arches of the city’s medieval wall and the old sea gate, dating back to the 11th century.Listen to Fado music, to get an idea, love it, so romantic https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJfH_WG2AjA&t=
Later we visit Djairsound an African restaurant serving Cape Verdean food with music & nightlife vibes
This joint is one of the most famous Afro-Portuguese party spot a great place for dinner that easily turns into a music night with live sets/DJ vibes from 8pm to 3 am. a unique rewarding night out.
With authentic Cape Verdean & African cuisine, music starts during/after dinner, great for social crowds & dancing after dinner.Or we can visit other restaurants the list is endless
Day 2
After breakfast we meet at the meeting point for 8.30am, a day trip to discover the best of Sintra on this day tour: magical palaces, secret gardens, breathtaking landscapes and unique coastlines. We visit Sintra, Pena, Regaleira, Cabo da Roca & Cascais for an unforgettable experience!In case you wish to visit Pena or Regaleira the guide will inform you how to purchase tickets (subject to availability) and the best way to get there. Price TBC
Includes Sintra walking tour, with free time in Sintra and Cape Rock
Ocean panoramic route from Cabo de Roca to Estoril via Cascais
Monolingual guide. Headsets to hear the guide clearly
Roundtrip transportation in an air-conditioned vehicleDay 3
Free time today
Explore Lisbon or embark on a private full-day trip to Algarve explore the Benagil Cave, Portimão, Carvoeiro, and Lagos. Experience coastal adventure admiring the stunning cliffs, beaches, and views. Additional free £155 pick up time at 8am
Does not include entry tickets for boat tour or kayaking additional fee TBCAdditional fees for Black History Guided Walking Tour, City Walking Tour or Private City Tour by Tuk-Tuk additional fees price TBC
If you are not visiting Algarve join us at 5pm prepare to have a blast on a boat party cruise with an open bar and DJ in Lisbon. Enjoy free beer, wine, sangria, and soft drinks while admiring stunning views of Lisbon's iconic landmarks at sunset.
Dance and celebrate in an unique way: aboard a boat on the Tagus River in Lisbon
Embark on a floating party on the river and enjoy the sights of Lisbon
Meet people from all over the world in an exhilarating atmosphereWe find somewhere to eat, after dinner let's continue the party at B.Leza Club it's known for legendary Afro/Latin/urban vibes at Cais do Gás with dance battles and DJs, great energy and crowd.
Day 4
Sadly our trip comes to an end. We check out or pay extra for late check out fee TBC. Our flight is late, a perfect opportunity to explore further and do some last minute shopping, there is so much to do in Lisbon. Hop on hop off coach trip fees TBCWhat's Included
Return flights from Gatwick
Return transfers to the airport
Keep coast down Travel light with an under-seat bag or suitcase, purchase case Max 45x36x20cm which fits perfectly under seat
B&B (Bed & Breakfast)
Fado Show and Portuguese With Wine or Choice of Drink
Sunset Boat Party Cruise with DJ and Open Bar
Day trip to Sintra, Pena, Regaleira, Cabo da Roca & CascaisNot Included
Luggage allowance chose own when checking in online price ranges from £40 to £50 per flight
Day trip to Algarve
Lunch
Dinner
Drinks
Tips
Possible hotel taxes
Anything not mentioned abovePrice £699
Single supplement (Own Room) £850
Non refundable unless trip is cancelled
(Dated Trip Posted 20/01/2026)
£50 off if deposit paid by 25th JanuaryDeposit £250
To be paid ASAP and ongoing payments of £250 per month on the 20th of each month with the final payments made by the April 2ndPLEASE DO NOT RSVP UNLESS YOU HAVE PAID YOUR DEPOSIT, OR YOUR RSVP WILL CHANGE TO NOT GOING
Funds are non refundable unless trip is cancelled
Bank account details Please pay to:
Toyin Oke (Personal Account)
Barclays
Account number 73937305
Sort code: 209467
Ref: Your namePlease message me once you have made payments in order for me to confirm.
By paying a deposit you will be agreeing to the following cancellation policies:
Click here to see Get A Social Life terms and conditionsMy number just in case 07957320516
PLEASE NOTE THERE MAY BE SOME LAST MINUTE CHANGES IN REGARDS TO EXCURSIONS, WILL KEEP YOU UPDATED.
Hope you are able to join us.
3 attendees 
Day Trip to Geneva: The Ultimate Swiss Experience
Location not specified yetHave you always wanted to visit Geneva?
Fancy a day in the Alps without the overnight cost? I’m hosting a day trip from London to Geneva for anyone who’s up for exploring a new city together. Full Disclosure… it’s my first time there too! 😄
So this isn’t your typical guided tour — it’s more like a shared adventure where we discover the city as we go.### What to expect:
Beautiful views & hidden gems
A bit of Google Maps navigation (team effort!)
Great conversations & easy vibes
A few laughs along the way with great memoriesWhether you come solo or with a friend, you’ll be part of a friendly, open group just enjoying the experience together.
No pressure, no strict plan — just good energy and exploration.
If you’re up for a spontaneous, fun day out come join us! Let's take our time, enjoy the sights, and savour the experience in one day.
Geneva is a beautiful and international city located on the shores of Lake Geneva, surrounded by the Alps. It's known for its stunning natural scenery, rich history, and significant role in global diplomacy. The city offers a blend of cultural attractions, historical sites, and outdoor activities, making it an appealing destination if visiting for the first time.
This is the weekend of the Geneva Marathon, so will make the city very lively, but it also means some transport and walking routes (especially near the lake and Mont-Blanc bridge) will be impacted by race closures.
GENEVA 1-DAY TRIP (FROM LONDON) – FULL ITINERARY
## ✈️
- Early flight from London Gatwick → Geneva
- Departure: 8:30am
- Arrival: ~10:50 AM (local time)
- We jump on the train to the city centre
- 11:30 AM: Arrive at Plainpalais Market (We can change the plan if markets is not your thing). The market is a great place to discover hidden treasures at affordable prices, making it a bargain hunter's paradise in an otherwise expensive city. Offerings can include Vintage items: Many vintage and other antique goods are available, as well as food produce.
- 12:30 PM: Visit to the Old Town (Vieille Ville): Explore the historic heart of Geneva. Wander through the charming streets.
- 1:30 PM: Explore St. Pierre Cathedral and Old Town alleys and soak in the atmosphere. (optional) for views Boutique shops + hidden gems. Wander cobbled streets Climb the cathedral tower. Enjoy lunch in the Old Town or over looking the lake, maybe try some local Swiss specialties.
- 2:30 PM: Walk down to the lake. Note: If the Mont-Blanc bridge is closed for runners, we will use the M1 boat from Molard to cross—it’s the easiest way to bypass the race crowds! Jet d'Eau is Geneva's iconic water fountain. It's a perfect quick photo opportunity for the group and individually, a symbol of the city. One of Europe’s tallest fountains. Relaxed lakeside walk to ease into the day.
- 3:00 PM: Possible late lunch/Fondue at or other Swiss specials
- 5:00 PM: Relax by the lake and watch the marathon finishers.
- 6.30 PM: Head back to the station for our 20:55 flightWeather Tip: May in Geneva is beautiful (around 20°C), but it can be breezy by the lake. Please bring a light jacket for the boat ride and the pier!
Currency
Official currency used is the Swiss Franc (CHF)We may consider a guided walking tour to learn about the history (additional fee TBC)
Or visit the Palais des Nations, the European headquarters of the United Nations, and see the Broken Chair sculpture.Late Afternoon (4:00 PM - 5:30 PM): Take a relaxing short boat tour on Lake Geneva for scenic views of the city and the surrounding Alps.
This will allow you to enjoy the lake before heading towards the airport.
Transportation: Geneva has an excellent public transportation system. A day pass for easy travel around the city is included on this trip.
Price: £215 per person
PLEASE DO NOT RSVP UNLESS YOU HAVE PAID IN FULL, OR YOUR RSVP WILL CHANGE TO NOT GOING. YOU CAN PAY VIA LINK BELOW BY RSVP TO ATTEND
Day Trip to Geneva: The Ultimate Swiss Experience, Sat, May 9, 2026, 8:00 AM | MeetupFunds are non refundable unless trip is cancelled
Too avoid booking fees
Bank account details Please make payment in full to:
Toyin Oke (Personal Account)
Barclays
Account number 73937305
Sort code: 209467
Ref: Your name
Please message me once you have made payments in order for me to confirm.By paying a deposit you will be agreeing to the following cancellation policies:
Click here to see Get A Social Life terms and conditionsIncludes:
Return flights from London Gatwick
Train tickets from the airport to the city centre
All ground transport in Geneva (Trains, Trams, & Boats).
Authentic Lakeside Fondue Lunch TBC (Does not include payment for food or drinks)
Tour of the UN District, Old Town, and the Flower Clock.## FLEXIBLE ITINERARY
Please note that the itinerary is flexible and may be adjusted to suit the group.
We’ll discuss plans together once everyone attending the trip has been confirmed, so we can create the best possible experience for all.If you prefer to explore independently at any time, that’s absolutely fine too, you’re free to do your own thing and rejoin the group later. Just let me know in advance.
Limited spaces available for a personal group feel.
### Safety and Insurance Advisory
To ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for your group in Geneva, it is crucial to be aware of potential risks and to have adequate insurance coverage. Please note that the organizers will not be held responsible for any accidents, damages, or losses incurred during the trip.
My number just in case 07957320516
Social Media & Photos
We love capturing the day! Group photos may be shared on Meetup and Instagram. If you’re camera-shy, just step aside during group shots
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1 attendee- £25.00

Motown Day Party @ Be At One Bar In Monument, London
Be At One Monument, 28 King William St, London, EC4R 9AT ,, London, GBThe Motown Day Party is coming in May!
Calling all soul lovers and funky movers!
Get ready for a sunshine-soaked afternoon of smooth grooves, soulful voices, and timeless classics as we celebrate the golden era of Motown. From the heart of Detroit to dancefloors across the UK! It’s all about good vibes, great music, and unstoppable soul energy!What to Expect:
Wall-to-Wall Motown Anthems
From Stevie Wonder to Diana Ross, The Supremes to Marvin Gaye we’re spinning the biggest hits that defined a generation and still fill dance floors today.Soul, Funk & Classic Groove
Alongside the Motown legends, enjoy a blend of funk, disco, and feel-good soul that’ll have you moving from start to finish.Retro Soul Atmosphere
Think vintage vibes, timeless style, and pure class - step into an afternoon of rhythm, glamour, and good times.Feel-Good Energy All Day Long
Celebrate friendship, freedom, and the music that moves us all, this is Motown, and it’s made for dancing!
Get ready to dance, sing, and lose yourself in the soul! The Motown Day Party is not to be missed.Price £25
Non refundable unless cancelledPLEASE RSVP ONLY ONCE YOU HAVE MADE PAYMENT, IF YOU RSVP WITHOUT MAKING PAYMENT YOUR RSVP WILL CHANGE TO NOT GOING.
PLEASE PAY VIA LINK TO GET A SOCIAL LIFE MEETUP HERE
Motown Day Party @ Be At One Bar In Monument, London, Sat, May 16, 2026, 3:30 PM | MeetupWhat's Included
Entry Tickets
Booking fees
Friendly Host
Dancing and singing
Meeting new people
Coming Out Of Your Comfort Zone
Host and admin feesMeeting Point
To Be ConfirmedDress up comfy to dance and mingle in the crowd, feel the Motown beats in your soul
Hope you can make it, Looking forward to seeing you for some awesome vibes.
My number just in case is 07957320516
10 attendees - £55.00

Day Trip To Wales, Cardiff City • Cardiff Bay • Brecon Beacons Via Coach
Location not specified yet## Have you always wanted to visit Wales?
Let's escape London for the day and explore the best of South Wales, from city streets to waterfront views and breath taking national park scenery.
We visit 3 amazing places in one day, so no overnights stays
Cardiff City
Our first stop is Cardiff is Wales’ capital and a great mix of history, culture and modern city life. At the heart of the city sits Cardiff Castle, with over 2,000 years of history, right next to green spaces like Bute Park. The city centre is compact and lively, making it easy to explore on foot, grab a coffee, do a bit of shopping, and soak up Welsh culture without feeling rushed.If you wish to visit Cardiff Castle there will be an additional fee of £16 please see link for details to purchase your tickets https://www.cardiffcastle.com/times-prices/
Need further information about Cardiff click on link https://www.visitcardiff.com/
Cardiff Bay
Next stop Cardiff Bay known for it's beautiful waterfront, the area is just outside the city centre, known for its relaxed atmosphere and scenic views. It’s home to Mermaid Quay, where you’ll find plenty of restaurants, cafés and bars overlooking the water. With open walkways, modern architecture and places like the Wales Millennium Centre, it’s the perfect spot to slow down, enjoy lunch, and take some great photos.check out more details about Cardiff Bay https://cardiffbay.co.uk
## Brecon Beacons National Park
Save the best for last our final stop The Brecon Beacons, one of Wales’ most stunning natural landscapes. Expect rolling hills, wide valleys and dramatic mountain views — a complete contrast to city life. It’s ideal for gentle walks, fresh air and peaceful moments, even if you’re not a hiker. Many people say it’s the highlight of the day, a chance to breathe, reset and truly appreciate Wales’ natural beauty.
More information to read up via link https://bannaubrycheiniog.org/This full-day coach trip includes visits to:
✔️ Cardiff City Centre
✔️ Cardiff Bay
✔️ Brecon Beacons National ParkPerfect if you want to travel without the stress, meet new people, and enjoy a well-paced, social day out.
- Return coach travel included
- Most attendees come solo
- Relaxed, friendly group atmosphere
- Just turn up and enjoy the journey.
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Price £45 for the 1st 10 people
£50 for the next 10 peopleFinal Price £55
PLEASE RSVP ONLY ONCE YOU HAVE MADE PAYMENT, IF YOU RSVP WITHOUT MAKING PAYMENT YOUR RSVP WILL CHANGE TO NOT GOING.
PLEASE PAY VIA LINK AT GET A SOCIAL LIFE MEETUP BELOW
Day Trip To Wales, Cardiff City • Cardiff Bay • Brecon Beacons Via Coach , Sat, May 23, 2026, 7:30 AM | MeetupItinerary
Find us at our usual meeting spot
Please meet by the coach bays on Tothill St SW1H 9NQ which is only 2 minutes walk from St James Park tube station. Close to Costa Coffee and Pret Manger
Travel time approx 3 hours07.15am Arrive for check in
07.30am Prompt Coach departs
11:00 – 12:30 – Cardiff City Centre
• Cardiff Castle (photos / optional entry)
• Bute Park walk optional
• Coffee, shopping & free time
12:45 – Depart for Cardiff Bay
1:00 – 2:45 – Cardiff Bay
• Lunch at Mermaid Quay
• Waterfront strolls
• Wales Millennium Centre
• Photo opportunities
3:00 – Depart for Brecon Beacons
4:15 – 6:15 – Brecon Beacons National Park
• Scenic viewpoints
• Gentle walks (optional)
• Relax, photos & fresh air
6:30 – Return journey to London
(Comfort stop included if necessary)
9:30 – 10:00 PM – Arrive back in London
(Traffic dependent)WHAT TO BRING
✔️ Comfortable walking shoes
✔️ Light jacket or hoodie
✔️ Small backpack
✔️ Water bottle
✔️ Snacks
✔️ Phone & power bank
✔️ Cash / card for lunch
✔️ Positive vibes ✨***
## 📜 COACH RULES & TRIP TERMS
(Use this for booking confirmation or waiver)
- This is a group day trip, timings must be respected
- Please return to the coach on time at every stop
- No loud music or disruptive behaviour on the coach
- No refunds unless trip is cancelled.
- Organiser not responsible for personal belongings
- Route & timings may vary due to traffic or weather
By booking, you agree to these terms.
Ticket Includes:
✔️ Return executive coach travel
✔️ Organised itinerary & coordination
✔️ Visits to all 3 locations
❌ Not Included:
• Food & drinks
• Attractions entry fees
• Personal expensesAny question please ask, hope you can make it, would be great to meet you all. Oh just to note i am not a tour guide, trying to keep costs low, i organise the trips finding the best coach prices for us to have a great day out of London.
Social Media & Photos
We love capturing the day! Group photos may be shared on Meetup and Instagram. If you’re camera-shy, just step aside during group shots
Follow us:
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👉 Facebook Group
👉 Join WhatsApp GroupMy number just in case 07957320516
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