About us
AT+CO: š/ā¤ļø bracelets to signal your social battery. Keep it on green if youāre in a social mood or flip it to red if you are feeling quiet but still want to hang out.
All are welcome! Some will be chatty, some quiet, some somewhere in between. If you need time to warm up or feel awkward, you wonāt be judged! Hopefully, familiarity and repeated lower-pressure interactions help us feel comfortable to be ourselves, and find our little communities within the group!
Life can be hard. We like to hang together and just have fun. We have all different types of events like pottery painting, lawn games, hikes, bring your own hobby. Check out some past events to see what we do.
ā All 18+ are welcome! The events that are family-friendly will be noted.
ā Please use a š/ā¤ļø bracelet. Itās sometimes for the other person whoās nervous to show up, itās not even always for you. Silence is totally okay here too, awkward or not.
āWe welcome curiosity over judgment. Assume you belong. Community and feeling welcome are important.
āNothing is mandatory (except respect). Skip anything you donāt want to engage in.
ā Photos and videos are welcome, as long as people are okay being photographed! Post them in the meetup or send to me on IG if donāt want to post.
ā Youāre important and weāre expecting you, Please change your RSVP when your plans change.
ā If you want to come to a full event and youāre waitlisted, check the page and your email day of, especially a few hours in advance. Once people get the auto-reminder, a few usually drop off.
There are many different reasons people show up. Come excited, awkward, quiet, happy, over-caffeinated, tired, nervous, curious. Whatever. You belong. Excited to see you!
*This group and the š/ā¤ļø system to signal social battery was created by Rivka in February 2026 š Thanks for being a part of this!
Upcoming events
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Bowling and Laser Tag
Sun Mountain Fun Center, 300 River Mall Ave., Bend, OR, USLots of people have been suggesting bowling, so letās go!!! Weāll take over a table so we have a home base, and we can split up into little groups, and find your thing. Iāll post a picture of a spot I snag when I get there, so you can find us if you donāt recognize anyone.
Depending on how many people show up, weāll get one or two bowling lanes. We can also play laser tag, mini golf, batting cages, arcades, and more! It might be really slow or really busy, but we can spread out and work around the public. Thereās a lot of options for friendly, competitive fun. They have food options too if people get hungry. Each person will pay individually for what they choose to do; the prices are listed on their website. Check it out for more details: Sun Mountain Fun Center.
Iāll have the red/green bracelets for everyone, to signal your social battery that day. Thisāll be so fun!! See you there š
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Past events
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