Athena IRL Meetups is a community for intentional, in-person connection. We host curated gatherings around NYC for people who want to meet others in a grounded, welcoming environment—whether that’s making new friends, expanding your circle, or just getting out of the online loop.
Events are designed to feel safe, social, and low-pressure, with a focus on good energy, mutual respect, and real conversation. Some gatherings are structured, some are casual, but all are centered on creating space where people can show up as themselves.
Originally rooted in queer community spaces, Athena IRL is now open to queer people and allies alike, while still keeping a strong focus on inclusivity and care.
Come as you are. Leave with new connections.
1. Meet Athena (646-357-0890) at Madison Square Park🌳by 7:45pm! We will do some icebreakers :) By the way, Sunsets do not wait. So we will walk over to Broadway & E 23rd at 8:00pm. If you are late, please text Athena. 2. Manhattanhenge Experience--it might get crowded so hopefully we can find a spot beforehand. 3. Pictures, awe, enjoy the experience with new friends📸 4. Afterwards, let's get drinks🍹, food🥘, and go clubbing. I'll also look for other events in case we want that instead. Open to suggestions. Some Ideas: One Star and depending on the mood, we can head to LES for some free entry dancing Get home safe
To ensure the safety of everyone, please know at any point you can text or come talk to Athena. Especially if we are clubbing, I wanna make sure we have a buddy system in place. So no one gets lost.
Wear: Comfortable shoes as we might be walking a bit 👟
Bring: ID, Camera (optional)
You may bring plus one(s) but make sure they rsvp as well
RULES: Be kind! No homophobia, sexism, racism, etc. Respect each other Be safe and be careful If you see something, say something Failure to comply to the rules and you will be removed from the event and banned from future events.
If you want to help and support future events, please let me know! I always appreciate it Donate: This event is free, but I am putting my time, effort, and energy into planning and hosting, so please donate so I can continue hosting fun events!
Cash: in person
Venmo: @Lia-Athena
Zelle: 646-357-0890
Cash App: $LiaSchaffner
Pay Pal: @LiaSchaffner
I will be taking pictures and videos for social media! Please let me know if you do not want to be featured/face shown/etc! I want to respect everyone's wishes
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If you have any questions or concerns, do not hesitate to let us know! See you soon!
