About us
This group is for people who enjoy discussing interesting topics such as culture, history, philosophy, science, and religion. It is for those who are willing to question their own ideas and open to new and differing ideas.
As host, I will occasionally use Socratic irony; posing provocative questions to challenge your thinking and take you out of your comfort zone. If you are easily offended or overly sensitive, this might not be the forum for you.
Some meetings will be face-to-face on the North Shore of Auckland, while others will be online.
The in-person meetings are likely to be monthly on the North Shore of Auckland (probably near Smales Farm), at times to suit potential attendees (possibly Monday evening or weekend lunchtime).
The online meetings will use Microsoft Teams, which will work in a browser but will works better using the app, which you can download from:
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Upcoming events
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Movie Night & Discussion: "Birthgap - Childless World"
St Columba Centre, 40 Vermont St Ponsonby, Auckland, NZ"Birthgap - Childless World" explores the global decline in birth rates through personal interviews and data across 24 countries. It aims to understand the causes and consequences of this demographic shift on communities and future societies. The film combines deeply personal interviews with demographic trend data, providing a common picture of what has been happening to communities worldwide. It also examines the consequences for young and old alike and how our future world will be very different to the one we have become used to.
This powerful documentary will be followed by a discussion of the causes and consequences of depopulation.
Come early for refreshments and previews of future movies. There is limited free parking. If you park in a 'Park Mate' bay, you'll need to pay for parking.
St Columba Centre, 40 Vermont Street, Ponsonby
$10 On the Door
$8 in advance: Go to Rock the Vote NZ
- click 'Check Availability'
- click 'Next'
and complete the online booking form.
rockthevotenzparty@gmail.com7 attendees
Auckland Deep Thinkers Online - "What is Taboo?"
·OnlineOnlineIs anything considered "Taboo" these days?
A taboo is a powerful social or cultural prohibition—something a community collectively decides must not be spoken about, done, or even thought of. It’s not just a rule; it’s often tied to deep emotional or moral weight. Breaking a taboo can provoke shock, shame, or even punishment, because it challenges the boundaries of what a society considers acceptable.• The word comes from the Polynesian term tapu, meaning “sacred” or “forbidden.”
• In anthropology, taboos mark off behaviors or topics that are off-limits, often linked to religion, purity, or social order.Functions of taboo
• Social cohesion: By defining what’s forbidden, taboos help communities maintain identity and order.
• Boundary-setting: They draw lines between the sacred and the profane, the pure and the impure.
• Control: Taboos can regulate power, sexuality, food, death, and speech—areas where societies feel vulnerable.Examples
• Universal-ish taboos: Incest, cannibalism, desecration of sacred sites.
• Cultural taboos: Eating certain foods (like pork in Islam or beef in Hinduism), discussing death openly, or criticizing authority.
• Modern taboos: Topics like mental illness, menstruation, or political corruption may be treated as “unspeakable” in some contexts.Dynamic nature
Taboos aren’t fixed. They shift over time:
• What was taboo decades ago (e.g., divorce, homosexuality) may become normalized.
• New taboos emerge (e.g., racist language, climate denial in certain circles).So, taboo is essentially a social boundary marker—a way communities enforce values by silencing or forbidding certain acts or discussions.
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Auckland Deep Thinkers Online - "Oikophobia"
·OnlineOnlineOikophobia refers to a fear or aversion towards one's own home, culture, or society, often manifesting as a tendency to criticize or reject familiar surroundings while praising others.
Oikophobia is derived from the Ancient Greek word "oîkos," meaning "house" or "home," combined with "phobos," meaning "fear." It was coined by British philosopher Roger Scruton in his 2004 book England and the Need for Nations, where he described it as a "felt need to denigrate the customs, culture, and institutions that are identifiably ‘ours’". This concept is often viewed as the opposite of xenophobia, which is the fear or hatred of strangers or foreign cultures.
Cultural and Political Context
Oikophobia has been discussed in various contexts, particularly in political discourse. It is often associated with a critique of one's own culture and can be seen as a response to globalization and multiculturalism. Critics argue that oikophobia leads to a rejection of national identity and cultural heritage, which can manifest in political correctness and self-loathing within societies.Psychological Perspective
From a psychological standpoint, oikophobia can be viewed as a condition characterized by anxiety or discomfort in familiar environments. Individuals may experience heightened stress or aversion towards their own cultural values and traditions, sometimes preferring foreign cultures instead. Symptoms may include:- Anxiety or discomfort in familiar settings
- Disinterest in preserving cultural heritage
- Hostility towards one's own cultural values
See Also:
Oikophobia - How the West Learned to Hate Itself
Oikophobia Cultural Self Hatred | Interview with @Benedict BeckeldThe online meetings will use Microsoft Teams, which will work in a browser but will works better using the app, which you can download from:
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Past events
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