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Making friends as an adult is harder than it should be.
Not because people aren’t open to it, but because most social options don’t give you a reason to see the same people again.

It’s not a people problem. It’s a structure problem.
Friendships tend to come from seeing the same people, regularly, without pressure.

ComonThread is built around that idea.
We put you in a small group of 4 people, matched into the same weekly slot, for 4 weeks. Each week, you hop on a ~45-minute video call and do a simple life activity together; something you were already going to do anyway.

What happens when you join:
1. Join this Meetup group and RSVP to an activity.
2. Check your DMs. I’ll send you a short form to enter your information, pick your weekly time slot and and pay the $10 commitment fee. (This is our way of making sure everyone in your group of 4 is as serious about showing up as you are!)
3. Get Matched. We’ll place you in a "Thread" of 4 people.
4. Meet for 4 weeks. Hop on a 45-minute video call once a week with your same group.

There are a few different ways to join, depending on what fits your life. Same format. Different vibe:
• Cook-along Thread — make dinner in your own kitchen while hanging out
• Wind-down Thread — end your day with a drink and conversation
• Life- admin hour Thread — get your to-dos done with some company

The activity is just the social lubricant, it gives you something to do so there's no pressure.
Over a few weeks, things tend to feel more familiar and less like starting from scratch each time.
It's not another event for your calendar; it's a recurring rhythm for your life.

New groups will be forming regularly, you can join whichever version feels easiest to show up for.

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