About us
Most people here came on their own.
We built the space we couldn't find — somewhere you can turn up by yourself, say hi first, and meet people without it being weird.
How a Saturday works
From 7:30 until around 9:00, a hosted Conversation Spark gets the room talking — teams, simple challenges, and easy ways into a conversation. It's not a two-minute icebreaker; it's the main event. Hosts welcome people at the door, make introductions, and pull newcomers into conversations.
From 9:00 the structure fades and it becomes an open social. People chat, play, dance, and carry on. Some head to a nearby venue afterwards.
Why people come back
Walking into next week is easier when a few faces already feel familiar. That's the whole idea — you'll recognise people, pick up conversations where you left them, and still meet someone new. A circle doesn't get built in one night. It gets built one Saturday at a time.
The practical bit
Every Saturday evening, central London. Age 25-45. Doors from 7:30 — get there before 10pm.
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What actually happens here
These aren't rules on a wall. This is what the room is like:
Openness — People say hi first. Nobody waits to be approached.
Kindness — Nobody gets left standing on their own for long. Usually someone goes over before a host has to.
Authenticity — You don't need an upgraded version of yourself.
Nobody else brought one.
Respect — When someone isn't interested, that's the end of it.
Inclusivity — The room looks like London. Different backgrounds, ages and accents at every table.
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On messaging — please read this
We're a community, not a dating app.
Zero tolerance for harassment, or for sliding into DMs in a way that makes someone uncomfortable. If you wouldn't say it in person, in front of the group, don't send it privately.
If something feels off at an event or in a message, tell a host or an ambassador. We act on it, and we've removed people for this before.
Discrimination and disrespectful behaviour towards our members aren't tolerated — at events or in messages.
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Become a Balancer
Join the free app: https://onelink.to/balancers
Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/_balancers/
Questions, or want to help organise? Get in touch. See you Saturday 😃
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Upcoming events
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- £8.00
London Social Night | Limited to 150 People
The Folly, 41 Gracechurch St, City of London, London EC3V 0BT, London, GB🚨 Spoiler alert: We built the space we couldn’t find. A place where you can show up alone, say hi first, and meet new people naturally.
If you’re ready to expand your circle, you’re in the right place.
You can check us out on Instagram 📸🚨Get ready for another Social🎉
Here’s the Plan:
7:30 PM – Conversation Spark
We'll kick off the evening with a fun conversation activity designed to make meeting new people feel natural.
No awkward introductions—just a simple way to get everyone talking from the moment they arrive.
9:00 PM – Your Evening Begins
From here, the evening is yours.
Keep chatting, grab a drink, join a game of Beer Pong, UNO or Giant Jenga, or simply wander around and meet someone new.
Our hosts will be around throughout the night, helping people connect and introducing newcomers.
10:00 PM – Music
As the evening progresses, we'll gradually turn the music up for anyone who feels like dancing, while still keeping plenty of space for conversations.
⚠️ Please note: Entry is not guaranteed after 10:00 PM.
11:30 PM – After Party
For those who aren't ready to call it a night, we'll head to a nearby venue together.
⚠️ Please bring ID if you plan to join the after party.✨ Pro tip
Try to arrive by 7:30 PM to enjoy the full experience.
🔹 Many people come alone. That’s completely normal here.
🔹 Our hosts are on the floor helping people meet and get involved.
🔹 Most attendees join through our app, so the Meetup “Going” list represents only a small portion of the actual crowd.
To keep the atmosphere social and make it easier to meet everyone, attendance is limited to 150 people.📲 Download our app
You can connect with people you meet, access ticket deals, track rewards and see the photo gallery from the night.
💬 Join our WhatsApp Community
for last-minute updates and reminders.Our pillars are Openness, Respect, Inclusivity, Kindness and Authenticity.
Attendance at this event is subject to our Code of Conduct and Terms of Service. By joining, you may receive emails about Balancers events and community updates. You can unsubscribe at any time.146 attendees 
Balancers Community Volunteering
Mother Canteen, 181 Mansfield Rd,, London, GBHi Balancers,
We believe community is about more than meeting new people. It's also about showing up for those who need support.
As part of our ongoing partnership with Refugee Community Kitchen, we're inviting you to join us for a different kind of volunteering session.This time, we'll be joining the Refugee Community Kitchen team for an evening behind the scenes. They've got a lot of jars of chilli oil waiting to be labelled, so they've asked if we can lend a hand! It's a chance to support an incredible organisation, spend time with fellow Balancers, and contribute to the work that helps make thousands of meals possible each week.
💛 What to Expect
- Spend a few hours giving back in a relaxed, friendly environment.
- Help label jars of chilli oil alongside other Balancers and Refugee Community Kitchen volunteers.
- Meet like-minded people while supporting a great cause.
- No previous volunteering experience is needed.
📍 Meeting Point
Tuesday, 11th August
6:00 PM
We'll meet outside Mother Canteen, which is just a short walk from the Refugee Community Kitchen.
From there, we'll walk to the kitchen together and start the session.
If you'd like to join us, save your spot and we'll see you there.
🔹 Stay connected: Join our WhatsApp group [here] for last-minute updates.🌱 About Refugee Community Kitchen
Refugee Community Kitchen is a grassroots, volunteer-led organisation that has served over 3.5 million meals to displaced people and those experiencing food insecurity in the UK and northern France. Their mission: to serve warm, nourishing meals with dignity and build community through food.
👉 Learn more: refugeecommunitykitchen.org***
💡 Can’t Make It This Time?
You can still contribute:- Donate directly (100% goes to RCK): https://www.justgiving.com/charity/refugeecommunitykitchen
- Volunteer with RCK: Sign up here
- Spread the word to others who’d love to join in
Let’s keep showing what our community can do when we act with heart.
See you there 💛11 attendees- £8.00
London Social Night | The Drift | Limited to 150 people
The Drift, 110 Bishopsgate, City of London, London EC2N 4AY, Reino Unido, london, GB🚨 Spoiler alert: We built the space we couldn’t find. A place where you can show up alone, say hi first, and meet new people naturally.
If you’re ready to expand your circle, you’re in the right place.
You can check us out on Instagram 📸🚨Get ready for another Social🎉
Here’s the Plan:
7:30 PM – Conversation Spark
We'll kick off the evening with a fun conversation activity designed to make meeting new people feel natural.
No awkward introductions—just a simple way to get everyone talking from the moment they arrive.
9:00 PM – Your Evening Begins
From here, the evening is yours.
Keep chatting, grab a drink, join a game of Beer Pong, UNO or Giant Jenga, or simply wander around and meet someone new.
Our hosts will be around throughout the night, helping people connect and introducing newcomers.
10:00 PM – Music
As the evening progresses, we'll gradually turn the music up for anyone who feels like dancing, while still keeping plenty of space for conversations.
⚠️ Please note: Entry is not guaranteed after 10:00 PM.
11:30 PM – After Party
For those who aren't ready to call it a night, we'll head to a nearby venue together.
⚠️ Please bring ID if you plan to join the after party.✨ Pro tip
Try to arrive by 7:30 PM to enjoy the full experience.
🔹 Many people come alone. That’s completely normal here.
🔹 Our hosts are on the floor helping people meet and get involved.
🔹 Most attendees join through our app, so the Meetup “Going” list represents only a small portion of the actual crowd.📲 Download our app
You can connect with people you meet, access ticket deals, track rewards and see the photo gallery from the night.
💬 Join our WhatsApp Community
for last-minute updates and reminders.Our pillars are Openness, Respect, Inclusivity, Kindness and Authenticity.
Attendance at this event is subject to our Code of Conduct and Terms of Service. By joining, you may receive emails about Balancers events and community updates. You can unsubscribe at any time.135 attendees 
Park Social 🌳 - Expand Your Circle
Regent's Park Regeants Park London NW1, Chester Road Regent's Park, London NW1 4NR England, Chester Road Regent's Park, London NW1 4NR England, London, GB🚨Spoiler alert: Our events are designed to help you escape your routine and expand your circle. Starting conversations with strangers? That’s the norm. Coming solo? Totally normal. Authenticity is at the heart of what we do—being yourself isn’t just welcomed, it’s celebrated. If none of this resonates with you, our events might not be your vibe.🚨
🌳 Join us in Regent’s Park for a relaxed afternoon of board games, volleyball, team challenges, and easy conversations with a group of friendly people looking to make the most of summer. Whether you come to meet new people or simply enjoy a few hours outdoors, you'll fit right in.
For a sneak peek of what’s in store, check out our Instagram and follow us for all the latest updates. 😃
Here’s the plan:
🕒 16:00 – 16:30: Arrive, settle in, and join us for casual board games and volleyball
⚔️ 17:00 – 18:00: Time for a fun challenge! We’ll divide into teams for a few easy, silly competitions. Prefer to just hang out? Totally cool—you can keep chilling on the sidelines.
🎲 18:00 onwards: Back to board games, volley, and relaxed vibes.Pro tips:
📲 Register on the Balancers app and unlock the full experience.
Download the app to RSVP for the event, collect the golden coins you win in our games, and connect with other attendees after the event.
👉 https://onelink.to/balancers
🧺 Bring snacks and your favourite drink—wine, beer, juice, it’s all welcome.
🎒 Got a board game you love? Bring it!
💬 This is your chance to reset, reconnect, and meet some amazing humans.📍Exact meeting point: https://goo.gl/maps/r2Beg5CeY4vnD8119
🚻 Toilets? 5-min walk away. Easy.
📲 Join our WhatsApp group for updates:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/HYbCWaNidNV9aYK3TW9WGm🌳 Let’s leave the park better than we found it—take your rubbish with you and respect the space.
Remember, our pillars are Respect, Kindness and Authenticity. Let's uphold these together. Any discrimination or disrespectful behaviour towards any of our members will not be tolerated.
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