
What we’re about
Are you tired of dating apps and swiping left and right? Join us for our Bay Area Singles Mixer where you can meet like-minded individuals who are also seeking genuine connections. Our group is dedicated to bringing together social, single, and lonely individuals in a fun and relaxed setting. Whether you're new to the city or just looking to expand your social circle, this meetup is perfect for those who are tired of the superficiality of online dating. Come join us for a night of mingling, games, and laughter – who knows, you might just meet someone special!
Our group is open to everyone, whether you're from a tech background or not. We welcome participants from all fields and walks of life!
Eligibility:
21+ older
Conduct Guidelines:
- Be respectful to others. Disparaging or abusive behavior will result in removal.
- Keep your RSVP status updated for all events.
- Only attend events if you've been confirmed. No gate-crashing. If you gate-crash, we would ban you for the next two events.
- Ensure your profile has a clear photo and an updated bio. If privacy is a concern, contact the host.
- For events requiring payment, both members and guests must pay in advance. No refunds will be issued.
- Business solicitations, such as selling real estate, are not permitted at any event.
- Do not send unsolicited messages, texts, or emails to group members unless consent has been given.
- Repeated "no-shows" may result in removal. Remember, hosting events takes significant effort.
- If we suspect any spammers or fake profile, we would reach out for additional proof's to ensure the safety of others.
Safety:
- We take safety very seriously. If you feel like someone is reaching out to you or stalking you, please report it immediately. The member would be given warning or removed from the group.
- When leaving the event, if you feel unsafe, please try to go out in a crowd. If you can't find anyone, please do reach out to the host and we can try to find someone to your car.
- Please don't drink and drive and drink responsibly. The group wouldn't be responsible for your actions based on the law.
- In case of car ride, try to be careful if someone offers you a ride to your house, unless it's a known acquaintance.
- Make sure to not keep any valuables in your car. The group would not be responsible for any break-ins.
- Safety remains a top priority for the group. At the same time, try to enjoy the event. Feel free to contact the organizers for any feedback/comments after event.
Donations for Society:
If you met someone amazing at our event—whether it’s a new friend, a potential partner, or just someone who shares your weirdly specific love for pineapple pizza—consider spreading the love with a donation to one of these worthy causes:
- UNICEF (helping kids everywhere live brighter lives)
- PETA (for all the animal lovers out there)
- Red Cross (because sometimes, everyone needs a hero)
Plus, your donation might be tax-deductible, so it’s a nice bonus!
P.S. Our accounts are open, too… if you’re in the mood to drop a huge donation. 😜 (Just kidding!)
Disclaimer:
The group is not responsible for any actions of individual members and their guests. We have not performed any background checks or identification of any members. The group and hosts are NOT responsible for any damages caused to you by any of it's members and any of the events.
Any damages to the property or facility where the event would be hosted would be liable to the member or their guests who were responsible for the damages. All members should follow the local laws. Each member should have read this description before proceeding to attend any events.
The organizer, co-organizers are volunteers and are take no responsibility for any injuries nor accidents that may occur during events. We don't conduct any COVID checks for people attending the events. If you are concerned about any health issues or facing any health issues, please refrain from attending the events. Follow any safety protocols such as masks or sanitizers, for your own safety.
Upcoming events
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- $45.00

Men Wanted for Christmas Mixer for 40+. Women's tickets are sold out.
JaM Cellars, 1460 First St., Napa, CA, USCelebrate the Holidays with new single friends at a spectacular hotel in beautiful Napa! Includes free light appetizers, served at 3pm, as long as they last, plus our FUN Mixer Game, which makes it EASY to meet people. Ages 40+. Festive holiday attire recommended. Sunday, December 21, 2025, 3-5pm.
DISCOUNT TICKETS: $45/advance; $55/door, if space permits. Tickets are sold out for women. We need more men! Please spread the word to your bachelor buddies.
LOCATION: JaM Cellars at Andaz Hotel by Hyatt, 1460 First Street, Downtown Napa CA. Lots of free parking. Please do not confuse this venue with Archer Hotel down the street where we have held several parties in the past.
CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at www.thepartyhotline.com.
· Salsa Thursday! All ages. Dec 18, Sausalito
· Christmas Party, adults of all ages, Dec 20, Sunnyvale
· Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 21, Napa
· New Years Eve Bash, Adults of all ages, Dec 31, Sausalito
· Silicon Valley New Years Eve Party, 21+, Dec 31, Sunnyvale
· New Year Speed Dating, 50s/60s, Jan 3, Sunnyvale
· Dry January Party, 40+, Jan 4, Walnut Creek
· Desi Speed Dating, 20s/30s, Jan 11, 2026, San Jose
· Advanced Degrees Mixer, adults of all ages, Jan 11, 2026, Tiburon
· The Masquerade Ball, Largest Party of 2026! Jan 17, SF
· East Bay Speed Dating for 40s/50s, Jan 24, Emeryville
· Salsa & Soul Sisters, all ages, Feb 1, San Rafael
· Meet Your Valentine Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Feb 8, Tiburon
· Presidents Holiday Speed Dating, 25-45, Feb 15, San Jose
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 45-65, Feb 18, Campbell
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, March 15, Tiburon
FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our last New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.16 attendees - $40.00

Bay Area's Best New Years Eve Bash!
Ditas, 562 Bridgeway, Sausalito, CA, USRing in 2026 with a bang! Get ready to pop the champagne and dance the night away as we say goodbye to the old and hello to the new! Join us for an unforgettable New Year's Eve celebration. Adults of all ages welcome.
View San Francisco’s spectacular annual fireworks show over the Bay from a large outside deck.
When: Wednesday, December 31, 2025
Where: Ditas, 562 Bridgeway, Sausalito, CA 94965
Doors Open: 9:30 p.m.
What to Expect:
- A live DJ spinning the Top 40 hits to keep the dance floor moving!
- Party Favors to help you sparkle!
- Great company and an electric atmosphere!
- Early Bird: $40
- Last Minute: $50
- At the Door (if space permits): $60.
Please dress to impress! We request elegant attire—think cocktail dresses, dressy jumpsuits, suits, or tuxedos. Let's make this a dazzling night!
CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, Professionals Guild, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at www.thepartyhotline.com.
· Holiday Dance, adults of all ages, Dec 12, Alameda
· Salsa Thursday! All ages. Dec 18, Sausalito
· Christmas Party, adults of all ages, Dec 20, Sunnyvale
· Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 21, Napa
· New Years Eve Bash, Adults of all ages, Dec 31, Sausalito
· Silicon Valley New Years Eve Party, 21+, Dec 31, Sunnyvale
· New Year Speed Dating, 50s/60s, Jan 3, Sunnyvale
· Dry January Party, 40+, Jan 4, Walnut Creek
· Bacchata Speed Dating, 25-45, Jan 10, 2026, San Rafael
· Desi Speed Dating, 20s/30s, Jan 11, 2026, San Jose
· Advanced Degrees Mixer, adults of all ages, Jan 11, 2026, Tiburon
· The Masquerade Ball, Largest Party of 2026! Jan 17, SF
· Meet Your Valentine Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Feb 8, Tiburon
· Presidents Holiday Speed Dating, 25-45, Feb 15, San Jose
FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our last New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.21 attendees - $30.00

Men Wanted for Speed Dating Party for 50s/60s. Tickets for women are sold out.
The Domain Hotel, 1085 E El Camino,, Sunnyvale, CA, USThe #1 New Years Resolution singles have (other than losing weight) is to find a loving partner. Speed Dating is the easiest, most-effective way to meet someone special.
Join us for an exciting evening of speed dating designed specifically for singles in their 50s/60s. Meet new friends, 5 minutes at a time, at a fine hotel in the Silicon Valley! Dress to impress. Saturday, Jan 3, 2026, 7-9pm.
DISCOUNT TICKETS: $30/early birds. $45/advance. $55/door, if space permits. Women’s tickets are sold out. We need more men! Please spread the word to your bachelor buddies.
SCHEDULE:
6:45 – 7:00 Registration.
7:00 – 7:15 Speed Dating Introduction
7:15 – 9:00 Speed Dating
LOCATION: The Domain Hotel, 1085 E El Camino, Sunnyvale CA. Free parking!
CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at www.thepartyhotline.com.
· Christmas Party, adults of all ages, Dec 20, Sunnyvale
· Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 21, Napa
· New Years Eve Bash, Adults of all ages, Dec 31, Sausalito
· Silicon Valley New Years Eve Party, 21+, Dec 31, Sunnyvale
· New Year Speed Dating, 50s/60s, Jan 3, Sunnyvale
· Dry January Party, 40+, Jan 4, Walnut Creek
· Desi Speed Dating, 20s/30s, Jan 11, 2026, San Jose
· Advanced Degrees Mixer, adults of all ages, Jan 11, 2026, Tiburon
· The Masquerade Ball, Largest Party of 2026! Jan 17, SF
· East Bay Speed Dating for 40s/50s, Jan 24, Emeryville
· Salsa & Soul Sisters, all ages, Feb 1, San Rafael
· Meet Your Valentine Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Feb 8, Tiburon
· Presidents Holiday Speed Dating, 25-45, Feb 15, San Jose
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 45-65, Feb 18, Campbell
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, March 15, Tiburon
FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our last New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.19 attendees - $30.00

Desi Speed Dating Party for 20s/30s
Suspiro, 3060 Olsen Drive, Ste 20, San Jose, CA, USReady for a fun, fast-paced way to expand your social circle? Join us for an exciting evening of DESI speed dating designed specifically for singles in their 20s and 30s!
Meet new friends, 5 minutes at a time, at popular Santana Row! Dress to impress. Sunday, January 11, 2026, 3-5pm.
DISCOUNT TICKETS: $30/early birds. $45/advance. $55/door, if space permits. We often sell out, and strongly suggest securing a spot online. RSVP does NOT guarantee you a spot, only if you buy a ticket.
Please support the venue by purchasing at least one drink. This helps us continue to book great spaces for our events.
SCHEDULE:
2:45 – 3:00 Registration.
3:00 – 3:15 Speed Dating Introduction
3:15 – 5:00 Speed Dating
Your spot will be given away if you have not checked in by 7:15 PM.
LOCATION: Suspiro San Jose, 3060 Olsen Dr Suite 20, San Jose, CA 95128.
CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at www.thepartyhotline.com.
· Salsa Thursday! All ages. Dec 18, Sausalito
· Christmas Party, adults of all ages, Dec 20, Sunnyvale
· Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 21, Napa
· New Years Eve Bash, Adults of all ages, Dec 31, Sausalito
· Silicon Valley New Years Eve Party, 21+, Dec 31, Sunnyvale
· New Year Speed Dating, 50s/60s, Jan 3, Sunnyvale
· Dry January Party, 40+, Jan 4, Walnut Creek
· Bacchata Speed Dating, 25-45, Jan 10, 2026, San Rafael
· Desi Speed Dating, 20s/30s, Jan 11, 2026, San Jose
· Advanced Degrees Mixer, adults of all ages, Jan 11, 2026, Tiburon
· The Masquerade Ball, Largest Party of 2026! Jan 17, SF
· East Bay Speed Dating, Jan 24, Emeryville
· Meet Your Valentine Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Feb 8, Tiburon
· Presidents Holiday Speed Dating, 25-45, Feb 15, San Jose
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, March 15, Tiburon
FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our last New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.16 attendees
Past events
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