About us
Are you tired of dating apps and swiping left and right? Join us for our Bay Area Singles Mixer where you can meet like-minded individuals who are also seeking genuine connections. Our group is dedicated to bringing together social, single, and lonely individuals in a fun and relaxed setting. Whether you're new to the city or just looking to expand your social circle, this meetup is perfect for those who are tired of the superficiality of online dating. Come join us for a night of mingling, games, and laughter – who knows, you might just meet someone special!
Our group is open to everyone, whether you're from a tech background or not. We welcome participants from all fields and walks of life!
Eligibility:
21+ older
Conduct Guidelines:
- Be respectful to others. Disparaging or abusive behavior will result in removal.
- Keep your RSVP status updated for all events.
- Only attend events if you've been confirmed. No gate-crashing. If you gate-crash, we would ban you for the next two events.
- Ensure your profile has a clear photo and an updated bio. If privacy is a concern, contact the host.
- For events requiring payment, both members and guests must pay in advance. No refunds will be issued.
- Business solicitations, such as selling real estate, are not permitted at any event.
- Do not send unsolicited messages, texts, or emails to group members unless consent has been given.
- Repeated "no-shows" may result in removal. Remember, hosting events takes significant effort.
- If we suspect any spammers or fake profile, we would reach out for additional proof's to ensure the safety of others.
Safety:
- We take safety very seriously. If you feel like someone is reaching out to you or stalking you, please report it immediately. The member would be given warning or removed from the group.
- When leaving the event, if you feel unsafe, please try to go out in a crowd. If you can't find anyone, please do reach out to the host and we can try to find someone to your car.
- Please don't drink and drive and drink responsibly. The group wouldn't be responsible for your actions based on the law.
- In case of car ride, try to be careful if someone offers you a ride to your house, unless it's a known acquaintance.
- Make sure to not keep any valuables in your car. The group would not be responsible for any break-ins.
- Safety remains a top priority for the group. At the same time, try to enjoy the event. Feel free to contact the organizers for any feedback/comments after event.
Donations for Society:
If you met someone amazing at our event—whether it’s a new friend, a potential partner, or just someone who shares your weirdly specific love for pineapple pizza—consider spreading the love with a donation to one of these worthy causes:
- UNICEF (helping kids everywhere live brighter lives)
- PETA (for all the animal lovers out there)
- Red Cross (because sometimes, everyone needs a hero)
Plus, your donation might be tax-deductible, so it’s a nice bonus!
P.S. Our accounts are open, too… if you’re in the mood to drop a huge donation. 😜 (Just kidding!)
Disclaimer:
The group is not responsible for any actions of individual members and their guests. We have not performed any background checks or identification of any members. The group and hosts are NOT responsible for any damages caused to you by any of it's members and any of the events.
Any damages to the property or facility where the event would be hosted would be liable to the member or their guests who were responsible for the damages. All members should follow the local laws. Each member should have read this description before proceeding to attend any events.
The organizer, co-organizers are volunteers and are take no responsibility for any injuries nor accidents that may occur during events. We don't conduct any COVID checks for people attending the events. If you are concerned about any health issues or facing any health issues, please refrain from attending the events. Follow any safety protocols such as masks or sanitizers, for your own safety.
Upcoming events
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- $45.00
MEN WANTED for 50 & Fabulous! Party. Tickets for women are sold out.
HERITAGE PUB & CHOP HOUSE, 15 N SANTA CRUZ AVENUE, Los Gatos, CA, USAre you 50+ and ready to meet someone special in person? Join us for a night designed for easy mingling. Forget the awkward silence—our signature Mixer Game breaks the ice for you, making it easy to spark a conversation with someone new. Dress to impress. Sunday, April 19, 2026, 7-9pm.
TICKETS: $45/advance or $55/door. Tickets for women are sold out. We need men! Please spread the word to your bachelor buddies. Sorry, ladies, RSVP does NOT reserve a spot for you, only women who have purchased a ticket by credit card will be admitted.
LOCATION: Heritage Pub and Chop House, 15 N Santa Cruz Avenue, Los Gatos CA. Free parking in back and also on the street. We request that everyone purchase at least one drink so that this fine venue invites us back!
SCHEDULE:
6:45-7:00pm Registration.
7:00 – 7:15 Speed Dating Introduction
7:15 – 9:00 Speed DatingCO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at www.thepartyhotline.com.
· Advanced Degrees Mixer, adults of all ages, April 9, San Francisco
· 80s Dance Party, all ages, April 11, San Rafael
· Salsa Saturday, all ages, April 18, Novato
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, April 19, Los Gatos
· Speed Dating, 30s/40s, April 22, Emeryville
· Speed Dancing, 40+, April 25, San Rafael
· Speed Dating, 40s/50s, May 3, Petaluma
· Cinco de Mayo Party for 50+, May 5, San Francisco
· Marin Speed Dating, 30s/40s, May 6, San Rafael
· Singles Night in Walnut Creek, 50+, May 11
· SingleMingle for 50+, May 17, Tiburon
· 90s Dance Party, May 23, San Rafael
· Girls Night Out, adults of all ages, May 24, San Rafael
· Silicon Valley Mixer, 50+, May 26, Campbell
· Marin Speed Dating, 40s/50s, June 7, Tiburon
· 50 & Fabulous Mixer, 50+, June 25, San Francisco
· Speed Dating, 30s/40s, June 28, NovatoFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
15 attendees - $30.00
East Bay Speed Dating for 30s/40s
HYATT PLACE, 5700 BAY ST, Emeryville, CA, USReady for a fun, fast-paced way to expand your social circle? Join us for an exciting evening of speed dating designed specifically for singles ages 30s and 40s. Meet new friends, 5 minutes at a time, at an upscale hotel! Dress to impress. Whether you're looking for a soulmate or just a new friend, this is the perfect place to spark a connection.
DISCOUNT TICKETS: $30/early birds. $45/advance. $55/door, if space permits. These events usually sell out, so we recommend purchasing an advanced ticket online.
WHEN: Wednesday, April 22, 2026 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM
WHERE: Hyatt Place (not to be confused with Hyatt House down the street), 5700 Bay Street, next to Bay Street Mall, Emeryville CA 94608. Conveniently located near the junction of Hwy 80, Hwy 880, and the Bay Bridge, so our single friends from San Francisco can enjoy! Limited free parking park on the 2nd floor of the Bay Street Garage under the Hyatt Place stalls. There also is free parking in large parking lots nearby. Please do not park at the hotel, which is reserved for overnight guests.
SCHEDULE:
6:45- 7pm Registration.
7:00 – 7:15 Speed Dating Introduction
7:15 – 9:00 Speed Dating. Your spot will be given away if you have not checked in by 7:15 PM.
CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at www.thepartyhotline.com.
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 30s/40s, March 25, Campbell
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, April 4, Petaluma
· Salsa Saturday, all ages, April 4, Novato
· East Bay Speed Dating for 40s/50s, April 5, Walnut Creek
· Advanced Degrees Mixer, adults of all ages, April 9, San Francisco
· 80s Dance Party, all ages, April 11, San Rafael
· The Vetted Social[RG1] , 30s/40s, April 15, San Francisco
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, April 19, Los Gatos
· Speed Dating, 30s/40s, April 22, Emeryville
· Speed Dancing, 40+, April 25, San Rafael
· Cinco de Mayo Party for 50+, May 5, San Francisco
· SingleMingle for 50+, May 17, Tiburon
· Silicon Valley Mixer, 50+, May 26, Campbell
· Speed Dating, May 27, San Francisco
· Marin Speed Dating, 40s/50s, June 7, Tiburon
· 50 & Fabulous Mixer, 50+, June 25, San FranciscoFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.
19 attendees - $25.00
Speed Dancing, more fun than speed dating!
SALSA DANCE MARIN, 4140 REDWOOD HWY #8, San Rafael, CA, USReady to ditch the awkward small talk and find your rhythm? Join us for an exhilarating evening where the music does the talking. Speed Dancing is the ultimate way to break the ice, get moving, and meet active singles in a high-energy, sophisticated atmosphere.
Whether you’re a seasoned pro or have two left feet, this event is all about fun, connection, and great vibes.DISCOUNT TICKETS: Tickets: early bird $25, last minute $35.
How It Works- The First Hour: Every 3 minutes, a whistle blows and you’ll rotate to a new partner. It’s fast, it’s fun, and it guarantees you’ll meet everyone on the floor without the pressure of a long conversation. Top 40 hits.
- The Second Hour: Once you’ve met the room, the floor is yours! We’ll keep the hits spinning so you can ask your favorite partners back to the floor or mingle with new friends while enjoying the music.
Event Details
- When: Saturday, April 25
- Time: 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM
- Place: Salsa Dance Marin, 4140 Redwood Hwy 8, San Rafael
- Designed for ages 40+, but adults of all ages are welcome to join the fun.
Don’t spend another Saturday night scrolling. Come experience the spark that only happens on the dance floor.
CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, *BayAreaFun.org*, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at [www.thepartyhotline.com]
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 30s/40s, March 25, Campbell
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, April 4, Petaluma
· Salsa Saturday, all ages, April 4, Novato
· East Bay Speed Dating for 40s/50s, April 5, Walnut Creek
· Advanced Degrees Mixer, adults of all ages, April 9, San Francisco
· 80s Dance Party, all ages, April 11, San Rafael
· The Vetted Social[RG1] , 30s/40s, April 15, San Francisco
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, April 19, Los Gatos
· Speed Dating, 30s/40s, April 22, Emeryville
· Speed Dancing, 40+, April 25, San Rafael
· Cinco de Mayo Party for 50+, May 5, San Francisco
· Marin Speed Dating, 30s/40, May 6, San Rafael
· SingleMingle for 50+, May 17, Tiburon
· Silicon Valley Mixer, 50+, May 26, Campbell
· Speed Dating, May 27, San Francisco
· Marin Speed Dating, 40s/50s, June 7, Tiburon
· 50 & Fabulous Mixer, 50+, June 25, San FranciscoFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.
13 attendees - $45.00
Cinco de Mayo Party for 50+
FIFTY VARA, 1735 NORIEGA ST, San Francisco, CA, USCelebrate Cinco de May with new single friends, 50+. Join us for a night designed for easy mingling. Forget the awkward silence—our signature Mixer Game breaks the ice for you, making it easy to spark a conversation with someone new. Dress to impress. Tuesday, May 5, 2026, 7-9pm.
TICKETS: Grab your Early Bird tickets for $45! Price jumps to $55 at the door, and we often sell out. Don’t miss your chance to find your next great connection. RSVP does NOT guarantee you a spot, only if you purchase a ticket by credit card.
LOCATION: Fifty Vara, 1735 Noriega Street, San Francisco. We request that everyone purchase at least one drink so that this fine venue invites us back!
CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at [www.thepartyhotline.com]().
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, April 4, Petaluma
· Salsa Saturday, all ages, April 4, Novato
· East Bay Speed Dating for 40s/50s, April 5, Walnut Creek
· Advanced Degrees Mixer, adults of all ages, April 9, San Francisco
· 80s Dance Party, all ages, April 11, San Rafael
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, April 19, Los Gatos
· Speed Dating, 30s/40s, April 22, Emeryville
· Speed Dancing, 40+, April 25, San Rafael
· Speed Dating, 40s/50s, May 3, Petaluma
· Cinco de Mayo Party for 50+, May 5, San Francisco
· Marin Speed Dating, 30s/40s, May 6, San Rafael
· SingleMingle for 50+, May 17, Tiburon
· 90s Dance Party, May 23, May 23, San Rafael
· Silicon Valley Mixer, 50+, May 26, Campbell
· Marin Speed Dating, 40s/50s, June 7, Tiburon
· 50 & Fabulous Mixer, 50+, June 25, San Francisco
· Speed Dating, 30s/40s, June 28, NovatoFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.
16 attendees
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