About us
Are you tired of dating apps and swiping left and right? Join us for our Bay Area Singles Mixer where you can meet like-minded individuals who are also seeking genuine connections. Our group is dedicated to bringing together social, single, and lonely individuals in a fun and relaxed setting. Whether you're new to the city or just looking to expand your social circle, this meetup is perfect for those who are tired of the superficiality of online dating. Come join us for a night of mingling, games, and laughter – who knows, you might just meet someone special!
Our group is open to everyone, whether you're from a tech background or not. We welcome participants from all fields and walks of life!
Eligibility:
21+ older
Conduct Guidelines:
- Be respectful to others. Disparaging or abusive behavior will result in removal.
- Keep your RSVP status updated for all events.
- Only attend events if you've been confirmed. No gate-crashing. If you gate-crash, we would ban you for the next two events.
- Ensure your profile has a clear photo and an updated bio. If privacy is a concern, contact the host.
- For events requiring payment, both members and guests must pay in advance. No refunds will be issued.
- Business solicitations, such as selling real estate, are not permitted at any event.
- Do not send unsolicited messages, texts, or emails to group members unless consent has been given.
- Repeated "no-shows" may result in removal. Remember, hosting events takes significant effort.
- If we suspect any spammers or fake profile, we would reach out for additional proof's to ensure the safety of others.
Safety:
- We take safety very seriously. If you feel like someone is reaching out to you or stalking you, please report it immediately. The member would be given warning or removed from the group.
- When leaving the event, if you feel unsafe, please try to go out in a crowd. If you can't find anyone, please do reach out to the host and we can try to find someone to your car.
- Please don't drink and drive and drink responsibly. The group wouldn't be responsible for your actions based on the law.
- In case of car ride, try to be careful if someone offers you a ride to your house, unless it's a known acquaintance.
- Make sure to not keep any valuables in your car. The group would not be responsible for any break-ins.
- Safety remains a top priority for the group. At the same time, try to enjoy the event. Feel free to contact the organizers for any feedback/comments after event.
Donations for Society:
If you met someone amazing at our event—whether it’s a new friend, a potential partner, or just someone who shares your weirdly specific love for pineapple pizza—consider spreading the love with a donation to one of these worthy causes:
- UNICEF (helping kids everywhere live brighter lives)
- PETA (for all the animal lovers out there)
- Red Cross (because sometimes, everyone needs a hero)
Plus, your donation might be tax-deductible, so it’s a nice bonus!
P.S. Our accounts are open, too… if you’re in the mood to drop a huge donation. 😜 (Just kidding!)
Disclaimer:
The group is not responsible for any actions of individual members and their guests. We have not performed any background checks or identification of any members. The group and hosts are NOT responsible for any damages caused to you by any of it's members and any of the events.
Any damages to the property or facility where the event would be hosted would be liable to the member or their guests who were responsible for the damages. All members should follow the local laws. Each member should have read this description before proceeding to attend any events.
The organizer, co-organizers are volunteers and are take no responsibility for any injuries nor accidents that may occur during events. We don't conduct any COVID checks for people attending the events. If you are concerned about any health issues or facing any health issues, please refrain from attending the events. Follow any safety protocols such as masks or sanitizers, for your own safety.
Upcoming events
10
- $30.00
Black & Dating: A Black-Centered Mixer Open to All
DACHA Kitchen & Bar, 1085 Sutter St, San Francisco, CA 94109, USA, San Francisco, CA, USWhether you’re African American or simply interested in meeting Black singles, this is a wonderful opportunity to expand your social circle, spark new friendships, and perhaps even meet someone special. Adult Singles of all races and ethnicities are warmly welcome.
Dress to impress and enjoy an evening of lively conversation at a lovely restaurant. Our signature FUN Mixer Game makes it effortless to meet lots of interesting people—breaking the ice naturally and ensuring everyone has a chance to connect. No awkward moments, just great conversations and a fun, welcoming atmosphere! Adults of all ages are welcome.
TICKETS: $30/early birds; $40/advance; $50/door, if space permits. These events often sell out, so we recommend purchasing a ticket early. RSVP does NOT guarantee you a spot, only if you prepay online by credit card.
WHEN: Thursday, October 15, 7-9pm.
WHERE: DACHA, 1085 Sutter Street, San Francisco CA. Free street parking in SF after 6pm. We request that everyone purchase at least one drink so that this fine venue invites us back!
CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at [www.thepartyhotline.com]().
· National Singles Day Speed Dating, 40s/50s, Sep 26, Emeryville
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Oct 1, Santa Clara
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, Oct 3, San Francisco
· Speed Dating for 40s/50s at fun hotel, Oct 10, San Francisco
· Master Speed Dating! Online Seminar, all ages, Oct 11
· African American Singles & Those Who Love Them, all ages, Oct 15, SF
· Single and Ready to Mingle, 50+, Oct 18, Tiburon
· Peninsula Speed Dating for 30s/40s, Oct 25, South San Francisco
· Rooftop Party at Spectacular Hotel, 40+, Oct 25, Napa
· Halloween Party, 21-49, Oct 31, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 50+, Oct 31, Mill Valley
· Peninsula 50+ Mixer, Nov 1, Burlingame
· Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 13, TiburonFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.
15 attendees - $45.00
Single & Ready to Mingle, 50+
Mog Asu Wine Bar & Bottle Shop, 1 Blackfield Dr Ste 14, Belvedere Tiburon, CA 94920, USA, Tiburon, CA, USMeet new single friends, 50+. Enjoy a gorgeous venue, and make connections easily with our FUN Mixer Game! Dress to impress and join us for a memorable evening.
WHEN: Sunday, Oct 18, 2026, 7-9pm.
WHERE:Mog Asu Wine Bar at The Cove Shopping Center, 1 Blackfield Drive #14, Tiburon, CA. Free parking!
TICKETS: $45 (early birds). $55 at the door (if space permits).
Don't wait, as these events often sell out! RSVP does NOT guarantee you a spot, only if you prepay online by credit card.CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at [www.thepartyhotline.com]().
· National Singles Day Speed Dating, 40s/50s, Sep 26, Emeryville
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Oct 1, Santa Clara
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, Oct 3, San Francisco
· Speed Dating for 40s/50s at fun hotel, Oct 10, San Francisco
· Master Speed Dating! Online Seminar, all ages, Oct 11
· Single and Ready to Mingle, 50+, Oct 18, Tiburon
· Peninsula Speed Dating for 30s/40s, Oct 25, South San Francisco
· Rooftop Party at Spectacular Hotel, 40+, Oct 25, Napa
· Halloween Party, 21-49, Oct 31, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 50+, Oct 31, Mill Valley
· Peninsula 50+ Mixer, Nov 1, Burlingame
· Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 13, TiburonFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.
13 attendees - $35.00
Peninsula Speed Dating for 30s/40s
DoubleTree by Hilton San Francisco South Airport Blvd, 275 S Airport Blvd, South San Francisco, CA 94080, USA, South San Francisco, CA, USMeet new single friends, 30s/40s, 5 minutes at a time, at a fine hotel near SFO with free parking during the party!
DISCOUNT TICKETS: $35/early birds. $45/advance. $55/door, if space permits. These events usually sell out, so we recommend purchasing an advanced ticket online. RSVP does NOT guarantee you a spot, only if you buy a ticket online by credit card.
WHEN: Sunday, Oct 25, 2026, 3:30-6pm.
WHERE: The lovely Garden Room at DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel, 275 S Airport Blvd, South San Francisco CA. We ask everyone to purchase at least one drink so that this fine venue invites us back.
SCHEDULE:
3:15pm – 3:30 pm Registration.
3:30 pm – 3:45 pm Speed Dating Introduction
3:45 pm – 5:30 pm Speed Dating
5:30pm – 6:00 pm Socializing
Your spot will be given away if you have not checked in by 3:45 PM.CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at [www.thepartyhotline.com]().
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Oct 1, Santa Clara
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, Oct 3, San Francisco
· Speed Dating for 40s/50s at fun hotel, Oct 10, San Francisco
· Master Speed Dating! Online Seminar, all ages, Oct 11
· Salsa Saturday! All ages, Oct 17, Novato
· Single and Ready to Mingle, 50+, Oct 18, Tiburon
· Peninsula Speed Dating for 30s/40s, Oct 25, South San Francisco
· Rooftop Party at Spectacular Hotel, 40+, Oct 25, Napa
· Fresh Start Social, adults of all ages, Oct 29, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 21-49, Oct 31, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 50+, Oct 31, Mill Valley
· Peninsula 50+ Mixer, Nov 1, Burlingame
· Marin Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 13, Tiburon
· Silicon Valley Christmas Mixer, 50+, Dec 15, CampbellFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc.
12 attendees - $45.00
Rooftop Party at Spectacular Hotel, 40+
Archer Hotel Napa, 1230 1st St, Napa, CA 94559, USA, Napa, CA, USMeet new single friends, 40+, at Napa’s most beautiful boutique hotel! Dress to impress. Sunday, October 25, 2026, 3-5pm.
TICKETS: $45. The hotel has asked us NOT to collect money at the door, so you must be on the prepaid list to attend. RSVP does NOT count. INCLUDES light appetizers, served at 3pm, as long as they last; plus a FUN Mixer Game, with prizes. In order to facilitate gender balance, we are offering you the opportunity to bring a bachelor friend to the party, free of charge! Please email us at rich@richgosse.com,after you purchase a ticket, so we can add his name to the guest list.
LOCATION: Archer Hotel, 1230 First Street, Napa CA 94559. Enjoy both outdoors and indoors at the lovely Sky & Vine Rooftop Bar. Part of this bar is fully covered. As you enter the Archer Hotel, you'll be overwhelmed by the majestic lobby. It will make you feel that you've entered a lobby at one of the National Parks. It's that beautiful. Take one of the elevators up to the rooftop outside bar. That's where you'll join us. The surrounding views of the downtown area are absolutely amazing. The Archer Hotel is the tallest building in the entire Napa Valley, with sweeping views from our rooftop party! There are heat lamps and comfortable chairs for us to sit on. Some with a fire pit. Here's your chance to actually meet someone in a casual environment like before online dating was invented.
If by chance you stick around until it gets dark, you can enjoy eating at one of the many outstanding restaurants or walk around the downtown area. Lots of free parking on the street and nearby garages. The Archer Hotel is located within easy walking distance of world class restaurants and distinctive shops. Our party at The Archer before the pandemic was the subject of a major feature story in The Napa Register!
CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at www.thepartyhotline.com.
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Oct 1, Santa Clara
· 50 & Fabulous, 50+, Oct 3, San Francisco
· Speed Dating for 40s/50s at fun hotel, Oct 10, San Francisco
· Master Speed Dating! Online Seminar, all ages, Oct 11
· Single and Ready to Mingle, 50+, Oct 18, Tiburon
· Peninsula Speed Dating for 30s/40s, Oct 25, South San Francisco
· Rooftop Party at Spectacular Hotel, 40+, Oct 25, Napa
· Fresh Start Social, adults of all ages, Oct 29, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 21-49, Oct 31, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 50+, Oct 31, Mill Valley
· Peninsula 50+ Mixer, Nov 1, Burlingame
· Marin Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 13, Tiburon
· Silicon Valley Christmas Mixer, 50+, Dec 15, CampbellFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.
14 attendees
Past events
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