About us
Are you tired of dating apps and swiping left and right? Join us for our Bay Area Singles Mixer where you can meet like-minded individuals who are also seeking genuine connections. Our group is dedicated to bringing together social, single, and lonely individuals in a fun and relaxed setting. Whether you're new to the city or just looking to expand your social circle, this meetup is perfect for those who are tired of the superficiality of online dating. Come join us for a night of mingling, games, and laughter – who knows, you might just meet someone special!
Our group is open to everyone, whether you're from a tech background or not. We welcome participants from all fields and walks of life!
Eligibility:
21+ older
Conduct Guidelines:
- Be respectful to others. Disparaging or abusive behavior will result in removal.
- Keep your RSVP status updated for all events.
- Only attend events if you've been confirmed. No gate-crashing. If you gate-crash, we would ban you for the next two events.
- Ensure your profile has a clear photo and an updated bio. If privacy is a concern, contact the host.
- For events requiring payment, both members and guests must pay in advance. No refunds will be issued.
- Business solicitations, such as selling real estate, are not permitted at any event.
- Do not send unsolicited messages, texts, or emails to group members unless consent has been given.
- Repeated "no-shows" may result in removal. Remember, hosting events takes significant effort.
- If we suspect any spammers or fake profile, we would reach out for additional proof's to ensure the safety of others.
Safety:
- We take safety very seriously. If you feel like someone is reaching out to you or stalking you, please report it immediately. The member would be given warning or removed from the group.
- When leaving the event, if you feel unsafe, please try to go out in a crowd. If you can't find anyone, please do reach out to the host and we can try to find someone to your car.
- Please don't drink and drive and drink responsibly. The group wouldn't be responsible for your actions based on the law.
- In case of car ride, try to be careful if someone offers you a ride to your house, unless it's a known acquaintance.
- Make sure to not keep any valuables in your car. The group would not be responsible for any break-ins.
- Safety remains a top priority for the group. At the same time, try to enjoy the event. Feel free to contact the organizers for any feedback/comments after event.
Donations for Society:
If you met someone amazing at our event—whether it’s a new friend, a potential partner, or just someone who shares your weirdly specific love for pineapple pizza—consider spreading the love with a donation to one of these worthy causes:
- UNICEF (helping kids everywhere live brighter lives)
- PETA (for all the animal lovers out there)
- Red Cross (because sometimes, everyone needs a hero)
Plus, your donation might be tax-deductible, so it’s a nice bonus!
P.S. Our accounts are open, too… if you’re in the mood to drop a huge donation. 😜 (Just kidding!)
Disclaimer:
The group is not responsible for any actions of individual members and their guests. We have not performed any background checks or identification of any members. The group and hosts are NOT responsible for any damages caused to you by any of it's members and any of the events.
Any damages to the property or facility where the event would be hosted would be liable to the member or their guests who were responsible for the damages. All members should follow the local laws. Each member should have read this description before proceeding to attend any events.
The organizer, co-organizers are volunteers and are take no responsibility for any injuries nor accidents that may occur during events. We don't conduct any COVID checks for people attending the events. If you are concerned about any health issues or facing any health issues, please refrain from attending the events. Follow any safety protocols such as masks or sanitizers, for your own safety.
Upcoming events
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- $45.00

East Bay Mixer for 50+
Hilton Garden Inn Walnut Creek, 490 Lawrence Way, Walnut Creek, CA 94596, USA, Walnut Creek, CA, USMeet new single friends, 50+, at an upscale hotel! Make connections easily with our FUN Mixer Game. Dress to impress and join us for a memorable evening!
WHEN: Sunday, November 8, 2026, 7-9pm.
WHERE: Hilton Garden Inn, 490 Lawrence Way. Walnut Creek, CA. Free parking! Please purchase at least one drink, so this venue has us back again!
DISCOUNT TICKETS: $45 (early birds). $55 at the door (if space permits). Tickets are limited. If you want to buy tickets, please click HERE. Your RSVP on meetup is NOT a ticket and does NOT guarantee you a spot. Don't wait, as these events often sell out!
CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at [www.thepartyhotline.com]().
· Peninsula Speed Dating for 30s/40s, Oct 25, South San Francisco
· Rooftop Party at Spectacular Hotel, 40+, Oct 25, Napa
· Fresh Start Social, adults of all ages, Oct 29, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 50+, Oct 31, Mill Valley
· Halloween Party, adults of all ages, Oct 31, Sunnyvale
· Peninsula 50+ Mixer, Nov 1, Burlingame
· East Bay Party for 50+, Nov 8, Walnut Creek
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 40s/50s, Nov 11, Palo Alto
· Asian Singles & Those Who Love Them, adults of all ages, Nov 15, Newark/Fremont
· East Bay Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Nov 18, Lafayette
· Wine Tasting & Party in The Sonoma Wine Country, 40+, Nov 22
· Holiday Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Dec 2, San Jose
· Marin Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 13, Tiburon
· Silicon Valley Christmas Mixer, 50+, Dec 15, Campbell
· New Years Eve Bash, adults of all ages, Dec 31, Sunnyvale
· Hispanic Singles & Those Who Love Them, adults of all ages, Jan 7, SF. Details soon!
· Marin Mixer for 50+, Jan 17, Tiburon. Details soon!FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.
12 attendees - $35.00

Silicon Valley Speed Dating for 40s/ 50s
The Westin Palo Alto, 675 El Camino Real, Palo Alto, CA 94301, USA, Palo Alto, CA, USMeet new single friends, 40s/50s, 5 minutes at a time, at a fine hotel in the Silicon Valley! Dress to impress.
DISCOUNT TICKETS: $35/early birds; $45/advance; $55/door, if space permits. We recommend that you purchase an advance ticket, since these events usually sell out. If you want to buy tickets, please click HERE. Your RSVP on meetup is NOT a ticket and does NOT guarantee you a spot.
WHEN: Wednesday, Nov 11, 2026, 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM.
WHERE: The Westin Palo Alto, 675 El Camino Real, Palo Alto, CA. Complimentary parking during the event! Simply take a parking ticket upon entering and keep it with you. When you’re ready to leave, scan the QR code on your ticket for easy exit. We ask everyone to purchase at least one drink so that this fine venue invites us back.
SCHEDULE:
6:45 pm – 7:00 pm Registration.
7:00 pm – 7:15 pm Speed Dating Introduction
7:15 pm – 9:00 pm Speed Dating
Your spot will be given away if you have not checked in by 7:15 PM.CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, SinglesBayArea, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at [www.thepartyhotline.com]().
· Salsa Saturday! All ages, Oct 17, Novato
· Single and Ready to Mingle, 50+, Oct 18, Tiburon
· Asian Singles & Those Who Love Them, all ages, Oct 18, Los Gatos
· Peninsula Speed Dating for 30s/40s, Oct 25, South San Francisco
· Rooftop Party at Spectacular Hotel, 40+, Oct 25, Napa
· Fresh Start Social, adults of all ages, Oct 29, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 21-49, Oct 31, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 50+, Oct 31, Mill Valley
· Halloween Party, adults of all ages, Oct 31, Sunnyvale
· Peninsula 50+ Mixer, Nov 1, Burlingame
· Sonoma Wine Country Tasting & Party, 40+, Nov 5, Windsor
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 40s/50s, Nov 11, Palo Alto
· Asian Singles & Those Who Love Them, Adults of all ages, Nov 15, Newark/Fremont
· Holiday Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Dec 2, San Jose
· Marin Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 13, Tiburon
· Silicon Valley Christmas Mixer, 50+, Dec 15, Campbell
· Hispanic Singles & Those Who Love Them, adults of all age, Jan 7, SFFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.
17 attendees - $30.00

Asian Singles & Those Who Love Them
DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel Newark - Fremont, 39900 Balentine Dr, Newark, CA 94560, USA, Newark, CA, USWhether you’re Asian or simply interested in meeting Asian singles, this is a wonderful opportunity to expand your social circle, spark new friendships, and perhaps even meet someone special. Singles of all ethnicities are warmly welcome. Please note: We have an earlier Asian Singles Mixer on Oct 18 in Los Gatos.
DISCOUNT TICKETS: $30/early birds. $40/advance; $50/door. We recommend that you purchase an advance ticket, because our last two Asian Singles Mixers have sold out! If you want to buy tickets, please click HERE. Your RSVP on meetup is NOT a ticket and does NOT guarantee you a spot.
Dress to impress and enjoy an evening of lively conversation in an elegant setting. Our signature FUN Mixer Game makes it effortless to meet lots of interesting people—breaking the ice naturally and ensuring everyone has a chance to connect. No awkward moments, just great conversations and a fun, welcoming atmosphere! Adults of all ages are welcome.
WHEN: Sunday, November 15, 2026, 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM.
WHERE: DoubleTree by Hilton Newark/Fremont, Bistro 880, 39900 Balentine Dr, Newark CA. Free parking!
CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Your Asian Connection, SinglesBayArea, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
Come solo, bring a smile, and leave with new friends—and perhaps the beginning of something special.
MORE PARTIES at [www.thepartyhotline.com]().
· Black & Dating: A Black-Centered Mixer Open to All, All ages, 10/15 SF
· Salsa Saturday! All ages, Oct 17, Novato
· Single and Ready to Mingle, 50+, Oct 18, Tiburon
· Asian Singles & Those Who Love Them, all ages, Oct 18, Los Gatos
· Peninsula Speed Dating for 30s/40s, Oct 25, South San Francisco
· Rooftop Party at Spectacular Hotel, 40+, Oct 25, Napa
· Fresh Start Social, adults of all ages, Oct 29, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 21-49, Oct 31, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 50+, Oct 31, Mill Valley
· Halloween Party, adults of all ages, Oct 31, Sunnyvale
· Peninsula 50+ Mixer, Nov 1, Burlingame
· Sonoma Wine Country Tasting & Party, 40+, Nov 5, Windsor
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 40s/50s, Nov 11, Palo Alto
· Asian Singles & Those Who Love Them, adults of all ages, Nov 15, Newark/Fremont
· East Bay Speed Dating for 30s/40s, Nov 18, Lafayette
· Holiday Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Dec 2, San Jose
· Marin Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 13, Tiburon
· Silicon Valley Christmas Mixer, 50+, Dec 15, Campbell
· New Years Eve Bash, adults of all ages, Dec 31, Sunnyvale
· Hispanic Singles & Those Who Love Them, adults of all ages, Jan 7, SF. Details soon!FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.
21 attendees - $35.00

East Bay Speed Dating for 30s/40s
Metro Lafayette, 3524 Mount Diablo Blvd, Lafayette, CA 94549, USA, Lafayette, CA, USMeet new single friends, 30s/40s, 5 minutes at a time, at a large fun restaurant!
DISCOUNT TICKETS: $35/early birds. $45/advance. $55/door, if space permits. These events usually sell out, so we recommend purchasing an advanced ticket online. If you want to buy tickets, please click HERE. Your RSVP on meetup is NOT a ticket and does NOT guarantee you a spot.
WHEN: Wednesday, November 18, 2026, 7-9pm.
WHERE: Metro Lafayette, 3524 Mt. Diablo Blvd, Lafayette CA. Free parking! We ask everyone to purchase at least one drink so that this fine venue invites us back.
SCHEDULE:
6:45 pm – 7:00 pm Registration.
7:00 pm – 7:15 pm Speed Dating Introduction
7:15 pm – 9:00 pm Speed Dating
Your spot will be given away if you have not checked in by 7:15 PM.CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.
MORE PARTIES at [www.thepartyhotline.com]().
· Peninsula Speed Dating for 30s/40s, Oct 25, South San Francisco
· Rooftop Party at Spectacular Hotel, 40+, Oct 25, Napa
· Fresh Start Social, adults of all ages, Oct 29, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 21-49, Oct 31, San Francisco
· Halloween Party, 50+, Oct 31, Mill Valley
· Halloween Party, adults of all ages, Oct 31, Sunnyvale
· Peninsula 50+ Mixer, Nov 1, Burlingame
· Silicon Valley Speed Dating, 40s/50s, Nov 11, Palo Alto
· Asian Singles & Those Who Love Them, adults of all ages, Nov 15, Newark/Fremont
· East Bay Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Nov 18, Lafayette
· Wine Tasting & Party in The Sonoma Wine Country, 40+, Nov 22
· Holiday Speed Dating, 30s/40s, Dec 2, San Jose
· Marin Christmas Mixer, 40+, Dec 13, Tiburon
· Silicon Valley Christmas Mixer, 50+, Dec 15, Campbell
· New Years Eve Bash, adults of all ages, Dec 31, Sunnyvale
· Hispanic Singles & Those Who Love Them, adults of all ages, Jan 7, SF. Details soon!FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM.
VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.
PLEASE NOTE: The number of people who RSVP on this meetup doesn't reflect all who have registered or will be attending. We promote our events on 26 different singles meetups and dozens of major websites, including Facebook, Twitter, Yelp, Yahoo, Google, etc., plus email blasts to thousands of Bay Area singles.
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