About us
Soulmated is an online discussion community for people who want honest, structured conversations about dating, relationships, communication, and connection.
If you are single, dating again after a long relationship, or simply trying to understand your patterns and make better choices, you will find your people here.
This is not therapy. It is not a dating service. It is a moderated space where thoughtful adults, mostly singles 35 and older, show up on camera, share real perspectives, and leave with something useful.
What we talk about:
- Dating dynamics, compatibility, and what you actually want
- Communication, boundaries, and emotional patterns
- Modern dating: apps, ghosting, timing, and starting over
- Relationships after divorce, loss, or a long situationship
What makes this different:
- Every session is moderated and structured, not a free-for-all
- Camera-on culture. Real faces, real conversation.
- No performative sharing, no preaching, no pressure
- Built from a card game designed to spark the conversations most people avoid
Most members are 35 to 65, based across North America, and done with surface-level connection.
RSVP to an upcoming event. Come with a perspective or a question. That is all it takes.
Upcoming events
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SoulSessions (Pop-Up Edition)
·OnlineOnlineSoulSessions (Pop-Up Edition)
Real Talk. Real Faces. Real Connection.A few of you asked for a SoulSession this Sunday, so we’re making it happen.
This one will be intentionally small: 10 seats only.
No presentation. No set agenda. Just 10 people, cameras on, having the kind of conversations that are harder to have in a crowded room.
We might explore a few Soulmated questions, talk about relationships and dating, share what’s been on our minds lately, or let the conversation take us somewhere completely unexpected.
Come with something you want to talk about, a question you’ve been sitting with, or simply a willingness to join the conversation.
🎴 No pressure to perform. Just come ready to participate.
💬 Expect real dialogue, not distant commentary.
🧠 Some conversations may be reflective. Others may be funny, challenging, or completely spontaneous.This is a camera-on, participation-based space.
If your camera is off, you’ll be placed in the waiting room. If it stays off, you’ll be removed from the session. This helps keep the group personal and engaged.🪑 10 seats. That’s it.
Once they’re gone, registration closes.🍷 Bring your wine, tea, or favorite drink.
Let’s close the weekend on a good note—with connection, insight, and warmth.Our goal?
Everyone leaves with value and a positive vibe.Before registering, ask yourself:
“Am I ready to contribute to a thoughtful, open-hearted space?”We’d love to have you.
Dan
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Then & Now: What Dating Got Right, What It Got Wrong
·OnlineOnlineThen & Now: What Dating Got Right, What It Got Wrong
Dating has changed. Some things are easier now. Some things are more confusing. And a few old habits may deserve another look.
Join us for a lighter, interactive Soulmated night built around stories, quick debates, and dating habits from then and now. We will compare old-school courtship with modern dating, vote on what should come back, laugh at what should stay in the past, and talk about how technology has changed communication, effort, trust, and expectations.
Expect questions like “bring it back or leave it behind,” dating scenarios from different eras, and a few chances to share your own experience. You do not need to be dating right now to join. Singles, partnered people, divorced members, widowed members, and anyone interested in how relationships have changed are welcome.
📍This is a camera-on space.
If your camera is off, you’ll be placed in the waiting room. If it stays off, you’ll be removed from the session.
This helps us protect the energy and intimacy of the group.🪑 50 spots only.
Small on purpose, so everyone can speak if they choose.🍷 Bring your wine, tea, or favorite drink.
Let’s close the weekend on a good note—with connection, insight, and warmth.Our goal?
Everyone leaves with value and a positive vibe.Before registering, ask yourself:
“Am I ready to contribute to a thoughtful, open-hearted space?”We’d love to have you.
Dan
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What That Relationship Was Trying to Teach You
·OnlineOnlineMost people exit relationships with a verdict: that person was wrong for me, it didn't work out, I wasted time.
What fewer people do is sit with what actually happened long enough to extract anything useful from it.
The lessons are there. They just take more honesty to reach than a verdict does.
This conversation opens L: Lessons and Reset in the SOUL Framework series. A three-month chapter focused on extracting real value from what's behind you and recalibrating for what's ahead.
💬 What we'll explore:
- Why most people leave relationships with a story instead of a lesson
- The difference between blaming a past partner and understanding a past dynamic
- What patterns tend to show up across relationships when people don't do this work
- How to extract lessons from relationships without turning it into self-criticism
- The questions worth asking about a relationship once you have some distance from it
- What it looks like to genuinely integrate an experience vs. just move on from it
🧠 You'll leave with:
- A framework for revisiting past relationships with more honesty and less judgment
- Specific questions to extract real lessons instead of just reactions
- A clearer picture of what patterns, if any, have been following you
What to expect: This is a peer-led group discussion; there's no formal presentation or coaching. You'll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or listen in, you're welcome here.
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
What's shared in the meeting stays in the meeting. Vegas Rule applies.
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Dan
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Past events
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