Soulmated: Real Talk on Dating and Relationships

Most people don't lose themselves all at once.

Chemistry is real. The pull toward someone you want to keep is real. But somewhere between trying harder and trying to be different, the line gets crossed. Not every change in a relationship is growth. Some of it is performance. Some of it is erasure dressed up as effort.

This conversation is built around one honest question: what has actually changed about you in past relationships, and was it yours to give?

💬 What We'll Explore

• The difference between growth that comes from within and change that comes from wanting to be enough for someone else
• How chemistry and fear of loss quietly override what you actually need
• What your non-negotiables reveal about who you are, not just what you want
• How to recognize self-directed change versus self-abandonment in real time

You'll Leave With

• A clearer read on which past changes were growth and which were loss
• Language to name what is non-negotiable about who you are
• A more honest framework for evaluating compatibility without shrinking

What to Expect
This is a peer-led group discussion; there's no formal presentation or coaching. You'll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or listen in, you're welcome here.

🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.

What's shared in the meeting stays in the meeting. Vegas Rule applies.

SoulSessions (Pop-Up Edition)
Milestone, pressure, or just an introduction?

Meeting someone’s friends or family can feel like a meaningful step, but people do not always agree on what that step means.

Does an introduction signal commitment?
How soon is too soon?
What happens when the people closest to you do not approve of the person you are dating?
And how much influence should friends and family have on your relationship decisions?

In this SoulSession, we will explore the expectations, assumptions, and social pressures that can come with meeting the important people in someone’s life.

## About SoulSessions

Real Talk. Real Faces. Real Connection.
SoulSessions are smaller, camera-on conversations built around honest discussion and member experiences. The format is relaxed, but each session has a clear focus to help guide the conversation.
There is no pressure to have the perfect answer or share more than you are comfortable sharing. Come ready to listen, reflect, and contribute.

📍This is a camera-on space.
If your camera is off, you’ll be placed in the waiting room. If it stays off, you’ll be removed from the session.
This helps us protect the energy and intimacy of the group.

🪑 25 spots only.
Small on purpose, so everyone can speak if they choose.

🍷 Bring your wine, tea, or favorite drink.
Let’s close the weekend on a good note—with connection, insight, and warmth.

Our goal?
Everyone leaves with value and a positive vibe.

Before registering, ask yourself:
“Am I ready to contribute to a thoughtful, open-hearted space?”

We’d love to have you.

🍷 Bring your drink of choice.

Dating has given all of us moments we look back on and laugh. The second-guessing, the overthinking, the "why did I say that." This Sunday, we're turning those moments into a game.

What this is

Bingo & Laugh: Dating Life Edition is a virtual game night where the bingo card is built from real, relatable dating experiences. The host reads the squares, you mark your card, and first person to get bingo calls it in the chat. Winner takes home a Soulmated deck to bring to their next dinner or date night.
No agenda. No deep dive. Just a room full of people recognizing themselves in the same card.

What to expect

💬 A relaxed, camera-on session with a 25-spot cap. The game moves fast, the conversation is light, and the laughs are real. This is the first in a five-part Bingo & Laugh series, each one built around a different corner of dating and relationship life.

🎥 Camera on is required to play. If you join with your camera off, you may be removed to make room for someone on the waitlist.

What's shared in the meeting stays in the meeting. Vegas Rule applies.

There's a version of a non-negotiable that's actually just a preference. And there's a version of a growth edge that's actually a dealbreaker someone isn't ready to define yet. Most people have the two confused, and it costs them clarity at exactly the wrong moments.

This conversation closes out O: Outcome Vision in the SOUL Framework series. Over the past two months we've explored what you're looking for and whether your life is set up for it. Now we're drawing the line: what are you unwilling to compromise on, and what are you mistaking for a dealbreaker because growth feels uncomfortable?

💬 What we'll explore:

• How to tell if a non-negotiable is values-based or fear-based
• How to audit the list you've been carrying without starting from scratch
• Where flexibility ends and self-abandonment begins

🧠 You'll leave with:

• A cleaner distinction between your actual non-negotiables and your preferences
• A way to test whether a line is worth holding
• More confidence in your own judgment when things feel ambiguous

What to expect: This is a peer-led group discussion; there's no formal presentation or coaching. You'll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or listen in, you're welcome here.

🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
What's shared in the meeting stays in the meeting. Vegas Rule applies.