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Welcome to New Jersey LGBTQ+ Meetups!
We're your go-to source for all things LGBTQ+ happening in New Jersey. We promote and showcase the many events organized by various LGBTQ+ groups in the state. *We are not affiliated with any one organization or group - just facilitator to help you find many of the vibrant LGBTQ+ events in NJ*
Stay tuned for the best happy hours, activities, book clubs and many other exciting happenings nearby! If you have LGBTQ+ events you'd like to advertise, please reach out to us with plenty of notice so we can add them, here.
Upcoming events
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Gay Social's North Jersey Pride Night Out
F.M. Kirby Carriage House Restaurant at the Paper Mill Playhouse, 22 Brookside Drive, Millburn, NJ, USThis event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
Pride Night Out is a monthly LGBTQ community gathering in Millburn designed for catching up with friends and meeting new ones in a welcoming nightlife setting. The evening is social and conversational, with people mingling throughout the space and joining different groups as the night unfolds.
Check in with our Community Managers, Sheldon and Nick, who are there to welcome newcomers, make introductions, and help everyone feel included.
Event details
🍸 First Tuesday of each month
⏰ 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM
📍 F.M. Kirby Carriage House at Paper Mill Playhouse
🎟️ Free to attend / No RSVP needed
🅿️ Street parking available
ℹ️ Food and drinks on your own12 attendees
Gay Social's Unwined
Beneduce Vineyards, 1 Jeremiah Lane, Pittstown, NJ, USThis event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
We’re spending the afternoon at Beneduce Vineyards—great wine, even better company, and a dreamy setting that does all the work. We’ll have a designated gathering spot so just ask the staff when you arrive and they’ll point you toward the fun.
They have plenty of seating, so just bring your picnic snacks (outside food is welcome!) and settle in. No outside beverages allowed, but trust—the wine is worth it. Sometimes there’s a food truck too, if you’re in a grazing mood.
🎟️ No RSVP needed
🚗 Free parking on-siteNote: Last call is 3:30pm and the winery closes at 4pm.
Food and drink purchases are on your own. Please drink responsibly. Gay Social promotes inclusiveness, respect, and community. We enforce a zero-tolerance policy towards any form of harassment or misconduct to ensure a safe and welcoming environment for all. Please note that Gay Social is not responsible for individual behavior or personal consumption.
3 attendees
Gay Social's Coffee Social
Scout's Coffee Bar + Mercantile, 11 Main Street, High Bridge, NJ, USThis event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
Coffee Social is a monthly LGBTQ community gathering in High Bridge where LGBTQ people come together for relaxed conversation and connection. Some folks stop by for a quick hello, others stay the whole time, and both are welcome. It is an easy way to meet new people and spend part of your weekend with the community.
Check in with our Community Manager, Phil Carroll , who is there to welcome newcomers, help make introductions, and make sure everyone feels comfortable settling in, especially if it is your first time joining us.
Event details
☕ Second Sunday of each month
⏰ 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM
📍 Scouts Coffee Bar, High Bridge
🎟️ Free to attend / No RSVP needed
🅿️ Free street parking and nearby NJ Transit lot
ℹ️ Food and drinks on your own6 attendees
Gay Social's 3RD Cup Saturday
Sugar Tree Cafe, 358 Passaic Avenue, Nutley, NJ, USThis event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
3rd Cup Saturday is an afternoon coffee meetup with the LGBTQ community. It is friendly, unhurried, and easy to join. People come to catch up, meet someone new, or just spend a bit of time together without a packed schedule.
Billy, our Community Manager, is there to welcome newcomers and help connect people naturally.
Event details
☕ Every other month, third Saturday
⏰ 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM
📍 Sugar Tree Cafe, Nutley
🎟️ Free to attend / No RSVP needed
🅿️ Free street and lot parking
ℹ️ Food and drinks on your own5 attendees
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