City & She

Making genuine, high-quality friendships as an adult shouldn’t be complicated. Between demanding careers, evolving priorities, and busy schedules, finding women who share your lifestyle and values can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. This group is for women 40+ across NYC and Jersey City who appreciate great dining, arts, and vibrant conversation.

I'm an experienced organizer and I curate elevated dinners, chic brunches, museum visits, and more. Most events are strictly capped at 6 people to keep tables intimate and connections real.

Come solo and join a welcoming circle of inspiring women!

A Few Simple Guidelines

To keep our gatherings seamless, intimate, and enjoyable for everyone, we ask all members to follow a few core standards:

• Clear Profile Photo: Please use a recognizable photo of yourself on your profile so we can spot and welcome you easily when you arrive.
• Venmo Deposit for Reservations: Because our tables are strictly capped at 6 guests, dining events require a small deposit via Venmo or Zelle to hold your seat. This goes 100% toward your individual meal/drinks at the table.
• Reliability & Respect: High-demand reservations and small table caps rely on accurate headcounts. If your plans change, please update your RSVP well in advance. No-shows or cancellations without communication will lead to removal from the group to keep things fair for those on the waitlist.
• Active Community (1 Event Every 3 Months): We focus on maintaining an engaged, tight-knit group rather than a large roster of inactive members. We ask that everyone attend at least one gathering every 3 months. If life gets busy and you are removed for inactivity, no worries at all. You are always warmly invited to rejoin whenever your schedule opens up!