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This is a group for adults only, no pets at events, all attendees must be members of the group (meaning no guests allowed), and all members must read the rules ("Guiding Light") section below before attending any events.
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Hi all,

I have taken over as the organizer of this group so it doesn't expire. I see that events continue to run and don't want the opportunities to be lost.
- Mike

This group's mission is to be a VERY fun group for both men and women of ALL AGES, from all walks of life, of all orientations and philosophies -- but -- only for those who are positive, friendly and drama-free! :D (Please do not bring attitude or negativity to the group, unless warranted, and even then, only bring the matter to the attention of the Event Host or the overall Group Organizer/Owner for consideration). Essentially this group is for nice people to have something positive and fun to do, but not to have to deal with attention seekers, gossip mongers or chronic complainers.

Events will take place in Ottawa and surrounding areas, and the types of activities we have hosted include escape rooms, live music, the arts/theatre, bowling, pool, cards games/tournaments, museums, dining out, and other fun stuff such as beach days! We definitely need some happy, positive event leaders to organize some of these events though, otherwise it's just me when I have time... If interested and I have met you (or you're open to having a Zoom call and being grilled haha!), reach out to me for sure!

P.S. I've learned an awful lot about various things since organizing Meetup events and since this COVID madness began in particular, so I will be approving requests to join this group, at the door :). Please ensure that your Meetup profile photo clearly shows what you look like and is recent, or you’ll have to rejoin when you have one. (Don't post an old or unrecognizable photo -- people really do not like that. And please list your real first name or the name you are recognized by/referred to as normally, in your profile.

*Before attending any events, be sure to read the following 'Group Rules/Guiding Light' very carefully as it contains important information that you'll need to know.
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☀☀☀ Group Rules / GUIDING LIGHT ☀☀☀

  1. ☀☀☀ GUIDING LIGHT ☀☀☀

    1. This is a group for adults only, no pets at events, no carpooling, all attendees must be members of the group (meaning no guests allowed), and all members must read the rules/"Guiding Light" section below, before attending any events.
    2. Until government rules and guidelines say otherwise, all Covid related rules apply during all events.
    3. Limited spots: DO NOT sign up unless you really intend to go. People rely on others to actually show up, and also you're holding a seat someone else could've had.
    4. Cancellation/No-show policy: aside from illness, should you need to cancel your attendance at any event in this group, please do so with a minimum of 24 hours notice to allow others the time to plan/prepare to attend. If you forget completely (it happens), message the host directly to let them know what happened, as they and probably the others in the event, were waiting for you...More than one 'no-show' or late cancellations (without 24 hours notice, unless illness), including 'frequent' late cancellations with the reason of illness, may result in not being able to attend future events unfortunately.
    5. I don't think this needs to be said but I will say it anyway. This is not a group for dating so do not approach anyone in this group for dat. Additionally, do not message other group members unless invited to do so. And, if you make anyone uncomfortable and I hear about it, I will be asking you to leave the group.
    6. ABILITY/HEALTH Requirements: if we're in worry season and you have even a single symptom resembling a COVID symptom, DO NOT attend events. Additionally, do not attend physical activity related events, if you do not have general good health. If you don't know your ability for certain activities, check with your doctor.
    7. Don't post personal messages on event walls, to chat, to say you can't make it, or that you're ill, or any message that is not urgent or unless it impacts the entire group. Not only do you not want your private health information made public, but every post made on an event wall generates email and push notifications to every single participant and those on the waiting lists. I don't want all members of the event, receiving unnecessary Meetup notifications of new messages being posted, which have nothing to do with them. *People become desensitized to reading their messages because of all the unecessary notifications, and they end up missing important event messages. Only post messages after an event to thank your host, or post messages that affect all members of the event. If you're not sure if everyone in the group would be interested in the message, send it to the Event Organizer directly. I know these instructions seem like overkill, but you would not believe how many people used to try to start "group chats" on the event walls for some reason, and every single event wall post generated a notification and/or an email to all attending or on the wait list....then many of those people would often not even attend the event. (Yes, true story.)
    8. DO NOT TAKE PHOTOS OF ATTENDEES, while attending events. Taking and posting photos of the surrounding area / nature is of course appreciated, and photos that do not show the 'specific' identity of attendees, is also fine. Event Organizers may take group photos that include the attendees, so if this a concern for any attendees, just let the Event Organizer know at the start of the event.
    9. *NEW: there are a few people, including experienced Meetup people, out there who need a reminder: Do not just show up to events unless you're a member of this group, AND you have a spot reserved at the event. Also, even if you are a member and have a spot reserved at an event, do not invite guests to join you at the event, or at a table - all attendees must be on the attendee list. (I really wish I didn't have to say this stuff, especially to experienced Meetup folks, but while I'm here, I will also add that if Meetup is that important to you, perhaps consider starting your own group instead. Or, if you don't want to spend the few hundred dollars a year to have your own group like I'm paying, then I would consider finding another group that better suits your needs.)
    10. Last but not least...you are responsible for yourself when attending any events. This means that the group owner or event organizers are not responsible for any personal losses of items, or issues you may experience regarding your personal health and/or your personal safety, whether you are on your way to events, while you're attending events, or while you're on your way home from events. You are responsible to check on and dress appropriately for the weather, including wearing the proper footwear during wet icy weather.

    Sorry for all the structure, but 'respect' for the hosts, the attendees and those on the waiting list, is paramount in this little world of Meetups. ✌Thankyou all for reading this very important mini novel. :) Now let's get out and have some fun! All of us are a little shy at first so you will be in good company there. Just sign up and join us!