Community Cuddles Boulder

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Consensual touch has been proven to improve our relationships with others and ourselves. It can reduce stress, lower blood pressure, heal old trauma, and promote positive attachment. However, without enough touch, people tend to feel lonely, afraid, stressed, and unhappy.

This is where Community Cuddles comes in. It’s a space where people can come together to explore giving and receiving touch in a safe, non-sexual, and consensual way. The first 60-90 minutes of each event are a structured workshop focused on knowing what you want, asking for it, and setting boundaries. If on any given day you don’t want to touch, then don’t. You never have to touch anyone, ever, at any of our events.

Community Cuddles is for anyone who is curious about safe, consensual, platonic touch, especially if you're nervous or have been hurt in the past. It’s about moving from pain to healing and celebration together. This is a closed event, and people of all backgrounds, genders, ethnicities, races, spiritual or religious beliefs, sizes, and ages (18 and over please) who are feeling healthy and have no known exposure to illness are welcome.

Community Cuddles promotes a culture of authentic connection based on full honest consent. It’s about trust, belonging, and empowerment. So, come join us in exploring the power of touch and let’s heal each other one cuddle at a time.

Community Cuddles Itinerary
2:30 PM – Cuddlers arrive, help set up blankets and pillows, share snacks, get a feel for the space, and socialize.
2:45 PM – Welcome Circle. This part of the event will include practice setting boundaries and communicating around consent.
3:45 - 5:30 PM – Open cuddling! Per cuddle party rules, you MUST ask and get a verbal ‘yes’ before touching or cuddling with anybody at this event and you don't have to touch anyone ever.
5:30 - 5:45 PM -- Closing Circle.
5:45 - 7:00 PM - Time to chat and say goodbyes or make plans to meet elsewhere. There is often an informal dinner gathering after the cuddle. New people are welcome.

BE SOBER: Do not drink or smoke before or at this event.

WHAT TO WEAR: Please be freshly showered and stay clothed in a minimum of shorts and a t-shirt for the entire event. Please do not wear anything that you consider sexy or risque – think elementary school slumber party.

WHAT TO BRING: Snacks to share. Blankets, pillows, and anything else cuddly help make the space more comfortable. Masks optional. The only thing that you are required to bring is a clean and sober you.

TICKETS: Buy your ticket via the Eventbrite link. No need to print your ticket. Need help? Let Kassandra know by emailing kassandra@kassandrabrown.org or texting 720-340-2246.

COMMUNITY CUDDLES GUIDELINES
(based on the Rules of CuddleParty.com and Cuddlist.com)
1. You agree to keep this event non-sexual in both words and body language.
2. You will speak up or move if you are uncomfortable at any time, for any reason.
3. Clothes stay on for the whole event.
4. You do not have to touch anyone at a Community Cuddles event, ever.
5. You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch anyone. Please be specific in your requests.
6. If you’re yes, say YES. If you’re a no, say NO.
7. If you’re a maybe, say NO. You can always change your mind, in fact -
8. You have the superpower to change what you are dong at any time. You are encouraged to use it.
9. Tears, laughter, and all emotions are welcome.
10. Get your facilitator or assistant if you have a question or concern or if you need assistance with anything during the event.
11. Respect people’s privacy when sharing about Community Cuddles.
12. Keep the cuddle space tidy. No one likes to cuddle in a puddle!

CUDDLING WITH STRANGERS
Cuddling with strangers sounds weird to most people, and may sound scary. Many people start out nervous at a cuddle event. Most end relaxed and joyful, really, really glad they came.

Our Group Cuddle is a group cuddling event and we love it - it is NOT a cuddleparty.com official Cuddle Party. Please visit CuddleParty.com to find a list of currently scheduled Cuddle Parties.
Buy your tickets and we'll see you soon!

Event location is a private residence near Valmont and Airport Roads in Boulder. Exact location sent with ticket purchase.