Skip to content

Details

Treat yourself to a private one-on-one session with Dwight. Let me know if you prefer a nurturing cuddle or a sensual one, how long of a session, and what date/time.
The fee is $100 an hour. Most pro cuddlers charge $150-200 an hour.
The event date above is just a placeholder date for ongoing "event." The cuddle date can be negotiated.
.
WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES OF A PRIVATE CUDDLE WITH DWIGHT OVER A GROUP CUDDLE?
-- Private cuddles include a consultation with Dwight to understand why you are seeking out a cuddle at this moment, and what you wish to get out of it. Group cuddles are more general.
.
-- Private cuddles can be booked on any day that works for your schedule -- whereas group cuddles are on a specific day a month. Private cuddles cost more than group cuddles, but you also get more personalized attention to your specific needs. Touch can be therapeutic, pleasure-focused, or a combination.
.
NOTE: Be sure to check out this menu link below. It shares a Cuddle Menu and a Nipple Play Menu. Let me know which positions you'd like to try. cuddlemenu.weebly.com

I have been offering private sessions to dozens of satisfied clients for over seven years. I find it very fulfilling. I was trained and certified by a national therapeutic cuddle organization. Clients come to me for diverse reasons. One-on-one PRIVATE Cuddling is great to increase your well-being, or solve a problem. Not everyone likes to cuddle in a group. See the two menus of cuddle positions and nip playing below.
.
We start by talking by email/phone and I ask “What exactly do you hope to get out of this cuddle session?” Some of the answers clients have told me: I want to feel cared for. I’m too isolated. My job has gotten stressful. I'm touch-deprived.

HOW TO SET UP A SESSION
1. Start by RSVPing to this event. (The meetup RSVP will not automatically charge you.)
2. Direct message me to discuss the session and date/time as well as length of session/fee. dwightokita@gmail
3. We'll have a brief phone chat to discuss what you most want to get out of a session. Pre-payment to me is required by Zelle. I can't take paypal or venmo.

RATES:
One Hour Session is $100.
1.5 Hour Session is $150.
Two Hour Session is $200.

If you need to cancel, please give 24 hours notice for a full refund. With less than 24 hours notice -- you will need to pay half the fee. I look forward to our session!

WHAT HAPPENS IN A CUDDLE SESSION? At the session you might tell me what cuddle positions you enjoy. (Spooning, head on chest, face to face, back to back, etc. I have cuddle manuals.) As you are being held, you may become aware of the warmth generated between us. You may notice how our bodies fit together. Your breathing will slow. We may find ourselves breathing in sync. Gradually the stress of the day melts away and you can surrender to true relaxation.

Feel free to set any boundaries. As soft music plays, some clients often enjoy talking during the cuddle, others prefer quiet. Come freshly showered with fresh breath, and I will as well. My building has security at the front desk and is very safe and accessible. Will give you the address once the session is scheduled and payment is zelled.

GUIDELINES
OKAY LIST -- Cuddling, spooning, nip play, planking, massaging, caressing, tickling, body exploration (may vary depending on whether therapeutic or recreational). Mutual consent.
NOT OKAY LIST -- No oral, no penetration.

ENDORSEMENTS OF CUDDLE SESSIONS W/ DWIGHT
"It was such a pleasure to hug, to touch and be touched by a caring cuddler. I came across Dwight on a massage site. This hybrid of massage/cuddling made me feel cared for, unlike anyone else on the site. I look forward to my next 90-minute appt!" -- BerlinGermany

"I had a great time at both my private 90-minute sessions. Leaving the session, I felt rejuvenated and relaxed. I work as a nurse and these sessions are part of my self care routine." -- Sully

DWIGHT'S SAMPLE CUDDLE CALENDAR
1-15-26 DENNIS -- 2 hours
3-6-26 MATT W -- 2 hours
3-8-26 KYLE H -- 1 hour
4-4-26 SYED -- 1.5 hour
4-14-26 SYED -- 1.5 hour

“Cuddling produces oxytocin which promotes relaxation. It is a highly effective stress reliever. -- Women’s Health

Related topics

Events in Chicago, IL
Alternative Lifestyles
Gay Men
Gay Singles
Sensuality
Wellness

You may also like