SPECIAL EXTRA CUDDLE FOR JULY -- due to popular demand!

WE'RE NO LONGER TAKING PAYPAL!! PLEASE PAY BY ZELLE. If you do by JULY 6, you get the Early Bird Discount for just $23! (After that, the fee returns to the regular $28. Please make sure to pay correct amount.) This gives you 2 weeks from the event posting to RSVP! Send Zelle to Dwight Okita using dwightokita@gmail.com for my account identifier.

UPDATE ON THE BONUS ROUND:
Lately our group cuddles have been selling out, and folks are on wait lists! That's awesome. So I'm going to add a second cuddle for July and see how that goes. PLEASE SIGN UP NOW so you don't miss out. Trying to join an event at the last minute often is not fruitful.
(Also sadly one of my senior caregiving clients passed away last week and instead of seeking a new care client -- the universe has told me to focus instead on my private cuddle business and Men Cuddling Men!)

DO YOU PREFER THERAPEUTIC OR SENSUAL CUDDLING? Another new element I'd like to incorporate in our cuddles is this. When we go around and introduce ourselves, I encourage folks to also express what kind of cuddle do they prefer that day -- Therapeutic Cuddling or Sensual Cuddling. THERAPEUTIC indicates a more platonic, nurturing cuddle, maybe with clothes on, less focuses on stimulation. SENSUAL
is geared more toward stimulation, maybe less clothing.
This can lead to more compatible cuddling. For myself, some days I enjoy sensual but other days I much prefer more chill therapeutic with clothes on.

If you must pay by cash, CONTACT ME so I can manually mark you as attending. Please be responsible to know the exact fee and bring exact change the day of event. There is the early and later price. Thanks!)

Please join us for some luscious summer snuggling with the nicest group of guys. We have room for ten. Come on up to Dwight's cozy penthouse studio on the 29th floor with a great view overlooking the city. Get away from the hustle and bustle -- and join us for two hours of cuddles and/or sensual nipple play. This is Clothing-Optional so you can wear as much -- or as little as you please! Express your wishes and boundaries. The address of the event will be shared the week before the event in the Welcome Packet. Please watch for it.

Check out our Cuddle Menu and Nipple Play Menu for suggestions! This will give you some ideas of new positions to try out.
https://cuddlemenu.weebly.com
https://nipplemenu.weebly.com

Minimum number of cuddlers needed for this event to happen is 5. Come out and cuddle with us. Events all take place on the north side near Montrose and the lake. I send my exact address the week of events. (If you don't get my notices, please be responsible for reaching out to me to get critical info!) Ignore meetup map. We are the only male cuddle meetup group in the country! That's something to be proud of.

What are the benefits of cuddling? It's been proven by science that nurturing touch/cuddling boosts one's feeling of being cared for, and decreases depression/stress. There's lots of science of this -- lowering blood pressure, increasing resistance, the release of oxytocin which is a neurotransmitter that makes you feel nurtured and safe. Babies who are not touched have been known to die of skin hunger. People who cuddle live longer!

FIRST HOUR (WE ARE ON OUR FEET)
-- We start with a WELCOME CIRCLE where each person introduces themselves. Shades are drawn, room is darkened. Ground rules will be noted aloud. Cuddling is by consent.
-- The majority of time is for HELLO HUGS where one gets to embrace most of the others in the room for 5 minutes each (hugging, body exploration, caressing). Might limit this to a half hour. Often this is where newbies start to relax.

SECOND HOUR (WE ARE LYING DOWN)
-- We do 2-3 cuddle sessions about 20 minutes each. You can use the bed, futon, or foam mats.
-- The last cuddle is your choice! It can be a Three-way Cuddle or Two-way Cuddle. (In Three-ways, each man takes turns being in the middle, touched by the others.)

THERE ARE NO REFUNDS, NO DATE CHANGES. Most members are gay men and they identify as male.

DO'S AND DON'TS
* DO. Cuddling can be nurturing or sensual. Spooning, face to face, massaging, nip play, body exploration, hardons ok. When in doubt, ask for permission.

* DON'T. This is not sexual. No oral, no penetration. Cumming is not the purpose, but if it happens please clean up. PLEASE come with your body and beards freshly showered, and fresh breath. Candy or fresh mints are good. Body odor and food smells are a turn off when cuddling up close! Freshen your deodorant before leaving the house.

Soft music will be played. Many like to converse during cuddles. Laughter or tears are fine also. Always speak up if something comes up that you are uncomfortable with. And to speak up if there is something you'd like to ask for. Also this is communal cuddling. It's based less on physical attraction and more on knowing we all need to be touched. On the other hand, everyone has the right to say yes or no to a cuddle. Not everyone may be comfortable with everyone and that's ok.

Diversity of body types welcome. Drama will not be tolerated. The week of the event, I will send details, and my address/unit number. If you don't get it -- email me at DwightOkita@gmail. You are responsible for checking all emails and direct messages and Meetup site notices -- or you might not get important changes/cancellations/address info. Thanks! -- Dwight