About us
# PULL UP A CHAIR — START HERE
Whether you’re brand new or a familiar face, this is a quick guide to how we do things.
### BEFORE YOU JUMP IN… THIS IS THE GOOD STUFF
Welcome to Dudes, Dining & Destinations
A social dining group where GAY, BI, and MEN-INTERESTED-IN-MEN come together for:
GOOD FOOD
GOOD CONVERSATION
GOOD VIBES
We’re all about widening our circles, making real-life connections, and exploring the St. Louis area together — one meal at a time.
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## OUR BREAD & BUTTER: DINING OUT
From cozy diners to splurge-worthy spots, we mix it up so everyone feels comfortable and included.
And every now and then, we shake things up with:
- Bowling nights
- Mini golf
- Theater outings
- Festivals and special events
Got an idea? Throw it out there — we love trying new things.
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## EASY TO JOIN — AND YES, YOU CAN DO THE IN-PERSON PART
Joining the group is easy.
Showing up for your first event? Totally normal to feel a little nervous.
Here’s the truth: every single one of us took that same step.
Once you walk in, you’ll quickly see how warm, welcoming, and friendly this group really is.
You’ve got this — and we’ve got you.
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## A FEW THINGS THAT KEEP THE MAGIC WORKING
RSVPs matter
Restaurants prepare based on our numbers.
Plans change? No problem
Just switch your RSVP to “not going.”
Cancel ahead of time if you can
It helps us update the restaurant before the event.
On the waitlist? Don’t panic
Spots often open up as the date gets closer.
Order something and tip well
Let’s stay the group restaurants love to host.
Dress vibe: casual but presentable
Relaxed, comfortable, and event-ready.
Not a hookup scene
We’re here for laughs, conversation, and community — not cruising.
If sparks fly, great — that’s just a bonus.
Zero hate. Zero racism. Zero nonsense
Everyone deserves to feel safe and welcome here.
No smoking at events
Let’s keep the atmosphere fresh for everyone.
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## COME HUNGRY. COME CURIOUS. COME MEET YOUR PEOPLE.
We’re truly glad you found us, and we can’t wait to see you at your next dining adventure.
Pull up a chair.
Grab a fork.
You’re among friends.
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Upcoming events
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👉 On the Scene & Being Seen at Billy G’s (Kirkwood Location)
Billy G's, 131 W. Argonne Drive, Kirkwood, MO, US## 🎬 On the Scene & Being Seen at Billy G’s
### 📍 Saturday, April 11 • 5PM • Kirkwood
✨ There was a time when being “seen” was an art form. ✨
🎭 James Dean pretending he didn’t notice the attention while staring down Corey Allan.
Yeah… we saw THAT. 👀
🎬 Tab Hunter casually scanning the waiter like he was admiring the décor.
Please. We saw that!!!
👉 Back then, bold looked different.
Strategic. Subtle. Written between the lines.
But now?
🌈 Being seen doesn’t have to be coded.
🌟 It doesn’t have to be cautious.
Now being seen means showing up as yourself.
“Hey — I like that shirt.” 👕
“Where did you get that ring?” 💍
“That hat is just wonderful.” 🎩
That’s part of being seen too.
This isn’t about making “the move.”
It’s about making the moment. ✨***
🌷 Spring is back.
❄️ Snow and ice have exited stage left.
🩴 Flip-flops are waiting in the wings.
👕 Short sleeves are stepping into rehearsal.
🌺 Hawaiian button-ups are whispering, “Release us.”
Even Liberace may have been closeted — but his shirts were not.
✨ Fully seen. Fully sequined. Fully committed.
It’s officially Seen-Time.
We’ve been to Billy G’s before — a Dudes Dining & Destinations favorite — and when we show up together, the atmosphere shifts.
🍸 Refreshment in hand.
🍗 The legendary Chicken Modiga making its entrance.
🍔 A bold Billy G’s Burger landing with confidence.
🍤 Maybe the Shrimp Scampi stealing a supporting role.
And somewhere — perhaps near the bar — you might hear a faint theatrical growl. 🐾
No one sees her…
But if the right cocktail is ordered, Eartha Kitt may briefly approve of the scene.
Heard? Yes.
Seen? Only by those paying attention.
🚢 And yes — it’s also National Submarine Day.
But we’re keeping our heads above water… so we can clearly see our plates.
Because being seen alone?
That’s visibility.
Being seen together — laughing, sharing bites, clinking glasses —
that’s community. ❤️
Take a peek at the menu and plan your moment here:
👉 https://billygskirkwood.com/menus/lunch-dinner/***
📅 Saturday, April 11 at 5PM
📍 Billy G’s • Kirkwood
🎬 On the Scene.
🌟 Being Seen.
✨ At the Billy G’s Scene.
And if you hear a little growl… just smile. 😏19 attendees
Past events
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