About us
# PULL UP A CHAIR — START HERE
Whether you’re brand new or a familiar face, this is a quick guide to how we do things.
### BEFORE YOU JUMP IN… THIS IS THE GOOD STUFF
Welcome to Dudes, Dining & Destinations
A social dining group where GAY, BI, and MEN-INTERESTED-IN-MEN come together for:
GOOD FOOD
GOOD CONVERSATION
GOOD VIBES
We’re all about widening our circles, making real-life connections, and exploring the St. Louis area together — one meal at a time.
***
## OUR BREAD & BUTTER: DINING OUT
From cozy diners to splurge-worthy spots, we mix it up so everyone feels comfortable and included.
And every now and then, we shake things up with:
- Bowling nights
- Mini golf
- Theater outings
- Festivals and special events
Got an idea? Throw it out there — we love trying new things.
***
## EASY TO JOIN — AND YES, YOU CAN DO THE IN-PERSON PART
Joining the group is easy.
Showing up for your first event? Totally normal to feel a little nervous.
Here’s the truth: every single one of us took that same step.
Once you walk in, you’ll quickly see how warm, welcoming, and friendly this group really is.
You’ve got this — and we’ve got you.
***
## A FEW THINGS THAT KEEP THE MAGIC WORKING
RSVPs matter
Restaurants prepare based on our numbers.
Plans change? No problem
Just switch your RSVP to “not going.”
Cancel ahead of time if you can
It helps us update the restaurant before the event.
On the waitlist? Don’t panic
Spots often open up as the date gets closer.
Order something and tip well
Let’s stay the group restaurants love to host.
Dress vibe: casual but presentable
Relaxed, comfortable, and event-ready.
Not a hookup scene
We’re here for laughs, conversation, and community — not cruising.
If sparks fly, great — that’s just a bonus.
Zero hate. Zero racism. Zero nonsense
Everyone deserves to feel safe and welcome here.
No smoking at events
Let’s keep the atmosphere fresh for everyone.
***
## COME HUNGRY. COME CURIOUS. COME MEET YOUR PEOPLE.
We’re truly glad you found us, and we can’t wait to see you at your next dining adventure.
Pull up a chair.
Grab a fork.
You’re among friends.
***
Upcoming events
6
Pan D’Olive — Man, That D-3 Vibe
Pan D'Olive, 1603 McCausland Avenue, St. Louis, MO, US🫒 Pan D’Olive for the Man — With a D-3 Vibe
Saturday, February 28 • 5:00 pm
Let’s rewind this a bit… say two years ago. Wherever there was feta cheese, the noisy restaurant tended to follow. Apparently feta is delicious… but not always great for the ears. 😄
Thankfully, we’ve landed in some more laid-back spaces, where conversation flows easily and no one has to shout their order across the table.
And if I can remember one thing, I know this: Dudes Dining & Destinations loves its Mediterranean fare.
Well… here’s another great place to try.
Pan D’Olive is a longtime St. Louis favorite and a perfect match for our D-3 crew. Centrally located on McCausland Avenue, this Mediterranean-inspired spot offers a warm, comfortable atmosphere and a private room that holds up to 30, making it ideal for relaxed dining and good company.
The menu has something for everyone. Mediterranean classics, Chicken Marsala, tender veal dishes, and a variety of pasta options that are always crowd-pleasers. And if you’re in the mood for something simple and satisfying, yes, they even have a burger — because sometimes that’s exactly what hits the spot.
Expect:
• Most pastas and entrées in the $20–$30 range
• A few higher-end options if you’re feeling fancy
• Generous portions and comforting flavors
👉 View the dinner menu here:
https://www.pandolivestl.com/menus?location=McCausland+Avenue&menu=dinner
Whether you’re sipping something refreshing or just happily raising an olive, this night is about good food, easy conversation, and that familiar D-3 vibe we all enjoy.
Come hungry, bring your appetite (and your sense of humor), and enjoy a night where the feta behaves… and the volume stays just right. 🫒😄30 attendees
Past events
240
