About us
Who we are: We are a fun, inclusive group, rediscovering who we are as middle-aged adults (40 and up), getting out of the house and challenging ourselves to make friends and try new activities. Regardless of your relationship status, you are welcome to come and find connection and friendship with others. This group is for those who find themselves at a crossroads in life—kids moving out of the nest, loss of spouse, or any other reason that leads you to want to find new connections and get outside your comfort zone. We will plan a variety of fun social activities but would also like to focus on giving back to our community with volunteer activities. If you have ideas for activities or volunteer opportunities, please message the group leader or an event organizer.
Who should join: Middle-aged adults (40+) who do not have kids or whose kids are now (mostly) independent AND adults with or without a partner who are looking to extend their social circle and participate in fun, in-person activities with other adults. We expect everyone to treat all group members with respect and compassion, refraining from judgmental comments or discussions (no political, religious, philosophical, etc. debates—there are other local meetup groups for them).
Activity Disclaimer: Please note that this group is focused for those who are middle-aged adults. Please don't expect our activities to accommodate anyone under age 21 (though we may occasionally have such events).
Additional information: we ask that you please have a meetup profile picture that is clear on your face so we know who to be looking for when you join us at events. Thank you! Usually events will be open to RSVP until the event time and for an unlimited number. Occasionally, we will limit number of attendees or close RSVPs early based on event details (need for reservations, location limit, etc.) We ask that you RSVP for anything that interests you — and even bring guests if you would like — but that you please change your RSVP status if you are unable to attend. We also ask that everyone follow any specific guidelines a group leader sets forth in the description of each event (e.g. guest limit, if a certain event is or is not dog or younger child appropriate, etc.) Habitual RSVPers who no-show and anyone not following respectful guidelines outlined here or by group leaders may be removed from the group at leadership discretion.
Art credit: The group cover art is an original watercolor made specifically for this group by JBParsons.
Upcoming events
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Donations for Kabingo/Karaoke host - Richard Wheeler
402 4th Ave E, Olympia, Wa, USWhat: On Sunday night during Kabingo, our friend and Clipper Kabingo/Karaoke host - Richard Wheeler, left the Kabingo host post not feeling well. Turns out, he is quite ill and hospitalized so The Clipper is rallying to help him. The staff there will have cards for people to sign and donations boxes for Richard’s medical costs. If you are in the downtown area and feel so inclined, please consider stopping by to show some Empty Nester support—it will be greatly appreciated.
Where: The Clipper 402 4th Ave E
Hours: Tuesday - Sunday: 10 a.m. - 2 a.m.
Cost: Donations for Richards Medical costs.
1 attendee
Sip and Play - Lacey Starbucks (near WINCO)
Starbucks at Martin & Kingham (Lacey), 1020 Kingham St NE, Lacey, WA, USGrab your favorite seasonal drink and join us for a casual game night full of fun, and good company.
🎉 What: We'll play a few casual rounds of fun games!
📅 Date: Feb. 11
🕕 Time: 5:45 p.m.
📍 NEW LOCATION: Starbucks · 1020 Kingham St NE · Lacey
Near WINCO and Wendy's on Martin Way east.📋 Note - must be a paying customer to hang out at Starbucks.
🍽️ Starbucks favorites - the full menu is available. Hot and cold beverages, breakfast and lunch sandwiches, and a variety of snacks.
❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 2 guests for this event.
10 attendees
AlphaBites 2026 (G) - German Diner
German Diner, 8910 Martin Way E, Lacey, WA, USKnown for its schnitzel, bratwurst, sauerbraten, rouladen and doner kebab. It's the German Diner.
🍽️ Menu: https://thegermandiner.com/#menu
📅 Date: Thursday
🕕 Time: 6 p.m.
📍 Location: German Diner – Lacey's authentic German restaurant
❤️ Due to the limited seating at this venue the app has not been configured to allow guests.
AlphaBites 2026 isn’t just about eating out—it's about discovering hidden gems, local favorites, and exciting new venues right in our area. Our group will visit different food and drink establishments whose name starts with a different letter of the alphabet. From A to Z, no letter is left behind (well maybe Q since Quality Burrito is sadly gone)! Please let your leadership team members/event hosts know of suggestions of your favorite local spots as we wind our way through the AlphaBites
A - Anthony's HomePort 1/5
B - Bangkok Thai 1/10 - recommended by Lynda
C - Coffee Pub NW 1/19
D - Dirty Dave's Pizza 2/1
E - Endless Sound Cellars
F - Frenchie's on 4th 2/13
G - German Diner 2/128 attendees
AlphaBites 2026 (F) - Frenchie's on 4th
Frenchie's on 4th, Frenchie's on 4th, 1001 4th Ave E, Olympia, WA, USFrenchie's on 4th where nearly the entire menu can be prepared gluten-free upon request.
Lucky Friday the 13th Specials:
- Coffee Partnerships: Serving Ember Goods coffee.
- Rotating Specials: Look for weekly Friday specials like Breakfast Tacos (on corn tortillas) or seasonal breakfast bowls.
- Morning Cocktails: You can celebrate "lucky" Friday the 13th with a beverage or local cider.
🍽️ Menu: https://www.savorolympia.com/frenchieson4th#menu
📅 Date: Friday
🕕 Time: 10:30 a.m.
📍 Location: 1001 4TH AVE. E OLYMPIA
❤️ Due to the limited seating at this venue the app has not been configured to allow guests.
AlphaBites 2026 isn’t just about eating out—it's about discovering hidden gems, local favorites, and exciting new venues right in our area. Our group will visit different food and drink establishments whose name starts with a different letter of the alphabet. From A to Z, no letter is left behind (well maybe Q since Quality Burrito is sadly gone)! Please let your leadership team members/event hosts know of suggestions of your favorite local spots as we wind our way through the AlphaBites
A - Anthony's HomePort 1/5
B - Bangkok Thai 1/10 - recommended by Lynda
C - Coffee Pub NW 1/19
D - Dirty Dave's Pizza 1/25
E - Endless Sound Cellars
F - Frenchie's on 4th 2/13
G - German Diner 2/128 attendees
Past events
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