About us
Who we are: We are a fun, inclusive group, rediscovering who we are as middle-aged adults (40 and up), getting out of the house and challenging ourselves to make friends and try new activities. Regardless of your relationship status, you are welcome to come and find connection and friendship with others. This group is for those who find themselves at a crossroads in life—kids moving out of the nest, loss of spouse, or any other reason that leads you to want to find new connections and get outside your comfort zone. We will plan a variety of fun social activities but would also like to focus on giving back to our community with volunteer activities. If you have ideas for activities or volunteer opportunities, please message the group leader or an event organizer.
Who should join: Middle-aged adults (40+) who do not have kids or whose kids are now (mostly) independent AND adults with or without a partner who are looking to extend their social circle and participate in fun, in-person activities with other adults. We expect everyone to treat all group members with respect and compassion, refraining from judgmental comments or discussions (no political, religious, philosophical, etc. debates—there are other local meetup groups for them).
Activity Disclaimer: Please note that this group is focused for those who are middle-aged adults. Please don't expect our activities to accommodate anyone under age 21 (though we may occasionally have such events).
Additional information: we ask that you please have a meetup profile picture that is clear on your face so we know who to be looking for when you join us at events. Thank you! Usually events will be open to RSVP until the event time and for an unlimited number. Occasionally, we will limit number of attendees or close RSVPs early based on event details (need for reservations, location limit, etc.) We ask that you RSVP for anything that interests you — and even bring guests if you would like — but that you please change your RSVP status if you are unable to attend. We also ask that everyone follow any specific guidelines a group leader sets forth in the description of each event (e.g. guest limit, if a certain event is or is not dog or younger child appropriate, etc.) Habitual RSVPers who no-show and anyone not following respectful guidelines outlined here or by group leaders may be removed from the group at leadership discretion.
Art credit: The group cover art is an original watercolor made specifically for this group by JBParsons.
Upcoming events
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AlphaBites 2026 (Y) - Yummy Crab
Yummy Crab, 3540 Pacific Ave SE, Olympia, WA, USServing the freshest possible seafood at Yummy Crab Olympia. Delicious food, drinks and great service,
📅 Date: Saturday, 10/3
🕕 Time: 5 p.m.
📋Reservations /Seating: Pending reservations, we may be seated at tables of 4.
🍽️ Menu Link: Click Here
📍 Location/Address: 3540 Pacific Ave SE, Olympia, WA 98501
❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 1 guest for this event.
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AlphaBites 2026 isn’t just about eating out—it's about discovering hidden gems, local favorites, and exciting new venues right in our area. Our group will visit different food and drink establishments whose name starts with a different letter of the alphabet. From A to Z, no letter is left behind (well maybe Q since Quality Burrito is sadly gone)! Please let your leadership team members/event hosts know of suggestions of your favorite local spots as we wind our way through the AlphaBites
Y - Yummy Crab
12 attendees
Bus Stop Bar & Bistro - Happy Hour
The Bus Stop, 107 7th Ave SE,, Olympia, WA, US"The Bus Stop Olympia” restaurant offers local brews on tap, craft cocktails, burgers, salads and more! Located in the historic Greyhound Station building, they proudly represent the best of Olympia's local breweries, farms, and businesses.
🍽️ Menu Info
📅 Date: Wednesday, 10/7
🕕 Time: 5 p.m.
📍 Location/Address: 107 7th Ave SE, Olympia
Just blocks away from the Washington Center, Capital Lake and downtown Olympia.❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 1 guest for this event.
8 attendees
An Evening with Amy Tan
Washington Center for the Performing Arts in downtown Olympia., 512 Washington St SE, Olympia, WA, USNew York Times bestselling author Amy Tan, known for her iconic novel The Joy Luck Club. Amy will share insights from her latest work, The Backyard Bird Chronicles, a heartfelt exploration of her connection to nature through birdwatching. Through this intimate look at her own backyard,
Tickets/Cost: $29-$75 (includes service fees)
Choose the seat location and price point that works best for you.
(I'm in G 19 right orchestra)Date: Wednesday, October 7
Time: 7:30 p.m. start / doors open 30 min before
Parking: Downtown Olympia parking is limited, plan ahead.
Venue: Washington Center Main Stage
512 Washington St. SE, Olympia, WA 98501 United States❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 5 guests for this event.
✎ Add in the comments when you buy your ticket(s) and the location.
🍴 If there's enough interest, a separate event to gather for food and spirits before/after the show may be added.
3 attendees
The Docent - Lakewood Playhouse
5729 Lakewood Towne Center Blvd SW, Lakewood, Wa, USThe Docent - celebrates the heroic act of bearing witness, of caring for one another, and of new meanings of the word "family".
Tickets/Cost: $25/$33 purchase online
Once you purchase tickets, put your seat number in the comments.Date: Friday
Time: 7:30 p.m. (doors open 30 min before start)
Venue: Lakewood Playhouse
5729 Lakewood Towne Center Blvd SW, 98499NOTE: I'm volunteering as an usher and will not know my seat number until shortly before the show starts.
More About the Play: As Urban Forestry expert Edna Gregory guides us through the trees of Central Park, her story unfolds into a deeply human journey - one that begins with a young woman finding her place in New York City and blossoms through her profound friendship with Charles, a vibrant soul who opens her eyes to a community, a calling, and a deeper understanding of love. Set against the backdrop of 1981 New York, this moving tribute honors both the beauty and heartbreak of a pivotal moment in history, revealing how ordinary people rise to extraordinary courage in the face of uncertainty and loss. In The Docent, heroism takes root in the quiet, transformative power of connection.
❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 5 guests for this event.
2 attendees
Past events
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