About us
This group is for anyone interested in exploring the causes of why they’re struggling with difficult feelings, or behaviour in themselves or someone close to them which seems to have no apparent reason. For those wanting to understand what are the forces that prevent them from moving forward in life. For those looking to find the root cause for issues (health, career, relationships) that seems unexplainable.
There are studies that support the idea that an ancestor's traumatic experience may be passed onto the next generations. You can read some of these articles here:
Systemic and Family Constellations is a therapy that helps you to understand how your ancestor's life experience may be impacting your daily life right now. There are studies that support the idea that trauma and other difficult experiences lived by the ancestor can be passed onto future generations. This can have an effect on the mental health, behaviour and different areas of the current generation's life.
Here is a couple of articles on epigenetic studies that explain how certain issues in your life may be inherited from the previous generation: https://www.thebestbrainpossible.com/epigenetics-trauma-brain-reversed-mental-health/ and http://discovermagazine.com/2013/may/13-grandmas-experiences-leave-epigenetic-mark-on-your-genes
Constellations reveal the hidden dynamics influences that you may have inherited from your wider family. <br> It helps you to see a different angle of a familiar story; how it impacts your daily life and opens a space to create shifts that initiate a transgenerational healing process. Constellations help you to find ways to reconnect and restore the natural flow of love that may have been lost in the past. This work of acknowledging the ancestor's struggle so life could be passed onto you reconnects you to the past in a healthy manner, restoring the balance between given/take and the flow of love in your personal and family life. These have such a transformative effect in the areas of your and other family member's life that may have been affected by past events. It enables you to find a renewed strength that supports you to take your own place, creating a movement towards life to write your own history <br>
If you are new to the concept of Systemic Constellation work then watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JydjryhEl5o Rupert Sheldrake talks about the morphogenetic fields and how it is related to constellation workshops around the 4-minute mark.
This clip is also helpful: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wVE1cCQ1zAM
In group Constellations, you can participate by setting up your own constellation as a 'client' (Issue Holder) to work on a particular issue in your personal and family life. You can also participate as a Representative (you are asked to step in to support the Issue Holder by representing various family members, situations, etc of the IH) and everyone present benefits from the work done.
Constellations are set up to work with a specific intention, based on desired changes in one's life circumstances. In a constellation (individual or group), we learn ways of how to listen to our bodies, to be in the present moment with what is and without any judgement or interpretation of what is happening.
Constellations workshops often have a profound impact on all presents as it gives participants insights into their own lives from a different perspective.
If you have a question, please feel free to email me on lilian@lilianpilgrim.co.uk
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Upcoming events
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- £155.00
Constellation Essentials Learning Weekend: The Orders of Love
·OnlineOnlineThis workshop can be taken independently or as part of 'Constellations Essentials' 6-12 months of Systemic & Family Constellations Training (Year 1).
Learn the principles underlying Systemic and Family Constellations that make life-changing transformation possible. These 3 learning weekend workshops can be taken individually or as a whole course.
In this introductory program suitable for all levels of experience, you will gain new understandings by learning to see life from a systemic perspective.
For registration and payment: https://calendly.com/illiadato/constellation-essentials-orders-of-love
Over the course of six months of group and private sessions, you will experience the profound layers that Systemic and Family Constellations methodology can reveal and be guided in how to apply these insights to everyday life.
“Over years of practicing Systemic and Family Constellations here in the UK and other countries and various cultures, I have always been amazed by the profoundly positive impact this work is making on people's lives. Embarking on the Systemic Constellations journey has provided so many with a life-changing experience, and participation in as little as a single Constellation offers a wealth of insights and tangible outcomes that are rare to come by in other schools of therapy or personal development.”
ILLI ADATO - course leaderGo at your own pace with a flexible learning schedule
The Constellation Essentials program consists of three Learning Weekends and four Personal Constellation sessions. Designed to be completed in six months, it is flexible to accommodate your timetable. Start with any of the upcoming Learning Weekends, they can be completed in any order.The Learning Weekends provide essential knowledge of constellation principles.
THE ORDERS OF LOVE (was £195) now £155/$195
An exploration of the Orders of Love — the essential principles Systemic Constellations is based upon. These hold the key to clearly seeing the root cause of almost any personal or relationship crisis.
For registration and payment: https://calendly.com/illiadato/constellation-essentials-orders-of-loveBELONGING, LOYALTY, AND ENTANGLEMENTS
(was £195) now £155/$195
Recognize your place of strength in the multiple systems you belong to such as family, workplace, and culture. Learn how divided loyalties and entanglements influence the patterns underlying our feelings, behavior patterns, relationships, and everyday decision-making processes.
For registration and payment:
https://calendly.com/illiadato/constellation-essentials-weekend-belonging-loyaltyUNDERSTANDING TRAUMA (was £195) now £155/$195
Learn the structure of trauma and how it functions in a systemic context. Learn how “resources” help address and heal trauma — what resources are, finding, creating, and accessing them.
For registration and payment:
https://calendly.com/illiadato/learning-essentials-weekend-understanding-traumaPERSONAL CONSTELLATION SESSIONS £150/$192
In the Personal Constellation Sessions, we focus on how a systemic understanding applies to your unique personal and professional circumstances. Those working in helping professions can learn how to incorporate the power of the systemic perspective.- Family Dynamics
- Relationships
- Physical Health
- Emotional Wellness
- Professional Life
- Spiritual Path
Book here: https://calendly.com/illiadato/1st-personal-session
WELCOME EXPLORERS FROM ALL WALKS OF LIFE
This program is for you if you are interested in gaining a deeper knowledge of the systemic worldview and methodology. You will be part of an intimate group of explorers from all walks of life who will evolve together as a group and as individuals.To read comments from participants in previous workshops: https://bit.ly/33Asprs and http://bit.ly/29LClj1
For registration and further info: https://calendly.com/illiadato/constellation-essentials-orders-of-love
London School of Systemic & Family Constellations
1 attendee - £1,975.00
Systemic & Family Constellations Essentials Training - Part 1
·OnlineOnlineTHIS PART 1 SYSTEMIC & FAMILY CONSTELLATIONS TRAINING IS A COMBINED IN-PERSON/ONLINE COURSE FOR UK STUDENTS AND 100% ONLINE FOR THOSE OUTSIDE OF THE UK.
The purpose of this learning and practicing path is to enable a personal journey of growth and expansion through seeing and understanding life from a systemic perspective and to be able to use the power of Constellations professionally or as a resource for supporting well-being in everyday life.
This 6-12 months learning process offers a flexible schedule involving several intensive teaching elements which are repeated on average every 6 months so students who missed a module can attend again:
- The training includes:
- 3 Learning Weekends
- 125 CPD hours of deep transformative training (100 course hours + 25 hours of peer practice)
- Flexible format: Online for international students / Hybrid for UK students
- Peer practice groups with fellow students
- Monthly mentoring to support your integration and growth
- Supervised practice groups guided by Illi Adato
- Attendance at Systemic & Family Constellations workshops as a representative
- 3 Private 1-on-1 personal sessions with course leader Illi Adato
- Access to resources for self-paced study
- Certificate of Completion for each year
- Practitioner Certificate upon successful completion of all 3 years
The online Learning Weekends provide the essential knowledge of constellation principles. Session times are 2pm-8pm UK/9am-3pm NY.
> > All Learning Weekends will Repeat on Average Every 6 Months < <
- THE ORDERS OF LOVE – 3-4 OCTOBER 2026
Explore the essential principles that form the foundation of Systemic Constellations. - BELONGING, LOYALTY, AND ENTANGLEMENTS – 14-15 NOVEMBER 2026
Discover your place within multiple systems and understand how loyalties and entanglements influence your life. - UNDERSTANDING TRAUMA – 12-13 DECEMBER 2026
Learn trauma’s structure in systemic context and explore healing through “resources.”
WHO IS THIS FOR?
Therapists of all types, counselors, healing practitioners, coaches, and other people in the helping field can benefit greatly from the tools taught in this training. People working in community-based environments or group leaders, project managers, and other managerial positions often report a complete turn in the way they see and handle themselves and professional challenges once immersed in the learning and practice of Systemic Constellations. Subject to a personal interview and a successful application, the course is also open for participants with a keen interest in Systemic and Family Constellations with no prior training or experience.WHAT WILL YOU LEARN?
The training will consist of a deep exploration of the 'Orders of Love', the essence of Loyalties, Belonging, the structure of Trauma and Trans-generational Trauma, and working with the Ancestral Field. Gaining knowledge of visible and hidden dynamics that exist primarily in our family system as well as other systems we are part of. You will experience the profound layers of insight the Constellations methodology offers both in-person and online. Learn and practice working with representatives of various types. You will be guided and taught ways to harness the immense depth the systemic perception can bring into your life, work, relationships, and more.ABOUT THE COURSE TUTOR
Illi Adato is an innovator in the Constellations field, having researched and developed several new techniques for applying Systemic Constellations, including Hypno-Constellations™ and Distant-Healing Constellation™. These methods offer simple ways to harness resources that are often unseen and support personal strength, resilience, and growth. He is a personal and group facilitator of Systemic Constellations and as the founder and Managing Director of the London School of Systemic & Family Constellations teaches the method to students from all over the globe.To read comments from participants follow: https://bit.ly/29LClj1
and https://g.page/LondonConstellations/reviewCourse Tutor: Illi Adato MA Lon. Inst. SQHP. Crt(HYP). Crt(COACH) Systemic, Organisational & Family Constellations facilitator, member of ISCA | Hypnotherapy senior member of GHR (UK) & member of IHF (USA) | Advanced NLP Therapeutic Specialist™ | Systemic Ritual™ Facilitator
The program offers a flexible schedule of learning, personal therapy, healing, and practice. The cost of the training is £1975. An installment plan of 3 monthly payments is possible upon request.
> > > Please fill in the training course enrolment form here: http://bit.ly/2rZ23vL <<<
London School for Systemic & Family Constellations
1 attendee - £35.00
In-Person Systemic & Family Constellation Evening Workshop
9 Broadhurst Mansions, 97 Broadhurst Gardens, London, NW6 3QP, London, al, GBSpace is limited so book and pay early to avoid disappointment.
This evening workshop provides a perfect opportunity to experience the deep and insightful Systemic Constellations process in an intimate group setting.
A unique and powerful therapeutic method for self-exploration, understanding core behaviours, removing blocks, and reintroducing movement and growth. It is used as a major resource in supporting healthy relationships, working through trauma, and assisting in depression treatment.
Issue Holder (client) and Representative spaces are available, please follow the link to book:
For Representative (Participant) Booking £35
https://calendly.com/illiadato/in-person-family-constellations-evening-workshopFor Issue Holder (Client) Booking £175:
If you wish to attend as an Issue Holder at this workshop and have your own Constellation done please email your request to: ih@londonconstellations.ukRead comments of workshop participants here: https://bit.ly/33Asprs
WHAT ARE SYSTEMIC CONSTELLATIONS?
The Systemic Constellations method is a unique therapeutic process of exploration of the forces that move us in life. Such forces are often appearing as difficulties or a sense of being 'stuck' in life, affecting our behaviour, relationships, career, health/wellbeing, or even financial circumstances. This method provides a three-dimensional ‘map’ of one’s life as it is at present. It is a simple yet powerful way to explore entanglements and blockages in our personal life and our family history. The method brings awareness and clarity into personal challenges by focusing the client on the root cause of such difficulties. Constellations provide an opening for a positive life shift and present ways for deep healing processes to occur.WHAT HAPPENS IN A CONSTELLATION SESSION?
In Constellations work the ‘client’ is referred to as the ‘Issue Holder’.
The method uses workshop participants as ‘Representatives’ to stand in for key people in the client’s life such as family members, colleagues, partners, ex-partners, etc., sometimes ‘abstract’ concepts such as an emotion, country of origin, religion, or destiny are also represented. All participants are invited to take part as Representatives. Workshop participants often report (see reviews: https://bit.ly/33Asprs) experiencing profound insights into their own lives by simply witnessing the process, regardless of how they choose to take part.WHY DOES THIS WORK?
Scientific research shows that the experiences of your ancestors can determine your behaviour today and affect future generations.** Recent scientific research into DNA reveals that a component named epigenetics is embedding the effect of a traumatic experience by altering the genetic structure. It means that some of our behaviour patterns can be attributed to traumatic events in our family history. This notion has always been one of the guiding principles of Systemic / Constellations Therapy, a form of work that is dedicated to exposing and dealing with issues emerging from our family system.“It is only now that science is catching up with what is evident in Systemic Constellations work and visible in every one of our therapy sessions; trauma in the family history directly affects future generations' behaviour" Illi Adato MD
Our group provides a safe space where deep personal work is done and where maintaining confidentiality and respect for each other's privacy is paramount.
** DNA research paper and news articles:
Discover - Grandma's Experiences Leave a Mark on Your Genes https://bit.ly/3dLwEkK
BBC News - "Memories" pass between generations http://bbc.in/1dNShPeFacilitated by Illi Adato MA Lon. Inst. SQHP. Crt(HYP). Crt(COACH). Systemic, Organisational & Family Constellations member of ISCA | Hypnotherapy member of GHR (UK) & IHF (USA) | Tune-In Counselling | Advanced NLP Therapeutic Specialist™
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💬Personal one-to-one counseling can be combined with group work.
Book here: https://calendly.com/illiadato/1st-personal-sessionVIDEO COURSES
📌 Watch anytime | 📩 Instant access after paymentBecoming a Bridge - Working with Death As a Key Resource In Constellations £19
Explore the transformative power of death in Systemic Constellations with Illi Adato in this recorded 1.5-hour video course. Designed for facilitators, practitioners, and those drawn to deep experiential learning, this session offers practical insights into holding space for loss and transition.
🛒ACCESS HERE: https://calendly.com/illiadato/becoming-a-bridge-video-courseConstellations, Systemic Principles & How They Affect Us - Video Crash Course £6
Explore the hidden forces shaping your life with this recorded mini-course by Illi Adato. Learn the Orders of Love, uncover deep-rooted patterns, and experience a guided HypnoConstellations™ process for personal healing.
🛒ACCESS HERE: https://calendly.com/illiadato/systemic-principles-crash-video-courseHave questions? Reach out: office@londonconstellations.uk
Looking forward to another moving experience of learning together!
London School of Systemic & Family Constellations1 attendee - £25.00
Systemic & Family Constellations Workshop
Kailash Centre, 7 Newcourt Street NW8 7AA, gb, London, GBSystemic & Family Constellations Workshop
Making Making Peace with The Past - Creating a Better FutureAfter our first sold-out workshop, we have released a new workshop.
About
Join us for a transformative evening workshop, "Making Peace with The Past - Creating a Better Future," where we will explore the profound impact of our early life experiences and family history on our present lives with Illi Adato.Understanding these influences is the first step towards creating a more fulfilling future. Through the Constellation process, we will address and heal painful imprints from the past in a small and intimate group.
This powerful method allows participants to gain insights and release emotional burdens, paving the way for personal transformation and a brighter future. Join us for a weekend of personal healing and empowerment.Led by international facilitator and trainer of the work: Illi Adato, head of London School of Systemic & Family Constellations, this coming Constellations workshop will delve into how our past, family dynamics and early life events, shapes our current reality.
TICKETS:
https://dandelion.events/e/p3lp4What are Systemic Constellations?
The Systemic Constellations method is a unique therapeutic process of exploration of the forces that move us in life. Such forces are often appearing as difficulties or a sense of being ‘stuck’ in life, affecting our behaviour, relationships, career, health/wellbeing, or even financial circumstances. This method provides a three-dimensional ‘map’ of one’s life as it is at present. It is a simple yet powerful way to explore entanglements and blockages in our personal life and our family history. The method brings awareness and clarity into personal challenges by focusing the client on the root cause of such difficulties. Constellations provide an opening for a positive life shift and present ways for deep healing processes to occur.What Happens in the Constellation Process?
The method uses workshop participants as ‘Representatives’ to stand in for key people in the client’s life such as family members, colleagues, partners, ex-partners, etc., sometimes ‘abstract’ concepts such as an emotion, country of origin, religion, or destiny are also represented. All participants are invited to take part as Representatives. Workshop participants often report (see reviews: https://bit.ly/33Asprs) experiencing profound insights into their own lives by simply witnessing the process, regardless of how they choose to take part.Why does this Work?
Scientific research shows that the experiences of your ancestors can determine your behaviour today and affect future generations.** Recent scientific research into DNA reveals that a component named epigenetics is embedding the effect of a traumatic experience by altering the genetic structure. It means that some of our behaviour patterns can be attributed to traumatic events in our family history. This notion has always been one of the guiding principles of Systemic / Constellations Therapy, a form of work that is dedicated to exposing and dealing with issues emerging from our family system.Your Facilitator
Illi is an innovator in the Constellations field, having researched and developed several new techniques for applying Systemic Constellations, including HypnoConstellations™, Distant-Healing Constellations™ and Consciousness-Centred Therapy™. These methods offer simple ways to harness resources which are often unseen to support the individual awakening process through the healing of personal, systemic and collective traumas.
He is a personal and group facilitator of Systemic Constellations, he created a unique Retreat Centre in Sicily to and as the Founder and Head of the London School of Systemic & Family Constellations he is a keynote speaker and a trainer of the method to students from all over the world.
For more information: LondonConstellations.co.uk / email: illi@LondonConstellations.ukFeedback
It was my first time to observe family constellations. The experience was deeply healing, and transformative even just to watch the constellations. Illi held a safe, non-judgemental, deeply intuitive space, which allowed deep healing happen naturally. - Jia YuThe whole experience was very profound. Despite being incredible nervous, I was put at ease by lovely people around and accommodating and supportive host Illi. As a participant and issue holder I've gained clarity, understandings of "things" and how they relate and surprisingly experienced massive revelation in regards to my issue. It was also very educational as Illi managed to explain things. I also had fun and managed to laugh even when felt strong emotions. I believe my healing started already as participant... and continued deeper as issue holder. I am very grateful for the work Illi is doing and I am pretty sure I will be in touch again. - Alena
A Truly Transformative Experience I recently had a constellation therapy session and was genuinely surprised by how deeply it resonated with me. The experience helped me gain clarity on emotional patterns I didn’t even realize were affecting me. It was both grounding and eye-opening. The facilitator - Illy held space with such compassion and skill, making me feel completely safe and supported throughout the process. I left the session feeling lighter, more connected, and with a sense of peace that’s hard to describe. If you’re looking for something that goes beyond traditional talking therapy and taps into deeper layers of understanding, I highly recommend giving constellation therapy a try. I’m so grateful for the insight and emotional release it brought me. - Merita
Venue
7 Newcourt St, London, NW8 7AA, England
The Kailash Centre is a non-profit organisation, donating all proceeds to the Tibet Charitable Trust.Your Organiser
Callum Browne
Callum is the Marketing & Community Manager for The Psychedelic Society and a life-long learner in the exploration of consciousness and the mystical arts. He has completed a MSc in Medical Anthropology at University College London where he specialised in research on the phenomenology of consciousness, psychedelics and the therapeutic and healing arts across the world.Callum is a Trauma-Informed Body-Worker and Somatic Therapist whose training includes Somatic Muscle Release, Somatic Alignment, Myofascial Release, Advanced Deep tissue Massage, Breathwork and the Shamanic arts. Callum is passionate about the innate wisdom and intelligence of the body to both find equanimity and balance but also explore ecstatic and altered states of consciousness. He is a passionate advocate of somatic and psychedelic experiences that are grounded in transpersonal philosophy and psychology. These are the experiences that cultivate the experience and wisdom to remember and embody deeper connection with ourselves, others, nature and the beyond. Follow Callum on Instagram at @calibraid
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