About us
This group is for anyone interested in exploring the causes of why they’re struggling with difficult feelings, or behaviour in themselves or someone close to them which seems to have no apparent reason. For those wanting to understand what are the forces that prevent them from moving forward in life. For those looking to find the root cause for issues (health, career, relationships) that seems unexplainable.
There are studies that support the idea that an ancestor's traumatic experience may be passed onto the next generations. You can read some of these articles here:
Systemic and Family Constellations is a therapy that helps you to understand how your ancestor's life experience may be impacting your daily life right now. There are studies that support the idea that trauma and other difficult experiences lived by the ancestor can be passed onto future generations. This can have an effect on the mental health, behaviour and different areas of the current generation's life.
Here is a couple of articles on epigenetic studies that explain how certain issues in your life may be inherited from the previous generation: https://www.thebestbrainpossible.com/epigenetics-trauma-brain-reversed-mental-health/ and http://discovermagazine.com/2013/may/13-grandmas-experiences-leave-epigenetic-mark-on-your-genes
Constellations reveal the hidden dynamics influences that you may have inherited from your wider family. <br> It helps you to see a different angle of a familiar story; how it impacts your daily life and opens a space to create shifts that initiate a transgenerational healing process. Constellations help you to find ways to reconnect and restore the natural flow of love that may have been lost in the past. This work of acknowledging the ancestor's struggle so life could be passed onto you reconnects you to the past in a healthy manner, restoring the balance between given/take and the flow of love in your personal and family life. These have such a transformative effect in the areas of your and other family member's life that may have been affected by past events. It enables you to find a renewed strength that supports you to take your own place, creating a movement towards life to write your own history <br>
If you are new to the concept of Systemic Constellation work then watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JydjryhEl5o Rupert Sheldrake talks about the morphogenetic fields and how it is related to constellation workshops around the 4-minute mark.
This clip is also helpful: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wVE1cCQ1zAM
In group Constellations, you can participate by setting up your own constellation as a 'client' (Issue Holder) to work on a particular issue in your personal and family life. You can also participate as a Representative (you are asked to step in to support the Issue Holder by representing various family members, situations, etc of the IH) and everyone present benefits from the work done.
Constellations are set up to work with a specific intention, based on desired changes in one's life circumstances. In a constellation (individual or group), we learn ways of how to listen to our bodies, to be in the present moment with what is and without any judgement or interpretation of what is happening.
Constellations workshops often have a profound impact on all presents as it gives participants insights into their own lives from a different perspective.
If you have a question, please feel free to email me on lilian@lilianpilgrim.co.uk
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Upcoming events
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Systemic & Family Constellations IN-PERSON Full-Day Workshop with Illi Adato
Kailash Centre, 7 Newcourt Street NW8 7AA, gb, London, GBYou are invited to join a deep healing group process that extends beyond us as individuals into the wider 'field' of historical/ancestral influences, where our family's past traumas are seen, acknowledged, and attended to, so that they do not limit our well-being today.
In these short videos, our facilitator Illi Adato explains the key aspects of the Systemic and Family Constellation approach to therapy and healing:
https://www.facebook.com/LondonFamilyConstellations/videosWe shall meet at The Kailash Centre in St. Johns Wood, London NW8 for this month's group session, open to all.
Issue Holder and Representative spaces are available:
For Representative (Participant) Booking £45:
https://calendly.com/illiadato/in-person-constellations-representativeFor Issue Holder (Client) Booking £175:
If you wish to attend as an Issue Holder at this workshop and have your own Constellation done please email your request to: ih@londonconstellations.ukPlease Note: There are limited issue holder spaces available, please book early to avoid disappointment and wait for a confirmation email of your booking.
This workshop provides a perfect opportunity to experience the deep and insightful Systemic Constellations process. A unique and powerful therapeutic method for self-exploration, understanding core behaviors, removing blocks, and reintroducing movement and growth. It is used as a major resource in working through trauma and it can assist in depression treatment.
To read comments from participants in previous workshops click this link https://bit.ly/33Asprs
WHAT ARE SYSTEMIC CONSTELLATIONS?
The Systemic Constellations method is a unique therapeutic process of exploration of the forces that move us in life. Such forces often appear as difficulties or a sense of being 'stuck' in life, affecting our behavior, relationships, career, health/wellbeing, or even financial circumstances. This method provides a three-dimensional ‘map’ of one’s life as it is at present. It is a simple yet powerful way to explore entanglements and blockages in our personal life and in our family history. The method brings awareness and clarity into personal challenges by focusing the client on the root cause of such difficulties. Constellations provide an opening for a positive life shift and present ways for deep healing processes to occur.WHAT HAPPENS IN A CONSTELLATION SESSION?
In Constellations work the ‘client’ is referred to as the ‘Issue Holder’.
The method uses workshop participants as ‘Representatives’ to stand in for key people in the client’s life such as family members, colleagues, partners, ex-partners etc., sometimes ‘abstract’ concepts such as an emotion, country of origin, religion, or destiny are also represented. All participants are invited to take part as Representatives. Workshop participants often report (see reviews: https://bit.ly/33Asprs) experiencing profound insights into their own lives by simply witnessing the process, regardless of how they choose to take part.WHY DOES THIS WORK?
Scientific research shows that the experiences of your ancestors can determine your behavior today and affect future generations.** Recent scientific research into DNA reveals that a component named epigenetics is embedding the effect of a traumatic experience by altering the genetic structure. It means that some of our behavior patterns can be attributed to traumatic events in your family history. This notion has always been one of the guiding principles of Systemic / Constellations Therapy, a form of work that is dedicated to exposing and dealing with issues emerging from our family system.Our group provides a safe space where deep personal work is done and where maintaining confidentiality and respect for each other's privacy is paramount.
** DNA research paper and news article links:
Discover - Grandma's Experiences Leave a Mark on Your Genes https://bit.ly/3dLwEkK
BBC News - "Memories" pass between generations http://bbc.in/1dNShPeFacilitated by Illi Adato MA Lon. Inst. SQHP. Crt(HYP). Crt(COACH). C-h-a-n-g-e.co.uk - Systemic, Organisational & Family Constellations member of ISCA | Hypnotherapy Senior Member GHR (UK) & IHF (USA) | Tune-In Counselling | Advanced NLP Therapeutic Specialist™ |
Looking forward to another moving encounter!
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💬Personal one-to-one counseling can be combined with group work.
Book here: https://calendly.com/illiadato/1st-personal-sessionVIDEO COURSES
📌 Watch anytime | 📩 Instant access after paymentFind all the videos here:
https://www.meetup.com/london-family-constellations/events/Becoming a Bridge - Working with Death As a Key Resource In Constellations £19
Explore the transformative power of death in Systemic Constellations with Illi Adato in this recorded 1.5-hour video course. Designed for facilitators, practitioners, and those drawn to deep experiential learning, this session offers practical insights into holding space for loss and transition.Constellations, Systemic Principles & How They Affect Us - Video Crash Course £6
Explore the hidden forces shaping your life with this recorded mini-course by Illi Adato. Learn the Orders of Love, uncover deep-rooted patterns, and experience a guided HypnoConstellations™ process for personal healing.Have questions? Reach out: office@londonconstellations.uk
1 attendee - £37.00

Monthly Online Mentoring: Support for Building Your Practice
·OnlineOnlineAt each Mentoring Group session, you will receive support for integrating your prior learning and exploring new insights to address today’s unique challenges. We focus on personal inner work, uncovering obstacles, and helping you grow and evolve with your professional offering. Facilitated by Illi Adato.
Session Times:
- 6:30 PM to 8:00 PM (UK Time)
- 1:30 PM to 3:00 PM (EST)
- 10:30 AM to 12:00 PM (PST)
Advance registration is required (£37):
🔗 https://calendly.com/illiadato/monthly-mentoring-support-for-your-businessEACH MONTHLY SESSION FOCUSES ON:
🔹 Helping the Helper
As practitioners, we are used to holding space for others, but who helps the helper? This group provides support to help you step more fully into your role as a practitioner. You’ll uncover hidden resources, learn new tools, and practice inner work to prevent burnout.
🔹 Case Consultation
If you’re working with clients, bring your cases for confidential guidance. Together, we’ll explore any challenges and find growth opportunities, ensuring you operate from a place of strength.
🔹 Facilitation Practice
Practice facilitating individual and group processes and receive feedback. This will help you create systemically sound containers where both clients and facilitators feel well-supported.WHO IS THIS FOR?
This session is for:
🔸 Current students and alumni of the London School of Systemic & Family Constellations
🔸 Family and Systemic Constellations facilitators
🔸 Shamanic practitioners, subtle energy workers, therapists, coaches, and anyone integrating diverse healing practicesWe are a growing community of practitioners integrating teachings from various spiritual paths, ancestral traditions, and life experiences.
Advance registration is required (£37):
🔗 https://calendly.com/illiadato/monthly-mentoring-support-for-your-businessYou can also access the Systemic Constellations Video Crash Course for just £6. After payment, you’ll receive a video link and password:
🔗 https://calendly.com/illiadato/systemic-principles-crash-video-courseTo book a personal 1:1 Zoom session with Illi Adato, choose a suitable date and time:
🔗 https://calendly.com/illiadato/1st-personal-sessionFor questions, please email:
📧 office@londonconstellations.ukLondon School of Systemic & Family Constellations
1 attendee - £19.00

Becoming a Bridge-Working with Death As a Key Resource In Constellations (VIDEO)
·OnlineOnlineTHIS IS A RECORDED SESSION, NOT A 'LIVE' WORKSHOP. VIEW AT ANY TIME. A VIDEO LINK AND PASSWORD WILL BE SENT AUTOMATICALLY AFTER PAYMENT.
We are glad to offer a special promotion price of £19 (reduced from £37) for this Becoming a Bridge - Working with Death As a Key Resource In Constellations Video Course - presented by international teacher and Systemic Constellations facilitator Illi Adato, founder and MD of London School of Systemic and Family Constellations.
BOOK & PAY HERE: https://calendly.com/illiadato/becoming-a-bridge-video-course
An advanced online learning encounter for Constellation facilitators, Systemic Practitioners and for those who feel called to join this deep experiential journey.
Working with Death as a Key Resource in Systemic Constellation opens up a wealth of possibilities when facing challenges during a therapeutic process both as facilitators or as the client/issue holder.
In this 1.5 hour online workshop focusing on the various ways death can be included in Constellation work to support those who are facing a major loss or those who are alongside the dying.
A group deep-dive into the endless possibilities that opens up when death is represented in Systemic and Family Constellations. Learning practical ways to hold space and navigate the healing process in the presence of death.
A video link and password will be sent to you after payment.
BOOK & PAY HERE: https://calendly.com/illiadato/becoming-a-bridge-video-courseTo read comments from participants from all over the world in previous workshops click this link: https://bit.ly/33Asprs
Facilitated by Illi Adato MA Lon. Inst. SQHP. Crt(HYP). Crt(COACH). Systemic, Organisational & Family Constellations member of ISCA | Hypnotherapy Senior Member of GHR (UK) & Member of IHF (USA) | Tune-In Counselling | Advanced NLP Therapeutic Specialist™
Liina Salonen
Training & Workshop Coordinator
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