What we’re about
# Mission Statement:
# The purpose of Expert Giver Groups is to provide a process led by humility and accountability, which then enables love, service, and forgiveness as the means to advance human evolution—regardless of your age, gender, race, economic status, religion, or political beliefs.
Expert Giver Groups provide a way for people to come together so they can develop humility, accountability, forgiveness, and unconditional giving.
Expert Giver Groups are open to all people, regardless of age, race, culture, gender, socioeconomic status, religion, or political affiliation.
Expert Giver Groups involve a 7-step process:
Step 1: Finding a Mentor in the Group. Become humble and teachable by finding a mentor in an Expert Giver Group and by committing to being honest and accountable to that person.
Step 2: Completing Your Personal Inventories. To identify and remove the blocks in the way of our ability to be of loving service to others.
(a) Resentments and Anger: We examine our anger and resentments toward ourselves and others in order to remove them.
(b) Unforgiveness and Hatred: We practice forgiving ourselves and other people who have hurt us.
(c) Our selfishness, inconsideration, dishonesty, and jealousy: We must determine where these exist and remove them from our intimate relationships.
(d) Fears: List them with instincts affected.
(e) Character Defects: We examine which ones we have in order to remove them.
Step 3: Reviewing All Five of Your Inventories with Your Mentor. As you complete each of the five inventories in Step 2, arrange a meeting with your mentor to go over each list humbly and honestly together, being open to feedback that helps you to see things that you could not see on your own.
Step 4: Making a List of Amends and Reviewing It with Your Mentor. Make a list of amends that you owe to others and review the list with your mentor.
Step 5: Making Your Amends. After you review with your mentor which amends to make and how to make them, start making those amends.
Step 6: Continue Taking Your Personal Inventory and Promptly Admit When You Are Wrong. Continue reviewing your resentments, unforgiveness, intimate relationships, fears, character defects, and conditional giving—promptly admitting when you are wrong, and making amends immediately when you cause harm to others.
Step 7: Mentoring Others. Offer to become a mentor for others who are willing to go through the above steps. Be as unconditionally giving as you can in service to others. Be open to starting an Expert Giver Group in your area.
There are no dues or fees for membership in Expert Giver Groups.
The book Expert Giver—No Strings Attached is available in its entirety as a free download in ebook format or as an audiobook on www.ExpertGiver.com. This website provides information on Expert Giver Group.
In my book, I talk about “God.” But in the Seven Steps of Expert Giver Groups, I don’t mention “God” or a “Higher Power.” This allows a place for everyone to work through the steps, regardless of their beliefs.
My intent is for the Seven Steps of Expert Giver Groups to provide the tools needed to remove the blocks in the way of individuals becoming of service to others.
