Singles in Indianapolis

Dating Decoded For Men | Q&A with a Dating Coach | Dating Skills Workshop

Mon, Jun 1 · 7:00 PM EDT

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FIND’s Dating Skills Workshop Series is designed to help you feel more confident, clear, and prepared when it comes to modern dating.
Join us for an open, honest Men’s Dating Q&A where we bring in a professional dating coach to help you navigate dating with more clarity and confidence.

This is a judgment-free space to ask what you really want to know and hear direct, practical insight from someone who understands modern dating
Bring your questions — whether it’s:

• Why conversations stall
• How to approach someone in real life
• First date confidence
• Texting, timing, and mixed signals
• Or anything you’ve been overthinking

What to expect:

• Open discussion + live Q&A
• Real, actionable advice
• A supportive environment with other men navigating the same challenges
• Takeaways you can actually use right away

#### Your coach - Meet Joel.

I'm a dating and relationship coach based in Austin. I host Hot Takes Hot Dates, the city's most popular live dating event, and I've spent three years coaching high-achieving people through the emotional intelligence work that actually leads to lasting relationships.
Unlike therapy, I'm not here to help you process the past. I'm here to help you show up differently starting this week. My clients text me before dates, after dates, and sometimes during dates. That's the kind of support that moves things forward.
The biggest thing I've learned: everyone is afraid to share what they actually want because they think it will push the other person away. I help you say the thing.

#### Dating Skills Workshop Series by FIND

FIND’s Dating Skills Workshop Series is designed to help you feel more confident, clear, and prepared when it comes to building real connections. Each session brings in trusted experts — from dating coaches to relationship professionals — who break down what actually works in today’s modern dating world.

This isn’t about cheesy pickup lines or pretending to be someone you’re not. It’s about learning how to communicate better, show up with confidence, and navigate dating in a way that feels authentic to you.

You will experience perspectives from various experts and viewpoints. We ask you to keep an open mind and be open to constructive feedback with our experts. You don't have to agree with everything they say, but find what resonates with you and make decisions for your best interests and relationship preferences.

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https://gofind.events/findevents/jun1datingskills

Plates and Mates | Make New Foodie Friends | Spanish Tapas | Carmel

Wed, Jun 3 · 6:30 PM EDT

Matador, 10 E Main St, Suite 100, Carmel, IN, US

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https://gofind.events/findevents/jun3platesandmates

Plates and Mates is a curated dinner series to make new foodie friends in Indy. Meet new people, try new local spots, & enjoy great convos.

### AGENDA:

• 6:30pm Arrive and find your table
• 6:30-8:00pm Dinner with your table
• 8:00-8:30pm Drinks at the bar with everyone (optional)

This is an intimate, curated dinner series that brings restaurant recommendations to life. It’s all about supporting local restaurants, discovering new places across the city, and meeting people who love trying new things just as much as you do.

Each dinner matches strangers with shared interests at one of our favorite local spots, turning solo plans into a night of discovery, delicious food, and great conversation.

### THIS Month’s RESTAURANT:

Matador - https://www.matadoronmain.com/
A lively new Spanish inspired tapas restaurant in the heart of Carmel, Indiana. Inspired by the traditions of Spain, it features shareable tapas and authentic dishes made for gathering. From crispy Patatas Bravas and classic Pan con Tomate to rich, saffron-scented Paella, each plate is designed to be savored with friends, family, and good conversation. Pair your meal with our signature house-made Sangrias, or sip from a carefully curated wine list and craft cocktail menu at our full bar.

### HOW IT WORKS:

1. Sign up for the dinner to reserve your spot. It’s $10 to reserve your spot, which covers the curation and includes an appetizer for the table.
2. All food and beverage orders during dinner are paid for individually.
3. Fill out a brief profile (so we can match you with humans that you have similarities with)
4. Wait for your restaurant and table info. You will be notified 1-2 hours from the dinner date.
5. Show up to the dinner. Each table with consist of 5-6 strangers. Make new friends with conversation prompts and ice breakers, then pay for your own bill.
6. After dinner, stick around and socialize with the other tables, and view compatibility match scores with everyone.

### Just In Case Someone Stands Out…

While Plates and Mates is NOT designed as a singles event, we know connections can happen anywhere. Please be respectful and ask to stay in touch as friends and let the relationship grow if the feelings are mutual

### THINGS TO BRING:

• Charged cell phone - yes yes we do use a web based app to check in.
• ID - Most events include alcohol so bring your ID to grab a drink
• An open mind - Have fun, be open minded, and be yourself!

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https://gofind.events/findevents/jun3platesandmates

Man Seeking Men Speed Dating Ages 21-40 | Indianapolis

Thu, Jun 4 · 6:00 PM EDT

The AMP at 16 Tech, 1220 Waterway Boulevard, Indianapolis, IN, US

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https://gofind.events/findevents/june4manseekingmen

This is for the LGBTQIA community for men seeking men to date.

Find love with in-person singles and matchmaking events curated by locals. Go on at least eight 5-minute dates in one night, matched with the most compatible people in the room! Use your phone to navigate tables, make your choices, and receive mutual match emails at the end of the night.

#### AGENDA:

• 6:00 PM Check-in, socialize, grab a drink
• 6:20 PM Speed dating rounds begin
• 7:15 PM Break for drinks and open socializing
• 7:30 PM Final speed dating rounds
• 8:00 PM Hangout and socialize
• 11:00 PM Mutual Match emails sent

#### HOW IT WORKS:

1. Secure your spot at the event by selecting the gender and age you are, not who you want to match with.
2. Check your confirmation email for a link to set up your FIND dating account. On this account, you will answer a few simple questions to ensure we find you the most compatible people in the room.
3. Show up to the event and let the matchmaking magic happen. Drinks are available for purchase.
4. We hope to match you with at least 7 people during each event but exact matches will determine by attendance and compatibility.
5. After each 5 min round, make notes, and make your decision using your phone.
6. After the event, look for an email that night with your mutal matches.

#### THINGS TO BRING:

• Charged cell phone - yes yes we do use a web based app to run speed dating. No need to download an app
• ID - Most events include alcohol so bring your ID to grab a drink
• An open mind - Have fun, be open minded, and be yourself!
• Looking for some dating tips? View our resources here.

MUST BUY TICKETS ON OUR WEBSITE
https://gofind.events/findevents/june4manseekingmen

Sapphics Speed Dating Ages 21-40 | Indianapolis

Thu, Jun 4 · 6:00 PM EDT

The AMP at 16 Tech, 1220 Waterway Boulevard, Indianapolis, IN, US

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https://gofind.events/findevents/june4sapphics

This is for the LGBTQIA community. "Sapphic" is an umbrella term for women, nonbinary people, and feminine-aligned individuals who are attracted to other women or feminine-aligned people

Find love with in-person singles and matchmaking events curated by locals. Go on at least eight 5-minute dates in one night, matched with the most compatible people in the room! Use your phone to navigate tables, make your choices, and receive mutual match emails at the end of the night.
AGENDA:

• 6:00 PM Check-in, socialize, grab a drink
• 6:20 PM Speed dating rounds begin
• 7:15 PM Break for drinks and open socializing
• 7:30 PM Final speed dating rounds
• 8:00 PM Hangout and socialize
• 11:00 PM Mutual match emails sent

#### HOW IT WORKS:

1. Secure your spot at the event by selecting the age you are, not who you want to match with.
2. Check your confirmation email for a link to set up your FIND dating account. On this account, you will answer a few simple questions to ensure we find you the most compatible people in the room.
3. Show up to the event and let the matchmaking magic happen. Drinks are available for purchase.
4. We hope to match you with at least 7 people during each event but exact matches will determine by attendance and compatibility.
5. After each 5 min round, make notes, and make your decision using your phone.
6. After the event, look for an email that night with your mutal matches.

#### THINGS TO BRING:

• Charged cell phone - yes yes we do use a web based app to run speed dating. No need to download an app
• ID - Most events include alcohol so bring your ID to grab a drink
• An open mind - Have fun, be open minded, and be yourself!
• Looking for some dating tips? View our resources here.

MUST BUY TICKETS ON OUR WEBSITE
https://gofind.events/findevents/june4sapphics