What we’re about
Do you ever feel like dating is an emotional guessing game?
One day there’s chemistry, the next day they pull away, and you’re left replaying every text wondering what went wrong.
Welcome to a space created for women who are ready to understand themselves and communicate with confidence.
This group is for anyone who wants to:
💬 Explore the psychology behind attachment and attraction
💞 Learn how to build secure, healthy relationships without losing your sense of self
🧠 Gain science-based insights and real-world tools for emotional communication
💬 Connect with other thoughtful women who value self-awareness and growth
Our meetups include:
✨ Free and low-cost workshops hosted by Alexandra from My Secure Era, a relationship educator specializing in attachment theory and emotional intelligence
🎙️ Interactive discussions (educational, not therapy) focused on real dating and communication challenges
☕ Community gatherings where you can meet like-minded women who want genuine, emotionally intelligent connections
Our goal is to help you grow your understanding of connection, confidence, and communication in modern relationships.
If you’re ready to stop decoding mixed messages and start building secure connections, join us. Your secure era starts here.
Upcoming events
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•OnlineDecoding Mixed Signals
OnlineDo you ever feel like dating has turned into detective work? One day they’re all in, the next day they disappear, and you’re left decoding every message like a secret code.
This live 45-minute workshop helps you emotionally detach from mixed signals and understand what they really mean, using psychology-based tools from attachment theory and emotional intelligence.
You’ll learn how to:
💬 Spot patterns of inconsistency before they spiral into confusion
💞 Tell the difference between genuine interest and emotional unavailability
🧠 Calm your anxious thoughts so you can respond, not react
💌 Reclaim your energy and move toward secure, steady loveWhat’s included:
✔️ 45-minute live, interactive workshop
✔️ 15-minute Q&A afterward for your questions
✔️ 1-page summary after attending
✔️ Option to email Alexandra privately for feedback
✔️ Join live to receive 5-day replay access and bonuses (free on the website, event registration required)💡 Why attend live
Those who attend live get access to a replay for five days, a concise 1-page takeaway, and the chance to ask questions directly. No passive watching; this is an interactive, insight-driven experience valued at $347, free for those who show up.👋 About the host
Hosted by Alexandra from My Secure Era, a certified relationship educator specializing in attachment theory and emotional intelligence.
She teaches women how to stop chasing the wrong ones and start choosing emotionally secure love, with science, humor, and heart.📩 How to join
- RSVP here on Meetup to save your spot.
- Register with My Secure Era, after RSVP, to receive your bonuses and replay access.
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