About us
This is a social club for people who dated a narcissist, co-parent with one, or were raised by one.
Maybe you figured out why mom was only nice when other people were watching at 16. Maybe you just realized that he never took accountability for anything. Maybe you're only now binging YouTube videos about why your wife withheld sex while cheating but it was somehow YOUR fault. Doesn’t matter, this is the bar night for you.
Some of us spent years in it. Some of us are still in it. It’s a room full of people who’ve dealt with the same fucked up playbook and that goddamn smirk.
Share stories about your worst Mother's Day or tips on counter-parenting with ol’ Shark Eyes. It’s all good, and there’s always someone who can tell you about the relief coming at the funeral.
This is not a support group. Just a night out with folks who understand and no normies asking if you’re sure it was really that bad.
We meet at a bar in South Brooklyn every other Thursday, 7–10. No future faking.
House rules
No selling. Seriously - no coaches, courses, books, etc.
No trauma dumping without a punchline!
If you’re caught ruminating, you must buy someone a drink.
Keep proselytizing to a minimum, please. Yes, they're demonic, dead-eyed, soul-murdering energy vampires, but you know, let's try to keep it secular.
Upcoming events
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