Gist IRL Social

4.6•421 ratings

San Francisco, CA, US

3,978 members · Public group

What we’re about

Gist is a guided experience designed to make it simpler for humans to connect — intentionally, meaningfully, and without the noise.

Each mixer has a unique theme. Through a series of one-on-one 8-minute rounds, you get to meet everyone in the room. You show up as you are — no bios, no algorithms, no judgment. Just real people meeting in real life, with structure that makes it efficient, non-awkward, and unexpectedly joyful.

Whether you're here for new friendships, collaborators, or a deeper sense of presence, Gist creates space for mutual discovery — of others and of self.

We’re not building another networking tool — we’re restoring what it means to truly connect, and inviting you to try it for yourself.

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Thu, Dec 18 · 6:30 PM PST
Gal Pals Speed Friending
Churchill 198 Church St, 198 Church St, San Francisco, CA, US
# The Women's Speed Friending Mixer!

Have you felt that familiar challenge of forming meaningful female friendships outside of your existing social circles? This is your dedicated solution. Join our Speed Friending Mixer, an evening designed to unite passionate women to share ideas, swap tips through structured icebreakers, and spark lasting, platonic friendships.

🎟️ Join & Check-In

## Our Goal

Our main goal is simple: to help you find your go-to circle for all your future adventures.

## Format
- 6:15 pm: Doors open, grab your first round.
- 6:30 pm: Speed-friending rotations begin (8 min each)
- 7:30 pm: Free-flow vibe – stay as long as you want or leave anytime with new friends to explore the neighborhood for food or whatever you're feeling. Your call.
## What to Expect

We know that typical mixers or social gatherings can be overwhelming or daunting, especially if you're a bit introverted or dealing with social anxiety. That's why we've crafted an event format focused entirely on genuine connection, not forced small talk.
The evening revolves around rotating, one-on-one conversations. This structure is intentionally designed to reduce social anxiety, letting you relax, be yourself, and enjoy the process.
You'll meet a diverse group of women and quickly discover who shares your specific interests and passions. You might just find the perfect connections for platonic, community, and mutual support right here.
Want to connect with someone? Use the app! It lets you stay in touch without ever revealing your phone number.

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PS: Please support the venue by getting an item off their menu!
22 attendees
Sun, Dec 21 · 2:00 PM PST
Speed Friending @ Dolores Park
Dolores St & 19th St, San Francisco, CA 94114, San Francisco, Ca, US
🎟️Join & Check-in or Text Hi to +18559555001 (beta)

Welcome to the Super Speed Friending Event, the perfect place for ones looking to expand their social circle quickly. The event is designed to unite passionate people to share ideas, swap tips, and spark new collaborations or friendships. The main goal is simple: to form a go-to circle for future activities.

Agenda
Welcome! Here's Your Guide to the Event.

Step 1: Get Started (Check-in begins at 1:50PM+)
When you arrive, please Check-In: just follow the link to complete a quick and easy profile setup on your phone.

Step 2: Meet Your Matches (2:00PM ~ 3:00PM)
This is where the fun begins! For the next hour, our app will be your guide. At the start of each new round, it will introduce you to your next one-on-one match. Simply find your partner and enjoy the conversation!

Step 3: Mix & Mingle (3:00PM+)
Once the one-on-one rounds conclude, the rest of the night is yours to chat with everyone. Feel free to continue a great conversation or introduce yourself to someone new.

🧺 What to Bring

To make your experience more comfortable during the Mix & Mingle, we recommend bringing a blanket, picnic mat, or lawn chair. Feel free to pack your own snacks, drinks, or other picnic items to enjoy while you socialize!

Want to connect with someone? Use the app! It lets you stay in touch without ever revealing your phone number.
205 attendees