About us
About the Group
This group provides adult education on communication, boundaries, consent, and community etiquette within alternative lifestyle spaces. Our workshops are designed to help newcomers and curious learners build confidence, understand expectations, and navigate social environments safely and respectfully.
Sessions are discussion‑based and focus on developing practical interpersonal skills, emotional awareness, and clear communication. No demonstrations or physical components are included.
Our aim is to create a supportive learning environment where people can ask questions, gain clarity, and feel prepared before attending community events.
Upcoming events
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Hastings Pop-up BDSM Foundation education series
Hastings Community Hub, Frankston-Flinders Rd, Hastings, AU# Melbourne BDSM Community Education Pop‑Up Series (June–July)
A two‑week series of discussion‑based workshops for newcomers, the curious, and anyone wanting structured, confidence‑building education before entering community spaces.
Meetup RSVPs are capped at 10 due to the free organiser plan.
Your RSVP here simply shows interest.Full tickets & details here:
Fetlife page: The Skill Exchange## About This Pop‑Up Series
From June 29 to July 10, I’ll be in Hastings running a special two‑week series of foundational community‑education workshops for adults interested in communication frameworks, consent, etiquette, alternative relationship dynamics, and navigating community spaces with confidence.
All sessions are discussion‑based only — no demonstrations or physical components. Just clear frameworks, grounded conversations, and practical skills you can use in real‑world settings.
This series is ideal for:
- people who are new or curious
- those wanting to understand community expectations
- anyone seeking safety‑first, shame‑free education
- returning players wanting a refresher
- people preparing to enter the scene for the first time
You can attend one, some, or all six workshops — or dive into everything at once with the Fast & Dirty Weekend Workshop, which covers the full series in two days.
Price:
- $40 per person per workshop
- $200 per person for the Fast & Dirty Weekend Workshop
Each listing below includes its FetLife event link and Square ticket link.
below has a link to its ticket and event listing on Fetlife
## ⭐ Workshop Schedule
### BDSM 101: The Foundations — June 29, 11AM to 2PM
A beginner‑friendly introduction to communication, consent, negotiation, and the social norms of alternative lifestyle spaces.
Event link: - Fetlife
Event ticket: Square - $40### Wax Play & Removal (Discussion) — July 1, 11AM to 2PM
A safety‑focused discussion on wax play, preparation, aftercare, and risk‑awareness.
Event link: Fetlife
Event Ticket: Square - $40### Community Etiquette — July 3, 11AM to 2PM
How to navigate events, read a room, communicate respectfully, and contribute to positive community culture.
Event link: Fetlife
Event Ticket: Square - $40### Fast & Dirty Weekend Workshop — July 4 & 5, 10am to 4pm both days
A two‑day intensive covering all six workshops in a structured, supportive format.
Event link: Fetlife
Event ticket: Square - $200### Impact 101 (Discussion) — July 6, 11AM to 2PM
A foundational discussion on communication, safety, expectations, and the social side of impact play.
Event link: Fetlife
Event ticket Square - $40### Community Sexual Health — July 8, 11AM to 2PM
A shame‑free, practical conversation about real‑world sexual health, testing, communication, and navigating risk.
Event link: Fetlife
Event ticket: Square- $40### Service & Protocol — July 10, 11AM to 2PM
An introduction to service dynamics, structure, communication, and modern protocol frameworks.
Event link: Fetlife
Event ticket: square - $40## ⭐ Tickets & Attendance
Meetup RSVPs are limited to 10 due to the free organiser plan.
Your RSVP here simply shows interest Square is the actual ticketing system.# ⭐ Who This Is For
This series is designed for adults who want:
- structured, safety‑first education
- clear communication frameworks
- confidence before entering community spaces
- a supportive, judgement‑free learning environment
If you’re new, curious, or wanting to build solid foundations — you’re welcome here.
# ⭐ Looking forward to meeting the Melbourne community.
1 attendee