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"Hey Girl!" is a collaborative subcommittee of Silicon Valley PRIDE, a nonprofit corporation whose mission is to serve the entire 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We create spaces primarily for queer women, including our trans and nonbinary siblings. Please check out our main site at https://www.meetup.com/heygirl/.

In addition to dance parties, we work to bring community together at events celebrating, for example, Lesbian Visibility Week, Transgender Visibility Week, and of course, Silicon Valley PRIDE.

We recently welcomed the Hers & Hers membership to "Hey Girl!" and we are working on ways to offer single mingles every few months at "Hey Girl! Come Out and PLAY!" and other venues.

If you have ideas for singles events, please email liz.asborno@svpride.com.

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History note: DJ Rockaway (Tina) created the Hers & Hers Meetup group many years ago to provide opportunities for single lesbians to meet each other in a fun, playful, intimate environment where they could have meaningful conversations and meet potential matches. One of her offerings was the monthly dance party, called PLAY, at Splash! in downtown San Jose, at which "Hey Girl!" sometimes hosted special events. After the Covid-19 pandemic, DJ Rockaway graciously allowed "Hey Girl!" to keep the party going. In March 2024, Tina formally stepped down as organizer of this Meetup group, and the "Hey Girl!" team stepped up.

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  • Hey Girl! Come Out & PLAY!

    Hey Girl! Come Out & PLAY!

    Hobees Restaurant & Beer Garden, 261 N. 2nd Street, San Jose, CA, US

    Hey Girl! Come Out & PLAY at the South Bay's only queer dance party for women and our trans and nonbinary siblings. #queerdanceparty #dragkings #lgbtq+ #svpride

    ๐Ÿš™ Park in the St. James Health Center parking lot on 2nd Street: https://maps.app.goo.gl/jnX4bdbxT6236YjF6

    PJs & Lingerie Night

    • Wear your cutest boxers, your sexiest negligee, and/or your most luxurious robe/sarong/kimono!
    • Enjoy Dinner, Drinks, and Entertainment!
    • Mix & Mingle with Old Friends and New!
    • If the spirit moves you, let DJ DannyG groove you!

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    Beats by Resident DJ DannyG
    Performances by Local Drag and Burlesque Artists (Bring your $$)
    Hobee's selected menu items and drinks on sale
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    FREE admission from 6 to 7pm
    OR all night if you show us your Hobee's dining receipt dated from 7/1/26 to 7/18/26
    $10 cover after 7pm (cash preferred)
    $5 college students with school IDs
    21+
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    Singles are always encouraged to come early to mingle!

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    What is "Hey Girl!"?
    "Hey Girl!" is a collaborative subcommittee of Silicon Valley PRIDE that organizes and promotes events targeted to queer women and femme-identified trans and nonbinary folx.

    What is "Hey Girl! Come Out & PLAY!"?
    We throw the South Bay's only queer women+nonbinary+trans dance party every 3rd Saturday of the month! All members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community are welcome!

    Featuring resident DJ DannyG, special guest DJs and hosts, drag kings and burlesque dancers, theme nights, and sexy love connections!

    • When: Every 3rd Saturday, 6pm to 10pm
    • Where: Hobee's Restaurant and Beer Garden, 261 N. 2nd Street, San Jose 95112
    • How Much: FREE entry from 6pm to 7pm; $10 cover after 7pm

    Follow Us
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heygirl_svpride
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@heygirl_svpride
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heygirlsvpride

    This party was originated by DJ Rockaway as PLAY: Party Like a YoungStar.

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