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What we’re about

The Himalayan Tantra Men’s Healing Tribe is a group of men who are interested in cultivating and exploring energy, understanding the spiritual dimensions of their sexuality, and enjoying connection and camaraderie with other like minded men. We host daytime, evening, day-long and extended weekend gatherings to delve into these topics and share conviviality.

Our gatherings provide a safe and supportive environment for men to explore and cultivate a deeper understanding of themselves. Join us as we investigate and play with transformative practices, including Meditation, Breath Work, Satsang, Yoga, Conscious Touch and Play, and the awakening of our divine energies. Expand your consciousness, connect with like-minded souls, and share this powerful journey of self-discovery and integrated spiritual/sexual growth.

All of our meditation and group sessions are freely offered in service of the path. However, maintaining a Meet-Up Group is not without cost, and donations are welcome and help support the continuation of these offerings.

You can donate in-person with Cash, or:
Paypal: Link to PayPal (please request me as a friend)
Venmo: Link to Venmo (please request me as a friend)

FACILITATION
Păo Shan, our teacher and facilitator, has been a yogi and meditation teacher for over three decades. He is also a lay-ordained Zen Buddhist Monk. He has dedicated his life to sharing the wonderful gift of Himalayan Tantra with fellow tantra seekers and students.

Many of us have never experienced intimacy as its own activity, rather than a prelude or foreplay to sex. While your body may become aroused during tantric practices, which is welcomed and natural, sex is neither the focus or the "goal." Intimacy can also involve personal vulnerability, so it's important that you can set and communicate boundaries with the group. Boundaries provide you with a container, where you can be relaxed and comfortable, while still exploring intimacy areas that may be new to you.

Group Sessions are a creative mix of sharing tantric practices, including nudity, intimacy, sensual, erotic and intimate masculine energy, while respecting and honoring our group and individual boundaries (our "Tantra Container").
Most sessions do not include penetrative exchanges of physical energy. This is a judgment-free and shame-free space.

Pǎo also offers private, 1-on-1 and couple sessions, in-person and virtually.
A “private session” is a discrete container of exploration of masculine energy - erotic, sensual, sexual, spiritual. It may include meditation, sensual massage, conscious touch, chakra energy, sexual and erotic energy exploration, trauma-work, or any combination of these. We create a space together, where trust underpins spontaneity and play, vulnerability and healing. The “object” of examination originates from the individual’s relationship to his own sexuality, and has the intention of integration within the spiritual realm of consciousness.

Pǎo offers a free 30 minute Virtual Consultation
For private session options, rates and booking availability, you can visit Pǎo's Calendly page HERE.

If you prefer to explore your practice privately, you can follow full length videos of many of Pǎo's sessions at Dancing Shiva Tantra Monastery & Healing Center Website, available within their Men's Nude Yoga Tribe Group area. You'll need to join as a site member (free) and then request to join the group in the "Community" section (also free). Becoming a tribe member also gives you the opportunity to connect with like-minded men from all over the world, and access all the group events that the Monastery offers.

ATTENDANCE & COMMITMENT
Please note that if you "no-show" to multiple events, you will be removed from the group, at the discretion of the organizers.

Please visit our affiliated Meet-up Groups for other events and offerings:
Dancing Shiva Tantra
Asheville Mens Nude Yoga

Namo namaya,
Pǎo

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By attending any Himalayan Tantra Men’s Healing Tribe event**,** you agree to the following essential guidelines. These guidelines are in place to create a safe, respectful, and supportive environment for all participants. Failure to adhere to these agreements may result in removal from the group.

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1. Confidentiality
Everything that happens in this class is confidential. You are welcome to share your own experiences outside of the class, but you may not share what other participants did, said, or experienced.

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2. No Recording
Recording of any kind—audio, video, screenshots, or transcription—is strictly prohibited. This ensures privacy and trust among participants.

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3. Respect for Facilitator Guidelines
The facilitator may set specific participation requirements. You must adhere to these, including:

  • Keeping your camera on.
  • Participating with audio on or off as requested.
  • Following any other guidelines provided to maintain the integrity of the session.

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4. Self-Care & Personal Responsibility

  • You are fully responsible for your own safety and well-being during the class. The Himalayan Tantra Men’s Healing Tribe and the facilitator accept no liability for any physical, emotional, or psychological effects of participation.
  • If you are unsure or uncomfortable with any practice, do not do it. Participation is entirely voluntary, and everything offered by the facilitator is an invitation, not an instruction.
  • Ensure you are in a safe, private space where you will not be disturbed.
  • Turn off notifications and put your phone on silent to stay fully present.
  • If engaging in physical practices, take necessary precautions to prevent injuries. You assume full responsibility for any risks.

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5. Consent & Boundaries

  • This is a consensual space. You have the absolute right to say no to anything that does not feel right for you.
  • Always respect others' boundaries and do not pressure or coerce anyone into sharing or participating.
  • If interaction with others is part of the practice, it must be fully consensual and optional.

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6. Active Participation & Intent

  • These classes are designed for genuine participation. They are not for passive observation or voyeurism.
  • Attend with an open heart and a willingness to take part. If you are attending only to observe others' experiences, this class is not for you.

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7. No Liability & Disclaimer

  • The Himalayan Tantra Men’s Healing Tribe provides these classes as educational and experiential offerings only. We do our best to ensure that class descriptions align with the content provided, but we cannot be responsible for the actions, words, or methods of individual facilitators.
  • By attending, you acknowledge that Himalayan Tantra Men’s Healing Tribe**, its facilitators, and affiliates accept no liability** for any outcomes resulting from your participation. This includes but is not limited to physical, emotional, or psychological effects.
  • You agree to participate at your own risk and release Himalayan Tantra Men’s Healing Tribe from any claims or liabilities that may arise from your attendance.

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8. Agreement to These Terms
By attending any Himalayan Tantra Men’s Healing Tribe Event, you confirm that you have read, understood, and agreed to these terms. If you do not agree, please do not attend.
If you have any concerns or questions, or you need support regarding anything that arises during a class, please contact Pǎo at [pao.shan.design@gmail.com](mailto:pao.shan.design@gmail.com).