What we’re about
I'm assuming you're here for the same reason I am - to attend some fun events, attempt to make some friends, and find a ~purpose~ in this life. So let's get on with it.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Social September Challenge - 30 days, 30 ways to be more social!Link visible for attendees
30 days, 30 ways to be more social - how many can you check off?!
Meetup, Facebook groups, and all these random apps + event concepts popping up now that everyone wants to profit on the loneliness epidemic are tools to build a social life and make friends. TOOLS y'all! They are NOT our actual social lives.
It's easy to convince ourselves that we have friends and a social life thanks to these platforms - and, to some extent, maybe we do! Having and facilitating community is necessary to a fulfilling life. However, I have always felt social websites/ apps/ communities give the illusion of friendship while lacking the soul of it.
I've been hosting events with our social club for years. It brings me a sense of purpose and enjoyment. I love seeing y'all connect. I've learned so many lessons about people and friendship. I've made friends, I've made enemies. I've heard amazing stories, shared in some fun times with so many cool people. As we begin to wrap up 2025 in the next few months, I've been spending a lot of time reflecting on friendship.
A few months ago I had a falling out with some "friends." One of them implied that it's not hard to make friends as an adult and maybe I'm the problem. I gave them that in the moment. But they're wrong. It IS hard to make friends as an adult.
It's easy to meet people, it's easy to "settle" on whatever community we can find. We can always find something to do on a Saturday night. We can unseriously enjoy the company of many.
But friends? GOOD friends? Hard to find, harder to maintain. I'm talking a friend who gets us. Someone we don't want to cancel plans on just to stay in. Someone we can trust. A friend who matches the effort we put in. Someone where weekly texting doesn't just fizzle out. A friend who knows/accepts all of our sides. Someone who checks off many of our friendship boxes despite being just one person. The inside jokes, the "Remember that time?" moments. That is truly hard to find. & usually once you find it, they end up moving for their job in 6 months. Gotta enjoy these friends while we can.
So that's why I came up with this Social September Challenge. It's mostly for myself but I encourage anyone to join in. We don't want to settle on friends. What's the point in a room full of "community" if you never talk outside of it? We have so many options to meet people nowadays yet we seem to be lonelier than ever.
Social clubs, Meetup Groups, and attending events don't always equate to lasting friendships. But small, intentional steps do add up.
The challenge: 30 days of putting your social life on the front burner.
- Some prompts are super chill (like mailing a postcard or texting someone you miss)
- Others will nudge you out of your comfort zone (Hosting an event, try a new activity)
This isn’t supposed to feel like a chore! It’s a way to make September a little less “scroll and binge” and a little more “connection." So if you’ve been wanting to shake up your routine, meet new people, or simply reconnect with yourself, join me. Let’s make September the month we stop saying “I should…” and actually just do it. Fingers crossed we make some potential new friends or at least can say we tried to put ourselves out there.
Want an accountability partner?! Email hardtomakefriends@gmail.com and we will message you every Sunday to check-in, offer encouragement, see how you're doing. You're also welcome to join our local group WhatsApp chats to make new connections. We will also be hosting a 30 minute Social September Recap Google Meet every Sunday
Use #hardtomakefriends #socialseptemberchallenge #frienderseptember to share your progress!
30 Days of Reclaiming Your Social Life:
Pick one item per day to cross off this list! Feel free to make adjustments to fit your own interests, schedule, etc⬜️Catch up with a friend/relative
⬜️Introduce yourself to someone
⬜️Attend a virtual event
⬜️Mail a postcard/letter
⬜️Send a "Thinking of You" text
⬜️Host an event (Big or small!)
⬜️Spend time volunteering
⬜️Go to a music event
⬜️Support a small business
⬜️Spend time with a furry friend
⬜️Read one book on connections/friendships/socializing
⬜️Go somewhere solo
⬜️Meet or talk to a neighbor
⬜️Try an entirely new activity
⬜️Get out of your comfort zone once
⬜️Write down your social needs/goals
⬜️Have a self-care day
⬜️Compliment a stranger
⬜️Schedule a social event for October
⬜️Partake in one sporting/active/fitness event
⬜️Attend a local community event (School play, sporting game, book club, etc)
⬜️Leave a 5 star review for a local business
⬜️Do something that will result in major laughter
⬜️Read a few entries by Humans of New York
⬜️Visit a place that makes you feel like you
⬜️See a movie
⬜️Tip extra once
⬜️Do a good deed
⬜️Complete a to-do list item (Reducing anxiety, in general, can help other areas of our lives)
⬜️Text an old friendThis event is a self-led virtual + in-person challenge for the month of September 2025! Cross off one item per day to participate! Read the full blog post here for more information.
Let's stay connected!
Join our Facebook group for more events & connecting! Follow your host Macey on Instagram/TikTok @meetwithmacey and check out our website + podcast "Hard To Make Friends As An Adult" on Spotify & all major streaming platforms! - Siptember Social Hour! Make New Friends Over Drinks & Dinner!Cork It, Katy, TX
I love a good play on words! September? No! It's Sip-tember! You can sip with us!
Come hang out with our social club for drinks, dinner, and socializing! Make new friends as we enjoy a September evening! Click here to read our full event blog post (Includes parking info, our pregame playlist, how to join our group chats, and more!)
Event Details:
Tuesday, September 16th!
Meeting at Cork It!
6845 Peek Rd Suite #210, Katy, TX 77493
Full menu available here*Please note, we are NOT associated with Cork It - we are simply "Meeting Up" as a friend group & social club to enjoy drinks/dinner & socializing! All attendees must follow all rules of the venue and are encouraged to purchase at least one food/drink item to support the venue!
Parking Situation:
Onsite parking available at Cork It.To Find Our Group:
We will post our Instagram story how to find us @hardtomakefriendsasanadult as well as the comments section of this blog post, the Meetup event page, and Facebook group.Get Hyped With Our Themed Playlist:
Listen to our pregame playlist here on Spotify to get hyped!Social Anxiety?!
We get it. It's weird to meet strangers off the internet - & our parents definitely told us not to! We recommend grabbing a drink (alcoholic or non!) to have something to hold/sip for the inevitable awkward silences. Planning ahead, dressing in something that makes you feel confident, & thinking of some of your interests/potential conversations before arriving are some tips to ensure you have a fun night. Not to self-promote but our podcast is also pretty helpful to learn some friending basics!Let's stay connected!
Join our Facebook group for more events & connecting! Follow your host Macey on Instagram/TikTok @meetwithmacey and check out our website + podcast "Hard To Make Friends As An Adult" on Spotify & all major streaming platforms!-------
Disclaimer & fine print:
Please use discretion when meeting/talking with ANY attendee of our group. We do not recommend sharing personal information, contact info, rideshares, etc with any member you do not know personally. Do not come if you are sick or worried about catching/spreading anything. Event may be canceled/rescheduled at any time, for any reason. All members and attendees agree to our Rules & Terms.*Please note, we are NOT associated with Cork It - we are simply "Meeting Up" as a friend group & social club to enjoy drinks/dinner & socializing! All attendees must follow all rules of the venue and are encouraged to purchase at least one food/drink item to support the venue!
Our social club "Hard To Make Friends As An Adult" is trademarked & copyrighted. Violating our rules or copying/using our logos/events/pictures/etc will be taken seriously.
For any questions, concerns, requests, event ideas, or collaboration inquiries, please email us at - September Premium Member Social HourNeeds location
Socialize & enjoy a more curated experience at our monthly premium member social hour this September from 6-8pm! Event is drop-in style and food/drinks will be available for purchase.
Location available to premium members - event taking place in the Downtown Houston area! Have questions or need assistance? Email hardtomakefriends@gmail.com
Looking to take your social life to greater heights?! Join our premium membership here for a year of additional group perks, discounts, free events, merch, and more!
It takes a village to build real community - and our Premium Members are the heartbeat of it all. They’re the ones who keep the magic alive by being our most active attendees, helping cover our behind-the-scenes costs (like our website, Meetup fees, and event spaces), sparking creative event ideas, and showing up ready to make memories. Join here!Parking Situation:
Free street parking available as well as valet and paid lots in the area.To Find Our Group:
We will post our Instagram story how to find us @hardtomakefriendsasanadult as well as the comments section of this blog post, the Meetup event page, our WhatsApp group chat, and Facebook group.Additional Information:
All attendees must be 21+ and agree to our rules/terms and may be removed from the event for any reason. All attendees agree/consent to photography and videography by our club for promotional + marketing + sharing reasons. Please let us know if you wish to not be photographed.Social Anxiety?!
We get it. It's weird to meet strangers off the internet - & our parents definitely told us not to! We recommend grabbing a drink (alcoholic or non!) to have something to hold/sip for the inevitable awkward silences. Planning ahead, dressing in something that makes you feel confident, & thinking of some of your interests/potential conversations before arriving are some tips to ensure you have a fun night. Not to self-promote but our podcast is also pretty helpful to learn some friending basics!Let's stay connected!
Join our Facebook group for more events & connecting! Follow your host Macey on Instagram/TikTok @meetwithmacey and check out our website + podcast "Hard To Make Friends As An Adult" on Spotify & all major streaming platforms!-------
Disclaimer & fine print:
Please use discretion when meeting/talking with ANY attendee of our group. We do not recommend sharing personal information, contact info, rideshares, etc with any member you do not know personally. Do not come if you are sick or worried about catching/spreading anything. Social club watch party and event being hosted by our social club may be canceled/rescheduled at any time, for any reason. All members and attendees agree to our Rules & Terms.*Please note, we are NOT associated with the venue - we are simply "Meeting Up" as a friend group & social club. All attendees must follow all rules of the venue. Attendees are responsible for their food/drink costs.
Our social club "Hard To Make Friends As An Adult" is trademarked & copyrighted. Violating our rules or copying/using our logos/events/pictures/etc will be taken seriously.
For any questions, concerns, requests, event ideas, or collaboration inquiries, please email us at hardtomakefriends@gmail.com
- The Rocky Horror Picture Show 50th Anniversary Midnight Screening Party!Red Lion Pub, Houston, TX
🎉✨ Let’s Do the Time Warp… Again! ✨🎉
This year marks the 50th anniversary of The Rocky Horror Picture Show! What better way to celebrate than with a midnight screening? Our social club is suiting up in fishnets, glitter, and unapologetic weirdness to keep this cult classic alive the way it was meant to be experienced: with a rowdy crowd, shouted lines, flying toast, and all the Time Warps your hips can handle.
Whether you’re a Rocky Horror virgin (don’t worry, you’ll find out what that means) or a seasoned fan who already knows every callback, this is your chance to experience the magic of camp, chaos, and community on the big screen. Grab your boas, smear on some lipstick, and come ready to yell, sing, and laugh until 2 a.m.
Join us, and let’s make some memories as unforgettable as Dr. Frank-N-Furter himself! 🥂👠 Full event blog post available here (Includes parking, how to find us, a pregame playlist, and more!)
*Please note, we are NOT associated with The River Oaks Theatre - we are simply "Meeting Up" as a friend group & social club to screen the movie.
Pre-Movie Watch Party:
Friday, September 26th
10:30pm-11:15pm
The Red Lion Houston
2316 S Shepherd Drive
Free to attend! No ticket required!Movie Screening Information:
The River Oaks Theatre
2009 W Gray St, Houston, TX 77019
Movie Start Time: 11:59pm
Get your movie ticket here
Movie will likely sell out! We recommend getting your movie ticket(s) in advance! All attendees are responsible for purchasing/securing their movie ticketTo Sit Near/With Our Group:
Row I Seats 11 & 12 seats have been reserved for your event hosts. If you wish to sit near or with the group, please reserve seats in Row I or J!What To Wear:
It's Rocky Horror! Attendees are encouraged to dress-up on theme, in character, or spooky!Parking Situation:
Parking available onsite as well as street parking in the area.To Find Our Group:
We will post our Instagram story how to find us @hardtomakefriendsasanadult as well as the comments section of this blog post, the Meetup event page, and Facebook group.Additional Information:
All attendees must be 21+ and agree to our rules/terms and may be removed from the event for any reason. All attendees agree/consent to photography and videography by our club for promotional + marketing + sharing reasons. Please let us know if you wish to not be photographed.Get Hyped With Our Themed Playlist:
Listen to our Rocky Horror pregame playlist here on Spotify to get hyped!Social Anxiety?!
We get it. It's weird to meet strangers off the internet - & our parents definitely told us not to! We recommend grabbing a drink (alcoholic or non!) to have something to hold/sip for the inevitable awkward silences. Planning ahead, dressing in something that makes you feel confident, & thinking of some of your interests/potential conversations before arriving are some tips to ensure you have a fun night. Not to self-promote but our podcast is also pretty helpful to learn some friending basics!Let's stay connected!
Join our Facebook group for more events & connecting! Follow your host Macey on Instagram/TikTok @meetwithmacey and check out our website + podcast "Hard To Make Friends As An Adult" on Spotify & all major streaming platforms!-------
Disclaimer & fine print:
Please use discretion when meeting/talking with ANY attendee of our group. We do not recommend sharing personal information, contact info, rideshares, etc with any member you do not know personally. Do not come if you are sick or worried about catching/spreading anything. Social club watch party and event being hosted by our social club may be canceled/rescheduled at any time, for any reason. All members and attendees agree to our Rules & Terms.*Please note, we are NOT associated with The River Oaks Theatre - we are simply "Meeting Up" as a friend group & social club to screen the movie. All attendees must follow all rules of the venue. Movie ticket refunds/questions/inquiries will need to be handled with the theater. Attendees are responsible for their tickets, food/drinks, and planning to attend event.
Our social club "Hard To Make Friends As An Adult" is trademarked & copyrighted. Violating our rules or copying/using our logos/events/pictures/etc will be taken seriously.
For any questions, concerns, requests, event ideas, or collaboration inquiries, please email us at hardtomakefriends@gmail.com
