In Good Company (women 40+)

Welcome to In Good Company, a group for women in the middle stretch of life who want a steady circle of friends without everything turning into a political test.
This is not a 20s party scene and not a retirement group. It’s for women who have already lived a few chapters, are juggling work, relationships, family, health, and purpose, and want people they can see regularly in real life.

I started this group because I miss something so very basic: sitting together, walking together, sharing real life, without first checking what “box” everyone fits into. I grew up in the Netherlands, where the unspoken rule was that you don’t talk about politics, religion, or money. First you get to know the person in front of you. Later, when there is trust, you can talk about deeper topics in a more human way.

Who this is for
Women who:

• are in that “second half of life” feeling, with a few decades of adulthood behind them
• like to stay active and enjoy things like walks, light hikes, being outdoors, or moving their bodies in some way
• want real friendships, not just small talk or networking
• are curious about other people’s stories and tired of labeling and judging or being judged

What to expect

• Small to medium-sized meetups in calm, comfortable places
• Coffee meetups, walks, easy hikes, shared meals, board games, and other simple social gatherings
• A pace that assumes we have responsibilities, early mornings, and bodies we take care of
• Light structure (a few prompts or activities) so it’s easy to talk but never forced
• A clear understanding that we are not here for political debates or to convince each other of anything

Most events will be women only, to create a relaxed space where it’s easier to open up. From time to time, there may be clearly labeled “Open Night” events where members can invite partners or friends of any gender.

If you’re in that season of life where you care about your health, your time, and the quality of the people around you, and you want more good company in your week, you’re welcome here.