The Spiritual Path Isn't Lonely! How To Welcome New Friends and Real Love

Don’t be afraid of loneliness! In today’s world that may be easier said than done, so join us Sunday Oct 18, 2026 for a free healing talk on what loneliness is and how to heal it permanently. The Universe is alive and loves you forever, bringing you the truest friends and best relationships that you’re ready for. So make yourself ready to join the party that’s been calling your name since the day that you were born!

Loneliness is a gateway emotion to addictive negativity, much like the materialistic culture says certain drugs are the gateway to self-destructive lifestyles. But unlike the negativity it can enable, loneliness is an extremely valuable emotion that, along with all real emotions, may be used for harm or healing. You see, physical life isn’t really physical, as it depends on patterns of energy not things. Your emotions are your personal energy being felt through the beliefs that you choose to manifest. Of course, that’s rather abstract and metaphysical, so people who were raised to believe in an objective world full of stuff prefer to rely upon force and domination. People that get pushed around like to think they just need to push back. Sadly, the “pushers” of violent materialism get stuck until a major paradigm shift awakens them to the love that really runs the Universe.

On the spiritual path you learn that there’s no objective world to be dominated. Everything is a subjective experience in your own consciousness. That’s very good news, since it means you can safely quit all the rules and power struggles that were ruining your life, but only when you dare. No wonder abused people tend to stay abused! They’re stuck in the fears of reacting to things that aren’t really there, so they never succeed and never feel safe. Well-intentioned folks build lawful societies full of great inventions to make the world a better place, and then they wonder why the worst acting monsters keep rising to power. It’s because good intentions are wonderful but ineffective without true beliefs.

If you incorrectly believe that the world is run by physical force, then of course the most shamelessly violent people become the ruling class. They are in turn ruled by their own childhood abuse, so the cycle never ends. Someone bigger and badder always comes along until the urge grows to just destroy the world with vague false ideas that destruction is needed for rebirth. But no, hurtful hurting people are just confusing eternal life with their own refusal to live eternally. Only the love is real, so loveless people are terrified by their own survival strategies that depend on violence more than love.

Love is the caring to help life grow. When you choose to love, the living loving Universe gives you the best solutions to connect what you can give to what someone needs. You can’t do everything that you command or fantasize, which scares the egos who want absolute power. But what you can do is always good enough to work miracles with the Universe on your side. So do your best and let Source do the rest. Or call it God, Goddess, Great Spirit, Creator, whatever works for you. The point is that when you choose to love AND be yourself, then you’re good enough. Fabulous in fact. And when you refuse to be yourself, then you’re alone, lonely, scared, and powerless.

The functional opposite of love is fear. Fear is the feeling of your power to love getting stopped by a false belief. If you don’t believe that you’re good enough for love, then you’ll feel too scared and weak to be yourself. You’ll disconnect from the Universe as you try to succeed by rules that don’t work for you. This is the root of loneliness: you’re not being you. When you’re being yourself then you’re always successful in the love, so you can be alone and never lonely. But when you’re not being you, then you’re lonely in every crowd that loves you. You need to be yourself, because everyone else is taken.

For this meetup, recall situations that bring up your loneliness. We’ll see how the fear of loneliness drives people deeper into false beliefs that lead down a path of negative self-destruction. You’ll learn how positive and negative emotions interconnect, so you can turn around the most negative situations with your own self-love to bust every loneliness. We’ll study the 7 states of being and doing that create real love so you can choose more love consciously, and how to accept all relationships in the 7 levels of soul connection. We conclude with a guided meditation to know and heal the lonely self with the higher love that’s always calling you.

Welcome! Our Inner Selves Mastery spiritual support group is free online every Sunday 11am-130pm EDT, with the last 30 minutes for a guided meditation. If you can’t stay you can get the recording. You can signup here for this meeting and visit www.signupISM.com for all events, newsletter, videos, and more.

Best wishes,
Carl Johann Schroeder
Inner Selves Mastery
spiritual teaching and coaching
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