Divine Self-Esteem: How Your Self-Opinions Make or Break Your Life

Creating your own reality is so much easier than society told you to believe. You were taught that to get what you want, you must work hard, be lucky, and please the right people, to get resources you must defend to enjoy before you die. Yuck! This domination culture is the old false paradigm of forcing choices, and it makes the world a suffering place. The truth is so simple that people get scared, because they don’t know and don’t trust themselves. You’re already an all-powerful creator consciousness. Just choose. And feel good about yourself to choose what’s right for you. Join us this Sunday June 28, 2026 for a free empowering talk on how divine self-esteem enables you to let go the false negative belief that broke your life, and allow the living loving Universe to always love you instead.

Creation is achieved by causing or allowing. What you can personally cause can look very small, so the domination culture intimidates you. You’re told you’re never good enough, with too little money, influence, or power to make enough happen. Life is a brutal competition to build strengths to convince others to do what you say. Of course that’s just dumb, because there’s always a higher power to beat anyone who thinks life is for dominating. It’s a personality flaw of narcissists and dictators to insist that they’re the highest power.

Life is about cooperation, so dominators are the lowest power with violence that’s a sign of weakness. If life was about competition and conquering, nothing would have ever evolved in the first place. Even if one molecule could beat another, endless conquest is no way to live. Anyone who’s honest with themselves will feel a total lack of self-esteem plus overwhelming shame when they use violence to get what they want. Negative people work hard to dehumanize themselves just to live with themselves.

Really there’s nothing wrong with being a small fish in a big pond. The pond is supposed to be infinitely big so that you can live and grow forever. You will always cause very little compared to the rest of the Universe, and that’s a good thing. Because now you can focus on what’s most easy and natural for you to do, which is always good enough to build a working relationship with life itself. Do what you do with love – with caring, kindness, compassion, and concern for the whole – and the rest of the Universe will happily act in concert with you.

That’s the power of allowing in partnership, which is infinitely effective. Physical reality is never something you need to force or manipulate. Just choose and ask from your heart. Be willing to consciously gratefully receive, so that miracles can become the norm. Let love be the highest causality, so the laws of physics are useful until they aren’t. “How could that possibly have happened?” Well, somebody needed it to happen to have a good life. “Oh okay, now that makes sense.”

Most folks are trying to be good people, not dictators and narcissists. But if you don’t master your power of allowing, then you will act and feel like a bad person too easily. Negative judgment will ruin your self-esteem which ruins your life when you feel undeserving of the Universe’s unconditional love. What beliefs and attitudes do you allow in your head? What thoughts and feelings overwhelm you? What choices and decisions do you go along with? Do you seek the patterns to forgive and change?

It’s like the old saying “You are what you eat.” You are what you agree with. Hundreds of times a day, people reflexively agree with their past traumas, inner critics, negative judgments, and punishing imagination. Constantly reinforcing, “You’re bad. That’s bad. I’m bad.” And that’s what they get. People miss their divine opportunities for good outcomes because they’re so adapted to and expecting of bad outcomes. If a good does get through, people often panic until they beat it back down for a return to familiar misery. Change is terrifying in a domination culture that runs on pain and punishments.

For this meetup, gently notice your self-opinions. What makes you defensive, reactive, panicked and ashamed? Would you like to feel better about yourself to let in more love and success? We’ll see how reality is created by your unconscious choices that you make conscious to improve for real self-esteem. Doing your best in the spirit human partnership leads to self-worth and allowing more love naturally. We’ll conclude with a guided meditation to heal the negative ego and work more happily with the higher self.

Welcome! Our Inner Selves Mastery spiritual support group is free online every Sunday 11am-130pm EDT, with the last 30 minutes for a guided meditation. If you can’t stay you can get the recording. You can signup here for this meeting and visit www.signupISM.com for all events, newsletter, videos, and more.

Best wishes,
Carl Johann Schroeder
Inner Selves Mastery
spiritual teaching and coaching
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