About us
Welcome to The Intentional Dating Club 🌹
Dating with purpose. Connecting with intention.
What is this club?
A dating community for men and women who are tired of modern dating and want something different.
Created from a frustration with dating apps, superficial connections and endless conversations that lead nowhere, our aim is simple: to bring together like-minded singles who share common values, lifestyles and relationship intentions.
We believe dating should be about quality, not quantity. Less swiping, fewer wasted dates and more meaningful connections.
What makes us different?
Forget conventional speed dating and generic icebreakers. Our curated events are built around specific values, beliefs, lifestyles and relationship preferences, bringing together people who already have something important in common.
Why wait until the fifth date to discover a fundamental incompatibility?
We want genuine conversations, shared values and intentional connections. We appreciate honesty, emotional maturity, mutual effort, good manners and, of course, a little romance and chivalry.
We’re not asking for perfection. We’re asking for standards.
Our Shared Values:
-Respect, honesty and integrity.
-Emotional maturity and accountability.
-Effort, consideration and reciprocity.
-Clear communication. No games or ghosting.
-Respect for boundaries and personal autonomy.
-Genuine intentions and meaningful relationships.
Curated & Intentional Dating Events:
Each event has its own theme and compatibility focus. Here are some current ideas in the works:
The Child-Free Connection – Singles without children seeking the same. Because not everyone wants to date someone with kids.
The Art of Courtship – people who value romance, chivalry and no dick pics. Date like it’s the 90’s again.
Worth the Wait – For people who believe kissing & physical intimacy should happen when it feels right, not according to a dating timetable.
The Marriage-Minded Social – People seeking lifelong commitment and who don’t need to hide that until a year in.
The Intellectual Connection – Curious minds and stimulating conversation that go beyond love island and last nights tea.
The Traditionalist Social – People who appreciate traditional relationship dynamics in dating. Because not everyone wants a modern 50-50 relationship.
Politics & Passion - Left, right or somewhere in between. Does your ideology align? Or will you fall for someone with different views?
The Zodiac Test - Is compatibility written in the stars, or is it all in your head? Find out
Direct Daters - For upfront individuals who'd rather skip small talk and ask the seventh-date questions on the first.
The Spice of life - For neurodivergent singles who want to connect, communicate and find love without judgement.
Ambitious Individuals - For successful individuals who value drive, ambition and wealth and are seeking someone similar.
Let me know in the comments which are your favourites and I will prioritise them when organizing. Please note all events will be paid events tickets will be between £20-£30 including a welcome drink and nibbles. I will aim to host events in a local gateshead/newcastle venue with a nice ambiance and atmosphere (no bright light hospital vibes).
Who this club isn’t for?
If you’re looking for casual encounters, situationships, endless attention or someone to entertain you between dates, this probably isn’t your place.
We’re not here to lower our expectations or convince anyone of their worth.
We’re here for people who already know what they want.
🌹 Dating with purpose. Connecting with intention. Because compatibility shouldn’t be left to chance.
Upcoming events
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