What we’re about
Most IRL speed dating events feel like a blur: 6-minute rounds, no real context, performance pressure, and you're expected to “rate” someone before you've even remembered their name. It's awkward. It's inefficient. And worst of all — it rarely leads to real connection.
That's why we're doing things differently. IRL Speed Dating is for people who actually want to meet someone — not just swipe endlessly or chase matches that go nowhere. Our events are small, intentional, and built to make real connections easier:
- Post-event matching happens directly in our app — no external websites, no waiting days, and no pressure to "rate" people on the spot.
- Structured 8-minute rounds where you know exactly who you’re meeting next — no randomness, no confusion
- Curated themes — no generic crowds. Everyone’s here with shared interests or similar stages of life
- Optional conversation prompts so you can skip the repetitive small talk and get to what matters
Our first few events are simple by design — one date night, one experience. But soon, we’ll be introducing our curated two-date format — giving mutual matches a second round to deepen the connection, without pressure or ghosting.
Whether you’re new to the city, over the apps, or just craving something real — this is your place to meet people, face to face.
Upcoming events (1)
See all- For Independent & Thoughtful Singles (25–35)620 Jones St, San Francisco, CA
This is a free speed-dating event. To RSVP, please go here, select your group (men / women), and go though the sign-up process.
This is a warm, thoughtfully designed speed dating night for independent, intentional singles who are genuinely curious to connect. You’ll meet 8–10 potential matches over the course of one evening — each in a focused 8-minute 1-on-1 round.
There’s no weird pressure, no random mingling, and no “rate them while they’re still sitting in front of you” awkwardness. You’ll know exactly who you’re meeting next — and when the night ends, you’ll privately mark who you’d like to connect with. If it’s mutual, you’ll both get access to chat directly inside our app. No external websites. No days of waiting. No guessing.
WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT:
🧠 Structured 8-minute rounds — no randomness, no confusion
🎯 A shared theme — everyone here leads a modern, independent lifestyle
💌 Post-event matching happens in-app — no pressure to exchange numbers or rate people mid-round
🗣️ Optional conversation prompts to skip the surface talk---
🎟️ TICKETS:
Free for now — we’re experimenting with a new kind of in-person experience. To RSVP, please go here, select your group (men / women), and go though the sign-up process.---
🕰️ FORMAT:
Limit: 10 men / 10 women
Age range: 25–35
Format: 8-minute 1-on-1 dates---
📍 LOCATION:
620 Jones @ 620 Jones St, San Francisco, CA 94102
We will be at the cozy heated outdoor terrace.---
👥 WHO SHOULD COME?
Singles who are grounded, self-aware, and living life on their own terms — the kind of people who are focused on their work or passions, enjoy their independence, but still value deep connection with someone who gets it.
