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The "Love Out Lound" group was originally designed to be exclusively for single lesbians, bisexual and queer identified women wanting to connect to one another for dating, romance and friendships of all ages.

Since the pandemic however, I have discovered that there are many kinds of events, both live and online that can be a fantastic way to meet each other. It seems that the majority of women attending meetup events are usually single, so it all works out. In addition, our relationship status changes occasionally (or more) and that would mean leaving the group and then possibly re-joining.

So for now, feel free to join and feel free to stay, regardless of your relationship status!
We will have a way to identify your relationship status on nametags so you will know who is available and open to dating if that's what you are looking for.

We are committed to getting you face to face with other women loving women for real conversations and true connections.

Our outings includes support/discussion groups, dinners and brunches as well as mixers/dances to encourages our single sisters to discover the next great love of their life.

If you are interested in travel, please visit LesbianGetaways.com to learn about our two upcoming trips in 2024 to Greece and to join the mailing list! There are some photos and videos to watch to give you a good sense of who we are and what we are up to.

It's good if you are subscribed to new event announcements and organizer messages so you won't miss out on any of the good stuff.

Welcome to the group and I sincerely hope to meet you at some point soon! Feel free to reach out with any questions, comments or feedback you may have for me.

Until then,
Your organizer, Jody

Upcoming events

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  • CIRCLES Small Group Sharing & Dinner

    CIRCLES Small Group Sharing & Dinner

    Private Mission Viejo Residence, 123 Fun St, Mission Viejo, CA, US

    CROSS POSTED WITH SO MANY WOMEN SO LITTLE TIME
    PLEASE...IF YOU PLAN TO COME, YOU MUST GRAB YOUR TICKET FROM
    LESBIANGETAWAYS.COM/UPCOMING-EVENTS AND READ ALL THE DETAILS ALL THE WAY TO THE BOTTOM!

    SCHEDULE
    1-2:45 Swim/play time: (optional)
    2:45 Arrive & start meeting women & grab a drink
    3:00-6 CIRCLES
    6-8 Dinner & Playtime

    Feel free to arrive anytime up to 2:45 and stay as long as you
    like after CIRCLES ends. If you absolutely have to be late, please reach out to me ahead of time (707) 484-2066. If it is your first time to CIRCLES, please be here early or on time.

    Are you longing for more meaningful interactions, closer friendships and authentic conversations? If so, please JOIN US! I am inviting you to a special day of relaxation and connection with my favorite event called CIRCLES.
    I am hosting at our home and would love for you to participate. You will make new friends and may even walk out with some dating opportunities if that is what you are interested in. Please note that this is not a dating event per se. Keep in mind that singles and couples are very welcome.

    PLAY TIME
    We are including some very important for the spirit PLAY TIME both before and after CIRCLES (refer to the schedule below)
    Whether you want to swim or just hang out, feel free to walk through the gateway to paradise (our yard) anytime between 1 and 2:45. Keep in mind, I do not know ahead of time how many women will come early...
    Feel free to come alone because you won't be for long. I'll see to it!

    PLEASE NOTE: RSVPing here is not an entrance ticket. Please only RSVP here if you plan to grab your ticket now ($20 for dinner or free without) so I can accurately track attendance. I will be ordering food solely based on dinner tickets. If you are coming, you need to CLICK HERE and then either purchase your dinner ticket or grab your free ticket if you are not eating with us. Space is limited.

    WHAT IS CIRCLES?
    This is my favorite event because it catalyzes so many new connections. We will sit in groups of five and I will ask a thought provoking question. Each person will have a few minutes to respond at any level you are comfortable with, while everyone else listens with a non-judgemental, open heart. An example of my favorite question is "share an accomplishment or experience that you are proud of". I am always amazed at how much I learn about people just from this one response.
    Afterwards, there are a few minutes to continue the conversation. Then, we will form new circles with new women and do it all over again with a new question. By the end of the day, you will most likely have gotten to connect with every woman.

    I would encourage you to come, even if you don't know anyone. The point of this day is to connect and we will make it easy for you to do just that. In fact, we start with introductions! When I say it is a great way to make new friends, I really mean it.

    TICKETS
    CLICK HERE to grab your ticket on the LesbianGetaways events page (whether you RSVPd here or not, sorry). Space is limited to 32. Again, we now have a CIRCLES with or without dinner ticket. If you sign up with no dinner, I will provide some non-alcoholic drinks and snacks. Feel free to bring a snack to share! You do not need to bring a printed ticket-I will have a list.
    After CIRCLES is complete, we will enjoy dinner together and continue getting to know one another. There are plenty of ways to enjoy our time including ping pong, hot tub, foosball and enjoying the sunset together lounging in the treehouse on the top of the hillside.

    **************The address will be on your ticket********************

    DINNER: The $20 dinner ticket includes non-alcoholic beverages plus all-you-can-eat delicious Mediterranean or Mexican food with a variety of options, including gluten free and vegetarian. Your reservation is non-refundable (fully transferrable) up until 24 hours ahead. There is a very small service fee on top that.

    I will provide some bubbly waters and ice tea. There will be an ice chest available if you want to bring something different.
    I would highly recommend bringing your swim suit and a towel in case you want to come early or stay after and get wet! The hot tub will most likely be on after dinner and it usually ends up to be the poplular spot after dark.

    GET YOUR TICKET HERE-be sure to click on the events link

    ***********Be sure to park outside the cul-du-sac to keep my neighbors happy. Please don't double and triple park in our driveway or block anyone else's driveways. Yes, it has happened!) Please enter through the side gate to the right of the house.
    The address will show up when you purchase your ticket. If you have any questions or can not locate the address, please text me at (707) 484-2066.
    See you here I hope!
    Jody

    For more great events, visit: So Many Women...So Little Time

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