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Self-Aware Singles of North County San Diego

LUNA ARC is a conscious dating and relationship meetup for self-aware singles in North County San Diego who want to connect with intention, curiosity, and emotional maturity.

This meetup is designed for people who are interested in conscious dating, meaningful relationships, and meeting others who value self-reflection, communication, and real connection.

What This Meetup Is About

LUNA ARC hosts in-person dating and relationship events that combine thoughtful conversation with relaxed, social experiences.

Our gatherings may include:

-Discussion-based meetups inspired by “Thinking While Drinking”
-Conscious social events such as dance meetups, picnics, beach walks, and bonfires
-Optional short pre-event prompts (videos or reflection questions) for those who enjoy deeper discussion

Some events focus on conversation.
Some focus on movement and connection.
All events support intentional dating and conscious relationships.

Discussion-Style Events
-For discussion-based meetups, the host provides a small set of thought-provoking questions related to:
modern dating, attachment and boundaries, relational attunement, communication in relationships, emotional availability, emotional safety, conscious relating, etc.

These are peer-led conversations, not lectures or workshops.

There is no therapy, coaching, or teaching involved.

Who This Group Is For
LUNA ARC is designed for self-aware singles in midlife who value depth, curiosity, and intentional connection.

The group generally resonates most with people approximately 40–65, as the shared life stage supports ease, maturity, and meaningful conversation. We welcome people at different points in their personal journey.

This meetup is for singles who:
-identify as heterosexual / straight and are dating with the intention of conscious, healthy relationships
-value emotional awareness, self-reflection, and personal responsibility
-enjoy thoughtful conversation, shared experiences, and genuine connection
-are interested in conscious dating rather than casual games or performative dating culture
-are ready to engage without ghosting, mixed signals, or emotional unavailability

We warmly welcome diversity in race, culture, and background and believe that meaningful connection is enriched by different perspectives, lived experiences, and stories.

You don’t need to be “fully healed.”
You simply need to be curious, respectful, and open to relating with intention.

What This Group Is Not
LUNA ARC is not:
-group therapy
-a coaching or self-help program
-a matchmaking service

This is a social and discussion-based meetup for adults dating consciously.

Location & Cost
Events are held at various venues in North County San Diego.

Most events will have a fee of $15 - $50 depending on the experience, which helps support event hosting, venues, and group curation. All pricing is listed clearly in each event description.

Why Join LUNA ARC
Dating is easier and more meaningful when you meet people who share similar values around awareness, communication, and connection.

LUNA ARC creates a space where conscious singles can meet naturally — through conversation, shared experiences, and real human interaction.

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