About us
Welcome to the Oxford Social Circle π₯³
Weβre a friendly community dedicated to helping people in Oxfordshire connect and build meaningful social lives. Whether youβre new to the city or simply looking to expand your circle of friends, youβll find a warm, inclusive space here.
Our Approach π§
The Oxford Social Circle isnβt a service that arranges social lives for you; instead, we provide the platform and opportunities for you to create them yourself. Our main event is the Monthly Meet & Greetβa relaxed Saturday afternoon gatheringβthat brings together both familiar faces and new members. This is the perfect space to share your passions and start building connections.
Beyond our hosted events, we facilitate a WhatsApp Community where regular members can organise their own spontaneous gatherings and keep the conversation going.
Why We Do This πͺ
We know from personal experience that building a social circle can be challenging. We host these events to bridge that gap and provide a home for those in Oxfordshire who are still looking for their community. We provide the starting pointβyou bring the conversation, and together, we help each other thrive.
Community Guidelines & Expectations π€
We believe in creating a space that is welcoming for everyone. To keep our events enjoyable and well-organised, we ask that all members:
Show mutual respect and kindness to everyone in the group.
Adhere to our community rules, which apply to all members regardless of how long they have been attending. You can find these rules listed at the bottom of this page.
Joining the WhatsApp Community π±
Whilst anyone is welcome to join, to ensure safety and familiarity, access to the groups is reserved for members who have attended at least one in-person event. For security, we encourage everyone's WhatsApp profile features a clear, recognisable photo or your real name. Even if you are a regular attendee, if your details do not provide this, you will need to verify your identity to Kevin before gaining access to any of its sub-groups.
Here is a link to the community: https://chat.whatsapp.com/GAS8Ihs0Xjz3CwAfTkHzOf
Costs & Support π°
All events organised by the Oxford Social Circle are completely free to attend. However, as there are annual costs associated with running this group, we occasionally open a window for voluntary donations. While contributing is entirely optional, your support is vital to keeping the group active and sustainable for everyone.
Group Rules π
These are the policies in place for the group:
1. Be Respectful of Others ππΌ
Weβre a diverse bunch, and although you will meet plenty of like-minded people, you might not vibe with everyone. Remember, we expect total mutual respect. If you disagree with someone, keep it civil. Harassmentβwhether at an event or onlineβwill not be tolerated.
2. Appreciate what Organisers do β€οΈ
Please keep in mind that we arenβt a business. Our organisers are volunteers who put in their own time because they love the community. Weβre here to have a good time right alongside you, so a little appreciation goes a long way!
3. Keep Your Profile Transparent π€³πΎ
To ensure the safety of members at our events, everyone must have a clear, valid photo of themselves on their profile. This isn't personalβitβs a group-wide security measure to help us know exactly who weβre hanging out with.
4. Manage Your RSVPs Accordantly β
Accuracy matters! "No-shows" and "gatecrashers" make planning difficult and can lead to overbooked venues or unnecessary costs. If your plans change, please update your status. Members who consistently skip out or show up unannounced, without good reason, will be removed from our group.
5. Let the Hosts Lead π€
Each event has a specific plan curated by the organiser. To keep things running smoothly, please don't try to hijack or redirect the itinerary. If you have ideas for extra activities, feel free to suggest them for after the official event has wrapped up.
6. No Unauthorised Promoting π
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We love seeing the community grow, but please don't advertise outside events or activities in our space without asking first. If you have something youβd like to share that fits our vibe, reach out to Kevin for the green light.
Β© 2026 Oxford Social Circle
Featured event

Meet & Greet Social π€πΌπ²π
What to expect: π€
Get ready for a relaxed and friendly gathering! Our upcoming meet and greet is designed to be a low-pressure environment where you can connect with fellow members, share your passions, and make new friends.
Here is a breakdown of what you can expect during the event:
- Socialising: The floor is open for you to mingle and chat at your own pace.
- Board Games: If you prefer a structured activity or just want a "social icebreaker," we will have a selection of basic board games available. This is a great, low-stress way to keep the energy going.
- Dining: No need to worry about being hungry! The venue offers a full food menu, so feel free to grab a bite or a drink while you socialise.
The conversation doesn't have to end when the event does. If you find yourself wanting to arrange follow-up gatherings, outings, or themed meetups, our WhatsApp community is the place to do it. It is the go-to spot for members to propose new ideas and stay in touch between events. You can join the community by clicking here.
We look forward to seeing you there!
Important Information: β οΈ
- Repeated no-shows or instances of gatecrashing may result in removal from future group events.
- If you require reasonable adjustments, please inform the event organiser in advance.
- Guests must be aged 18 or over.
The plan: πͺπ»
We will meet inside the Holly Bush at 2 PM. Where we are located will be shared once the host has arrived. Members will then have the choice to enjoy socialising, dining and/or gaming until the event comes to an end at 5 PM.
Q&A π
Here are the common questions asked relating to this event:
I'm new and feel anxious. Is this group not right for me? π¨
Attending for the first time is pushing you out of your comfort zone, so it is normal to feel anxious on your first occasion. We always have a mixture of new and old faces. Regulars are very welcoming and it takes only 2-4 events for most members to feel settled in. Our advice is to give it a shot and reflect afterwards if the event is right for you.
Why is it important members update their RSVP (and not gatecrash)? β
Keeping your RSVP status up to date is about being a respectful member of the community. "No-showing" or showing up unannounced creates several issues:
- Venue Limits: We risk overcrowding a venue, which can lead to safety hazards or members being turned away at the door.
- Financial Impact: Some venues can charge us booking fees or require minimum spends based on our expected numbers. If people donβt show up, the event organiser may face unnecessary costs.
- Setting Expectations: Accurate numbers help other members know what kind of atmosphere to expect (e.g., a quiet get together vs. a large party).
- Basic Courtesy: It is simply polite. Think of it this way: how would you feel if you arranged to meet friends, and they didn't show up without letting you know?
How will I find you? π§
To find us on the day, simply check the events comments section for a description of where we are located and what the organiser is wearing. In addition, we will also post a link to a WhatsApp group in the comments the day before the event. If you are late, or cannot find us, it is highly recommended that you join this, as we will be sharing a live location tracker there to show you exactly where we are at all times. Please note that once the event kicks off, weβll only be answering questions through that WhatsApp group.
We live in Britain, surely it's going to rain? β
If the forecast is not promising on the morning of this event, we will try and reserve us space indoors as an alternative.
Where will I be able to park? π
Whilst it's not impossible to find parking in Oxford, the limited availability, as well as costs, can make parking incredibly challenging. Therefore, we encourage members to use the most convenient public transport available.
Can I bring additional people with me? π©π»βπ€βπ¨π½
Yes you can, providing they are aged 18 or over. You are also responsible for any potential problematic behaviours from guests you bring with you. Please put them as +1 when you check-in so we can try and find us enough space.
I've joined the WhatsApp Community, but I haven't been approved to join any of the groups! When will you accept my requests? π³
Whilst anyone is welcome to join the WhatsApp community, for safety and privacy reasons, the groups are restricted to members who have attended at least one event with the Oxford Social Circle. If your WhatsApp profile does not contain your name and/or recognisable image of yourself, you will need to confirm to the lead organiser, Kevin, for your request to be approved.
Can I bring my own food? π
Whilst members won't have a problem with this, it's unfortunately not always the same with the staff. Therefore, you're welcome to bring your own food, but will be doing so at your own risk.
Do I have to buy food? π
With the prime focus of the event being to socialise, this is completely optional.
What games will be available to play? β οΈ
The following games will be available to play:
Jenga π§±
Uno π
Dominos π²
Bananagram π
Is this a dating event? π©ββ€οΈβπ¨
Whilst we recognise and accept that relationships do form in social settings, we ask members to be mindful that this is not an event specifically for dating. Therefore, if your only reason for attending is to find your soulmate, this event will not be the right one for you.
Why must all members have a recognisable profile photo in the Oxford Social Circle? π€³π»
In the past, we have found that problematic incidents have all involved accounts with fake profiles or no photos.
To keep the Oxford Social Circle a safe space for everyone, we require all members to maintain a clear, recognisable photo of themselves at all times.
We understand that some members may have concerns due to their profession or personal experiences. While we empathise with these situations, we cannot make exceptions. Our responsibility is to ensure the collective safety of the entire group by maintaining a transparent community.
Β© 2026 Oxford Social Circle
Upcoming events
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Ice Cream & Park Games Social π¨β½π³π
Sundaes Gelato, 193 Cowley Rd, OX4 1UT, Oxford, GBWhat to expect: π€
The summer months are approaching and the sunshine is now (hopefully) with us. Let's celebrate a fun-filled outdoor social event in South Park! We're bringing you an afternoon of park games and the option of ice cream from Sundae Gelato.
There's no need to be a park game pro or to fill yourself up with ice cream β everyone is welcome!The conversation doesn't have to end when the event does. If you find yourself wanting to arrange follow-up gatherings, outings, or themed meetups, our WhatsApp community is the place to do it. It is the go-to spot for members to propose new ideas and stay in touch between events. You can join the community by clicking here.
Important Information: β οΈ
- This event is weather dependent.
- Repeated no-shows or instances of gatecrashing may result in removal from future group events.
- If you require reasonable adjustments, please inform the event organiser in advance.
- Guests must be aged 18 or over.
The Plan: πͺπ»
2 PM: We will meet inside Sundaes Gelato.
2:40 PM: We will begin walking to South Park, where we will find a spot to play park games.
4 PM: We will leave South Park, and walk along to the Oranges & Lemons, to stop for a drink.
5 PM: The event will come to a close.All times are a rough guidance for this event
Q&Aπ
Here are the most commonly asked questions relating to this event:I'm new and feel anxious. Is this group not right for me? π¨
Attending for the first time is pushing you out of your comfort zone, so it is normal to feel anxious. The good news is you won't be alone as we always have a mixture of new and old faces. Regulars are very welcoming and it takes only 2-4 events for most members to feel settled in. Our advice is to give it shot and reflect afterwards if the event is right for you.Why is it important members update their RSVP (and not gatecrash)? β
Keeping your RSVP status up to date is about being a respectful member of the community. "No-showing" or showing up unannounced creates several issues:- Venue Limits: We risk overcrowding a venue, which can lead to safety hazards or members being turned away at the door.
- Financial Impact: Some venues can charge us booking fees or require minimum spends based on our expected numbers. If people donβt show up, the event organiser may face unnecessary costs.
- Setting Expectations: Accurate numbers help other members know what kind of atmosphere to expect (e.g., a quiet get together vs. a large party).
- Basic Courtesy: It is simply polite. Think of it this way: how would you feel if you arranged to meet friends, and they didn't show up without letting you know?
How will I find you? π§
To find us on the day, simply check the events comments section for a description of where we are located and what the organiser is wearing. In addition, we will also post a link to a WhatsApp group in the comments the day before the event. If you are late, or cannot find us, it is highly recommended that you join this, as we will be sharing a live location tracker there to show you exactly where we are at all times. Please note that once the event kicks off, weβll only be answering questions through that WhatsApp group.Where will I be able to park? π
Whilst it's not impossible to find parking in Oxford, the limited availability, as well as costs, can make parking incredibly challenging. Therefore, we encourage members to use the most convenient public transport available.Can I bring additional people with me? π©π»βπ€βπ¨π½
Yes you can, providing they are aged 18 or over. You are also responsible for any potential problematic behaviours from guests you bring with you. Please put them as +1 when you check-in so we can try and find us enough space.Is this a dating event? π©ββ€οΈβπ¨
We recognise and accept that relationships do form in social settings. However, this is not an event specifically for dating. Therefore, if your only reason for attending is to find your soulmate, this event will not be the right event for you.Can I bring my pet dog with me? πΆ
Given that we'll be providing equipment for games at the event, to prevent any damage, we kindly encourage members to either not bring pets, or take full responsibility in preventing them from being involved in any of the park games.Do I have to buy ice cream? π¨
This is completely optional. You can bring your own lunch, or eat before heading out, but this decision is entirely in your hands.We live in Britain! Surely it's going to rain? β
If this turns out to be the case, we will post an alternative plan. This will likely be attending a nearby pub or cafe and just socialising instead.I've joined the WhatsApp Community, but I haven't been approved to join any of the groups! When will you accept these?
Whilst anyone is welcome to join the WhatsApp community, for safety and privacy reasons, the groups are restricted to members who have attended at least one event with the Oxford Social Circle. If your WhatsApp profile does not contain your name and/or recognisable image of yourself, you will need to confirm to the lead organiser, Kevin, for your request to be approved.Why must all members have a recognisable profile photo in the Oxford Social Circle? π€³π»
In the past, we have found that problematic incidents have all involved accounts with fake profiles or no photos.
To keep the Oxford Social Circle a safe space for everyone, we require all members to maintain a clear, recognisable photo of themselves at all times.
We understand that some members may have concerns due to their profession or personal experiences. While we empathise with these situations, we cannot make exceptions. Our responsibility is to ensure the collective safety of the entire group by maintaining a transparent community.If I sustain an injury during the event, will the organisers provide compensation? π€
Because we operate as a community-led group rather than a commercial business, we are unable to provide compensation or insurance coverage for personal injuries. By joining us, members have agreed to take full responsibility for their own health and safety.Β© 2026 Oxford Social Circle
12 attendees
After-work Social π»π
Port Mahon, 82 St Clements, Oxford OX4 1AW, GBWhat to expect: π€
This event is open to everyone, so you can expect a lively, yet laid-back atmosphere, with a diverse mix of people. If the weather is nice, we will try and gather space in the pubs garden. Whether you're new to Oxford, looking to expand your social circle, or simply fancy a pleasant evening out, you'll be warmly welcomed.The conversation doesn't have to end when the event does. If you find yourself wanting to arrange follow-up gatherings, outings, or themed meetups, our WhatsApp community is the place to do it. It is the go-to spot for members to propose new ideas and stay in touch between events. You can join the community by clicking here.
Important Information: β οΈ
- There is no set time for members to arrive and/or leave this event.
- Repeated no-shows or instances of gatecrashing may result in removal from future group events.
- If you require reasonable adjustments, please inform the event organiser in advance.
The Plan: πͺπ»
Once the host has arrived at Port Mahon, the location of where we are located will be shared in the comments. From then on, we will socialise at the venue throughout the night, until the event comes to a close.Q&A π
Here are the answers to the most common asked questions relating to this event:I'm new and feel anxious. Is this group not right for me? π¨
Attending for the first time is pushing you out of your comfort zone, so it is normal to feel anxious. The good news is you won't be alone as we always have a mixture of new and old faces. Regulars are very welcoming and it takes only 2-4 events for most members to feel settled in. Our advice is to give it shot and reflect afterwards if the event is right for you.Why is it important members update their RSVP (and not gatecrash)? β
Keeping your RSVP status up to date is about being a respectful member of the community. "No-showing" or showing up unannounced creates several issues:- Venue Limits: We risk overcrowding a venue, which can lead to safety hazards or members being turned away at the door.
- Financial Impact: Some venues can charge us booking fees or require minimum spends based on our expected numbers. If people donβt show up, the event organiser may face unnecessary costs.
- Setting Expectations: Accurate numbers help other members know what kind of atmosphere to expect (e.g., a quiet get together vs. a large party).
- Basic Courtesy: It is simply polite. Think of it this way: how would you feel if you arranged to meet friends, and they didn't show up without letting you know?
How will I find you? π§
To find us on the day, simply check the events comments section for a description of where we are located and what the organiser is wearing. In addition, we will also post a link to a WhatsApp group in the comments the day before the event. If you are late, or cannot find us, it is highly recommended that you join this, as we will be sharing a live location tracker there to show you exactly where we are at all times. Please note that once the event kicks off, weβll only be answering questions through that WhatsApp group.Where will I be able to park? π
Whilst it's not impossible to find parking in Oxford, the limited availability, as well as costs, can make parking incredibly challenging. Therefore, we encourage members to use the most convenient public transport available. However, if you want to take the risk, it is advised that you park at the Westgate car park.Can I bring additional people with me? π©π»βπ€βπ¨π½
Yes you can, providing they are aged 18 or over. You are also responsible for any potential problematic behaviours from guests you bring with you. Please put them as +1 when you check-in so we can try and find us enough space.Is this a dating event? π©ββ€οΈβπ¨
Whilst we recognise and accept that relationships do form in social settings, we ask members to be mindful that this is not an event specifically for dating. Therefore, if your only reason for attending is to find your soulmate, this event will not be the right event for you.Do I have to drink alcohol? π»
There are no conditions to what you choose to drink, with some main organisers being non-alcoholic drinkers.I've joined the WhatsApp Community, but I haven't been approved to join any of the groups! When will you accept these? π³
Whilst anyone is welcome to join the WhatsApp community, for safety and privacy reasons, the groups are restricted to members who have attended at least one event with the Oxford Social Circle. If your WhatsApp profile does not contain your name and/or recognisable image of yourself, you will need to confirm to the lead organiser, Kevin, for your request to be approved.Why must all members have a recognisable profile photo in the Oxford Social Circle? π€³π»
In the past, we have found that problematic incidents have all involved accounts with fake profiles or no photos.
To keep the Oxford Social Circle a safe space for everyone, we require all members to maintain a clear, recognisable photo of themselves at all times.
We understand that some members may have concerns due to their profession or personal experiences. While we empathise with these situations, we cannot make exceptions. Our responsibility is to ensure the collective safety of the entire group by maintaining a transparent community.Β© 2026 Oxford Social Circle
3 attendees
Social Walk & Drinks πΆπ»π³π»π
Christchurch Meadow Garden, 84 St Aldate's, Oxford OX1 1RA, Oxford, GBWhat to expect: π€
Join us for a walk towards the east side of Oxford. We will begin at the main entrance of Christ Church Meadow, before making our way towards Iffley Road.Our first stop will be The Chester Arms, where weβll pause for drinks. After enjoying some refreshments, weβll continue our journey by walking up to Donnington Bridge and stopping at Isis Farmhouse for an hour. Following our second stop, we begin to walk along the river Thames back to the city centre. The event will conclude at the Holly Bush, bringing our outing to a close, with members having the option to stay out longer if they wish.
The walks and conversations don't have to end when the event does. If you find yourself wanting to arrange follow-up gatherings, outings, or themed meetups, our WhatsApp community is the place to do it. It is the go-to spot for members to propose new ideas and stay in touch between events.
Here is a link to the WhatsApp community:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/GAS8Ihs0Xjz3CwAfTkHzOImportant information: β οΈ
- This event is weather dependent.
- Arriving late will lead to members having to catch the rest of us up.
- The total distance walked for this event will be roughly 4 miles.
- Repeated no-shows or instances of gate-crashing may result in removal from future group events.
- No seats are reserved at The Chester Arms or Isis Farmhouse.
- Guests must be aged 18 or over.
- If you require reasonable adjustments, please inform the event organiser in advance.
The plan: πͺπ»
- 2 PM - We'll meet at the main entrance to Christ Church Meadows.
- 2:10 PM - we'll begin our walk through Christ Church, cutting through to High Street and Iffley Road, where we will stop at The Chester Arms.
- 2:45 PM - We will spend roughly an hour at the Chester Arms.
- 3:45 PM - We will begin walking towards Donnington Bridge.
- 4:15 PM - We will stop at Isis Farmhouse for an hour.
- 5:15 PM - We will walk back along the river towards St Aldates.
- 6 PM - The event will come to a close, with members having the option to stay for drinks at the Holly Bush.
All times are a rough guidance of this event.
Q&A π
Here are the answers to the most commonly asked questions relating to this event:I'm new and feel anxious. Is this group not right for me? π°
Attending for the first time is pushing you out of your comfort zone, so it is normal to feel anxious on your first occasion. We always have a mixture of new and old faces. Regulars are very welcoming and it takes only 2-4 events for most members to feel settled in. My advice is to give it a shot and reflect afterwards if the event is right for you.Why is it important members update their RSVP (and not gatecrash)? β
Keeping your RSVP status up to date is about being a respectful member of the community. "No-showing" or showing up unannounced creates several issues:- Venue Limits: We risk overcrowding a venue, which can lead to safety hazards or members being turned away at the door.
- Financial Impact: Some venues can charge us booking fees or require minimum spends based on our expected numbers. If people donβt show up, the event organiser may face unnecessary costs.
- Setting Expectations: Accurate numbers help other members know what kind of atmosphere to expect (e.g., a quiet get together vs. a large party).
- Basic Courtesy: It is simply polite. Think of it this way: how would you feel if you arranged to meet friends, and they didn't show up without letting you know?
How will I find you? π§
To find us on the day, simply check the events comments section for a description of where we are located and what the organiser is wearing. In addition, we will also post a link to a WhatsApp group in the comments the day before the event. If you are late, or cannot find us, it is highly recommended that you join this, as we will be sharing a live location tracker there to show you exactly where we are at all times. Please note that once the event kicks off, weβll only be answering questions through that WhatsApp group.Will I require hiking equipment? π₯Ύ
This is going to be a 4 mile walk, along a concrete path, so there is no need to prepare yourself for an intense hike.Can I bring my pet dog with me? πΆ
You're welcome to bring your dog on the walk! We just ask that you take full responsibility for them and any issues that might arise.Can I just meet you at The Chester Arms or Isis Farmhouse? π»
Yes, you can! We aim to arrive at the Chester Arms at 2:45 PM, and the Isis Farmhouse at 3:45 PM.Do I have to return with you to the city centre? ποΈ
If leaving the event early is more convenient for you, you are welcome to leave when you see fit.We live in Britain, surely it's going to rain? β
If this turns out to be the case, an alternative plan will be posted, likely being socialising in a nearby pub.Where will I be able to park? π
Whilst it's not impossible to find parking in Oxford, the limited availability, as well as costs, can make parking incredibly challenging. Therefore, we encourage members to use the most convenient public transport available.Can I bring additional people with me? ββπ©πΏβπ€βπ¨πΌ
Yes you can, providing they are aged 18 or over. You are also responsible for any potential problematic behaviours from guests you bring with you. Please put them as +1 when you check-in so we can try and find us enough space.Is this a dating event? ββπ©ββ€βπ¨
Whilst we recognise and accept that relationships do form in social settings, we ask members to be mindful that this is not an event specifically for dating. Therefore, if your only reason for attending is to find your soulmate, this event will not be the right event for you.I've joined the WhatsApp Community, but I haven't been approved to join any of the groups! When will you accept these?
Whilst anyone is welcome to join the WhatsApp community, for safety and privacy reasons, the groups are restricted to members who have attended at least one event with the Oxford Social Circle. If your WhatsApp profile does not contain your name and/or recognisable image of yourself, you will need to confirm to the lead organiser, Kevin, for your request to be approved.Why must all members have a recognisable profile photo in the Oxford Social Circle? π€³π»
In the past, we have found that problematic incidents have all involved accounts with fake profiles or no photos.
To keep the Oxford Social Circle a safe space for everyone, we require all members to maintain a clear, recognisable photo of themselves at all times.
We understand that some members may have concerns due to their profession or personal experiences. While we empathise with these situations, we cannot make exceptions. Our responsibility is to ensure the collective safety of the entire group by maintaining a transparent community.If I sustain an injury during the event, will the organisers provide compensation? π€
Because we operate as a community-led group rather than a commercial business, we are unable to provide compensation or insurance coverage for personal injuries. By joining us, members have agreed to take full responsibility for their own health and safety.Β© 2026 Oxford Social Circle
12 attendees
Pub Quiz π»π
Holly Bush, Holly Bush ,, Oxford, GBWhat to expect: π€
Join us for a pub quiz at the Holly Bush. The quiz traditionally has eight rounds of various topics, with geography, general knowledge, books/literature and music commonly appearing.The prime focus of this event is to socialise, so please do not let a lack of confidence and/or contribution to the quiz put you down. Your company is more than enough to make this a great evening.
If you haven't had time for dinner, the Holly Bush has a food menu, including delicious pizzas, to fill your stomach.
Tables will be reserved the day before the quiz takes place. Please be aware that there is a small risk of there being no table space if you RSVP on the day of the event.
The conversation doesn't have to end when the event does. If you find yourself wanting to arrange follow-up gatherings, outings, or themed meetups, our WhatsApp community is the place to do it. It is the go-to spot for members to propose new ideas and stay in touch between events. You can join the community by clicking here.
Important Information: β οΈ
- RSVP the day before the event for guaranteed seating.
- It will cost Β£1 in cash to take part in the quiz.
- Repeated no-shows or instances of gatecrashing may result in removal from future group events.
- Drinking alcohol is optional
- Guests must be 18 years old or older
The Plan: πͺπ»
24 hours before the event, tables will be reserved for those who have RSVP'd. Once the organiser has arrived, a rough description will be posted in the comments of where we are located and what the organiser is wearing. Depending on how many show up, we will divide ourselves into teams and take part in the quiz until it is over.Q&A π
Here are the answers to the most common asked questions relating to this event:I'm new and feel anxious. Is this group not right for me? π¨
Attending for the first time is pushing you out of your comfort zone, so it is normal to feel anxious. The good news is you won't be alone as we always have a mixture of new and old faces. Regulars are very welcoming and it takes only 2-4 events for most members to feel settled in. Our advice is to give it shot and reflect afterwards if the event is right for you.Why is it important members update their RSVP (and not gatecrash)? β
Keeping your RSVP status up to date is about being a respectful member of the community. "No-showing" or showing up unannounced creates several issues:- Venue Limits: We risk overcrowding a venue, which can lead to safety hazards or members being turned away at the door.
- Financial Impact: Some venues can charge us booking fees or require minimum spends based on our expected numbers. If people donβt show up, the event organiser may face unnecessary costs.
- Setting Expectations: Accurate numbers help other members know what kind of atmosphere to expect (e.g., a quiet get together vs. a large party).
- Basic Courtesy: It is simply polite. Think of it this way: how would you feel if you arranged to meet friends, and they didn't show up without letting you know?
I'm not good at quizzes, should I give this event a miss? π
There are no expectations on any members to be great at quizzes, with the prime focus of this event being to socialise and have a good time.How will I find you? π§
To find us on the day, simply check the events comments section for a description of where we are located and what the organiser is wearing. In addition, we will also post a link to a WhatsApp group in the comments the day before the event. If you are late, or cannot find us, it is highly recommended that you join this, as we will be sharing a live location tracker there to show you exactly where we are at all times. Please note that once the event kicks off, weβll only be answering questions through that WhatsApp group.Where will I be able to park? π
Whilst it's not impossible to find parking in Oxford, the limited availability, as well as costs, can make parking incredibly challenging. Therefore, we encourage members to use the most convenient public transport available. However, if you want to take the risk, it is advised that you park at the Westgate car park.Can I bring additional people with me? π©π»βπ€βπ¨π½
Yes you can, providing they are aged 18 or over. You are also responsible for any potential problematic behaviours from guests you bring with you. Please put them as +1 when you check-in so we can try and find us enough space.Is this a dating event? π©ββ€οΈβπ¨
Whilst we recognise and accept that relationships do form in social settings, we ask members to be mindful that this is not an event specifically for dating. Therefore, if your only reason for attending is to find your soulmate, this event will not be the right event for you.Do I have to drink alcohol? π»
There are no conditions to what you choose to drink, with some main organisers being non-alcoholic drinkers.I've joined the WhatsApp Community, but I haven't been approved to join any of the groups! When will you accept these? π³
Whilst anyone is welcome to join the WhatsApp community, for safety and privacy reasons, the groups are restricted to members who have attended at least one event with the Oxford Social Circle. If your WhatsApp profile does not contain your name and/or recognisable image of yourself, you will need to confirm who you are to the lead organiser, Kevin, for your request to be approved.Why must all members have a recognisable profile photo in the Oxford Social Circle? π€³π»
In the past, we have found that problematic incidents have all involved accounts with fake profiles or no photos.
To keep the Oxford Social Circle a safe space for everyone, we require all members to maintain a clear, recognisable photo of themselves at all times.
We understand that some members may have concerns due to their profession or personal experiences. While we empathise with these situations, we cannot make exceptions. Our responsibility is to ensure the collective safety of the entire group by maintaining a transparent community.Β© 2026 Oxford Social Circle
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