Curious about relationship anarchy? Or are you a relationship anarchist in philosophy and/or practice, seeking local community, ideas, support, and mutual aid? This group meets monthly to discuss RA topics of interest and to socialize.
In this month's discussion, we will discuss the second core principle of relationship anarchy ("love and respect instead of entitlement") as outlined in the manifesto (linked below).
"Love and respect instead of entitlement
Deciding not to base a relationship on a foundation of entitlement is about respecting others' independence and self-determination. Your feelings for a person or your history together does not make you entitled to command and control a partner to comply with what is considered normal to do in a relationship. Explore how you can engage without stepping over boundaries and personal beliefs. Rather than looking for compromises in every situation, let loved ones choose paths that keep their integrity intact, without letting this mean a crisis for the relationship. Staying away from entitlement and demands is the only way to be sure that you are in a relationship that is truly mutual. Love is not more 'real' when people compromise for each other because it's part of what's expected."
If you are new to the concept of relationship anarchy, please read Andie Nordgren's short instructional manifesto on relationship anarchy before the event:
https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/andie-nordgren-the-short-instructional-manifesto-for-relationship-anarchy
Free parking is available and this location is accessible by public transportation.