MCM's All-Purpose Cuddle Event! During the spooky season!

Hi Guys, there weren't many takers for the movie "Things Like This." So I figured I'd switch this to the popular original format of MCM Cuddle Events. No movie this time. There's a good one coming in November.

Everyone must email me the following info after you RSVP:
MEETUP MEMBER NAME:
ACTUAL NAME/ZELLE NAME:
EVENT DATE:
REAL EMAIL ADDRESS since meetup mail is iffy. Without both your Meetup Name and Actual Name, I can't match up your fee with your name.

While we encourage folks to be open to cuddling all -- we also understand that sometimes two guys are not compatible. So cuddle accordingly. The event is cuddle-optional as well as clothing-optional.

Again remember when you RSVP that you send me an email so that I can mark you as attending. THE FEE IS $28. We NO LONGER accept cash, Paypal or venmo. *** To Zelle me send to: Dwight Okita... dwightokita@gmail

We have room for no more than ten. Late responders will likely be disappointed. Come on up to Dwight's cozy penthouse studio on the 29th floor overlooking the city. Get away from the hustle and bustle -- and join us for two hours of cuddles and/or sensual touch.
* Clothing-Optional is available, as well as nip play. * Ask your partner for what you want. Take responsibilty for setting boundaries.

WELCOME PACKET
For those who've rsvpd/paid, I will send out a Welcome Packet the week of the event. This includes the address of the event, pre-partnered list for first cuddle, new and improved Cuddle Menu, Do's & Don'ts guidelines, etc. Please make sure you let me know if you have or haven't received this important email.

Minimum number of cuddlers needed for this event to happen is 6. (In the unlikely event that we have to cancel due to low rsvps -- I will refund your fees.) Come out and cuddle with us. Events all take place on the north side near Montrose and the lake. (If you don't get my notices, please be responsible for reaching out to me to get critical info!) Ignore meetup map. We are the only male cuddle meetup group in the country.

What are the benefits of cuddling? It's been proven by science that nurturing touch/cuddling boosts one's feeling of being cared for, and decreases depression/stress. There's lots of science of this -- lowering blood pressure, increasing resistance, the release of oxytocin which is a neurotransmitter that makes you feel nurtured and safe. Babies who are not touched have been known to die of skin hunger. People who cuddle live longer!

FIRST HOUR (WE ARE ON OUR FEET)
-- We start with a WELCOME CIRCLE where each person introduces themselves. Shades are drawn, room is darkened. Please share if you are seeking a Therapeutic Cuddle or a Sensual Cuddle.
-- About half an hour is for HELLO HUGS where one gets to embrace most of the others in the room for 5 minutes each (hugging, body exploration, caressing, also clothing-optional can start now). Often this is where newbies start to relax.

SECOND HOUR (WE ARE LYING DOWN)
-- We do 2-3 cuddle sessions about 20 minutes each. You can use the bed, futon, or foam mats.
-- The last cuddle is your choice! It can be a Three-way Cuddle or Two-way Cuddle. (In Three-ways, each man takes turns being in the middle, touched by the others.)

THERE ARE NO REFUNDS (unless organizer must cancel), NO DATE CHANGES. Most members are gay men and they identify as male.

GUIDELINES
* Cuddling can be nurturing or sensual. Spooning, face to face, massaging. When in doubt, ask for permission.

* This is not sexual. It relaxing, soothing, therapeutic, sensual. PLEASE come with your body and beards freshly showered, and fresh breath. Candy or fresh mints are good. Body odor and food smells are a turn off when cuddling up close! Freshen your deodorant before leaving the house.

Always speak up if something comes up that you are uncomfortable with. And to speak up if there is something you'd like to ask for. Also this is communal cuddling. It's based less on physical attraction and more on knowing we all need to be touched. On the other hand, everyone has the right to say yes or no to a cuddle. Not everyone may be comfortable with everyone and that's ok. If driving, it's best to park on the street. There is limited guest parking below my building that's $21. No attendant. Some say it's user-unfriendly.

Diversity of body types, ages, backgrounds welcome. Drama will not be tolerated. The week of the event, I will send details, and my address/unit number. If you don't get it -- email me at DwightOkita@gmail. You are responsible for checking all emails and direct messages and Meetup site notices -- or you might not get important changes/cancellations/address info. Thanks! -- Dwight